| im not sure whats going on but somthing is up?
Posted: 7/4/2009 8:24:51 AM | Ok so you really can do better then him
He is doing stuff that you arent aware of and planning things but not sharing them with you. You dont decide together what you will spend time doing its all about him.
thats not love thats just having a girlfreind so his buddies dont think hes gay. ( really hes a jerk and you dont need that in your life!)
and you should have a look at your profile yourself. You know that bit about loyalty? something says to me this guy doesnt believe he needs to be loyal and you are acting a bit like a puppy where he is concerned ... big pat on the head and she will be satisfied ... you arnt his puppy!
what you do need is a spell checker and to slow down
but if you are still going to keep up your profile here is the spell checked version of it:
Well I live about an hour and a half from Bendigo
I am about to start a course in information technology which will be two days per week.
I'm not sure want I want to do yet but I definitely want a job using computers or to run my own business.
I love music, I'm into rock, metal.
I’m a shy and quiet one, I listen more. It takes me a while to warm up to someone and I talk on msn more.
I am a quiet sort of person who is sometimes very moody. I tend to be very perfectionist which will cause me to always get things done right but will also stress me out. I sometimes have a hard time getting to know or getting along with people but am very faithful, sweet, and kind once others get to know me.
I wear black and I die my hair.
I’m on my learners hopefully by this year I have my Ps
I have obsessions with skulls and vampires fairies all mystical things
I have an open mind about the paranormal
I also love home and away I grew up watching it.
And generally loud people don’t like me
Most people call me Goth.
Also I’m an amateur computer nerd.
I also want get a tattoo and piercing but my family would go off their head so I have wait until I move out.
My best quality is Loyalty...
Loyalty: It may take some time for me to befriend with someone, but that doesn't mean that I am less approachable, just that I handpick friends who I believe have the qualities and values that I share. Once we are friends I would do all I can to help them out if they ever need it. Because of my loyalty and generosity I tend to develop lasting and quality friendships.
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| im not sure whats going on but somthing is up?
Posted: 7/4/2009 8:27:31 AM | Thank you Gubblebum for your post.
:) It has enlighten me.
yeah he does he seems to have some stuff going on right now.
So im gona go back to my evdaystuff and if he gets in contact with me and comes around.
So be it ill just go with the flow. | |
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| im not sure whats going on but somthing is up?
Posted: 7/4/2009 2:48:50 PM |
OKAY IM NOT A ****ING HILLBILLEY
Im just a down to earth person and laid back a friendly nice person.
Yes i did finshed school went up to year 12 and graduted thank you verry much.
I cant help the cirstances im in at the monet. long story .
You don't even know me.
It's been a while since i used writing stuff and yesi do have skills,just not in this area.
I've only put this up once .
ive been noticeing some stuff latey i wasnt sure about.
Hah, OK sweety, I believe you. Your not a hillbilly. I meant all that for those that really were and there are a lot of them. But keep plugging away at life and you will eventually find your piece of happyness. | |
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| im not sure whats going on but somthing is up?
Posted: 7/4/2009 4:36:54 PM | HI
I did have trouble reading your post. What I did understand you are in pain, confused, and understand he is treating you bad. That is not a relationship.
Words are easy to say. So don't beleive the words that are coming out of his mouth. When a man tells you he loves you and really means it..you can see it in his eyes, the way he holds you. Men are chasers, they will come to you for affection. They will call you for your attention. They will make sure you see them in a crowd. There will be eye contact even in a crowd.
Don't settle for less than the best they can do for you. When they treat you the best you have ever been treated, and you treat them the best you can. That is when it is real.
Take care
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| im not sure whats going on but somthing is up?
Posted: 7/4/2009 4:59:20 PM | OP, you are very young and possibly could benefit from more life experience before you make the huge commitment of living with someone.
Don't get hooked up with some guy who tells you what he thinks you want to hear, and then his actions tell you something different. He may say he loves you, but he is NOT loving. Talk is cheap....
Enjoy having fun with lots of friends, spend some time dating new people and learn the difference in values each of them brings to the table. Focus on your course and get a good job, then find someone who can appreciate you as a person and treat you with respect in a loving and responsble relationship. | |
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Posted: 7/4/2009 5:22:20 PM | Yes i did finshed school went up to year 12 and graduted thank you verry much.
Why don't you forward this post to all of your former English teachers, so that they will hang their sorry heads in shame....
OT....if he seems to be losing interest, let him go. You have absolutely nothing to gain by attempting to hang on to a man who doesn't really want you. It will only bring you heartache. | |
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Posted: 7/4/2009 5:37:32 PM | Is this some form of different language?
Do they spell differently where you are from?
I cannot make heads or tails of your words or phrases.
Sorry - good luck with your IT classes. | |
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Posted: 7/4/2009 5:55:03 PM | oh lord ladies , are we really serious here , ok short and sweet , he isnt that into you , if he is doing contradictory things like that then the relationship is not going anywhere, to me it sounds like this all moved really fast for both of you , before you really start trying to move in with him or even have a relationship with him, you should know for a fact what his real intentions are , that goes for everyone on here guys and girls, jesus people are we really this freaking desperate that we cuddle up with anything that says i love you and has a pulse.
Dump the guy, get a self esteem , and stop falling for the first guy that says he loves you | |
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Posted: 7/19/2009 3:43:06 AM |
When you have people of this calibre getting together, Hillbillies for short, there will always be troubles that can never be permanently solved. They cant think strait for any length of time, and a problem solved one day is back on the table the next. There is a highly successful TV show that is dedicated to Hillbillies like these called the Jerry Springer Show.
How can anybody that has no skills or education be expected to deserve anybody else that isnt equally impaired? Officials call them the population of functional illiterates. They created all these problems for themselves by screwing off in school and not learning how to think and do for themselves.
How can I advise you to dump this jerk and find a better quality guy, when I know a better quality guy isnt going to be interested in Hillbillies? If you have an awesome body, then you can temporarily catch a great guys attention. But the Hillbilly in you will soon turn these guys off and you will be dumped in any manner of ways.
Unless you can make serious changes in your life to upgrade yourself considerably, you are pretty much stuck with what you get and you will always have problems being as happy as you want to be. I wish I could say something more positive here, but its your reality and non of Jerry Springers sound advice has done anything to fix the problems of the Hillbilly world in the 15 years it has been aired. But it certainly is fun to watch.
Haha you're my hero.....you wrote what everybody else was thinking | |
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Posted: 7/19/2009 4:59:36 AM | People have been unkind but if you are going to post a thread, it should be intelligible. When it is so bad that people can barely make out what the question or problem is, what does one expect outside a verbal whacking?
I am pretty damned good having been in administrative assistant land for around 20 years prior to deciding I like working at home with myself more because I'm not incompetent, careless or lazy.
I had so much trouble deciphering the OP and reposts that I am going off what others have said and ask the OP why she would even give a shit what this guy does? He is jerking her around, so now she will go about her business and wait to see if he really wants her?
Maybe you should find a decent guy, he doesn't sound like one. | |
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Posted: 7/26/2009 1:55:43 AM | I'm sorry, but OP is a barely intelligible post. You railed in a subsequent reply post that you are not a hillbilly and that you finished 12th grade.
Finishing school and applying what one learned are two horses of different colors.
If you claim english as your native language, and claim to have finished school, are you not embarrassed by your inability to construct a coherent sentence or poor command of spelling? Are you proud of yourself for such an underachievement?
I could understand if you couldn't remember how to factor a polynomial equation, but rusty at english????
You were taught, you CHOSE NOT to learn. Taxpayer money wasted on churning out marginally literate students, your time in class/school wasted AND the time, energy and efforts of your teachers disrespected when their teachings are ignored. WILLFUL ignorance. Shame on you.
I have to say, this is a much bigger problem than the post.
Want to know why?
Because there are opportunists , scammers, slick 5th avenue marketing pros that PREY on the ignorance of others and use that ignorance to manipulate tham, guile them and take advantage of them. I work in customer service and it is absolutely stunning to me that people have credit and debit cards yet take no time to attempt to read any of the paperwork (terms and conditions) and have NO idea how debit/credit transactions work, then rant at me, insist that life isn't fair because they are clueless and refuse to take responsibility for their ignorance.
Ignorance won't work as a viable excuse when your account goes to collections no matter how "good" a person you are. So many people enter that ubiquitous agreement (the bank and you have a legally binding contract) and have no real clue what they are agreeing to when they sign and thus, accept the terms of the agreement blindly.
Mark my words, and if you don't, they WILL at some time, come back to haunt you...
Ignorance will be your tuition in the university of life. The more you hold on to ignorance the higher the tuition.
I'm not posting this to be malicious or hurtful. I just think your priorities are misplaced...your education and your well-being (physical, emotional, mental and spritual) should be tops on your list. Does the relationship contribute to your well-being and elevate you? Your answer should determine your actions. | |
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Posted: 8/14/2009 12:20:46 AM |
When you have people of this calibre getting together, Hillbillies for short, there will always be troubles that can never be permanently solved. They cant think strait for any length of time, and a problem solved one day is back on the table the next. There is a highly successful TV show that is dedicated to Hillbillies like these called the Jerry Springer Show. How can anybody that has no skills or education be expected to deserve anybody else that isnt equally impaired? Officials call them the population of functional illiterates. They created all these problems for themselves by screwing off in school and not learning how to think and do for themselves. How can I advise you to dump this jerk and find a better quality guy, when I know a better quality guy isnt going to be interested in Hillbillies? If you have an awesome body, then you can temporarily catch a great guys attention. But the Hillbilly in you will soon turn these guys off and you will be dumped in any manner of ways. Unless you can make serious changes in your life to upgrade yourself considerably, you are pretty much stuck with what you get and you will always have problems being as happy as you want to be. I wish I could say something more positive here, but its your reality and non of Jerry Springers sound advice has done anything to fix the problems of the Hillbilly world in the 15 years it has been aired. But it certainly is fun to watch. 
ur an ***hole. | |
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Posted: 8/14/2009 12:35:52 AM | Okay, you are only 19 maybe 20 by now I don't know. I suggest you focus on your studies so that you do not have to have someone else validate you as a person. I read the post and I was really shocked by your spelling and grammar. F.Y.I. there is a tiny google search box at the top right of your screen. It's up there where you close the window. Start to type a word you can't spell and it will pop up. Not an insult just some info.
It is very important that you get a grasp on yourself. It is a hard world and there is no room for people with a lack of education. No men; more books. | |
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Posted: 8/14/2009 5:34:31 PM | | Please dear: Beware of anyone who demonizes their ex without taking responsibility for the fact that they chose to date/stay w/ the person. We all have choices here. Blamers are immature and guess who will be the 'evil' ex next? Yep that's right, you! | |
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Posted: 8/14/2009 5:35:52 PM |
Oh my gosh, why do some of have to go for the jugular vein? She's just a 19 year old kid, in a bad situation who's run into a smooth talking man.
Well shyt who could tell what the problem was?
I was so flippin busy trying to decode what the hell she said.... I mean come ON! That was unintelligible!
That's not dyslexic - that's not even on the same planet as this alphabet originated and I'm not saying that to insult her or be nasty! It's just the plain darned truth.
Spell checker! Spell checker! Some of those letter combinations don't even imply a language. | |
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Posted: 8/14/2009 9:20:55 PM | OP I see two different writing pathology, the one on your profile and "this".
As you are in Victoria (English) and a computer student leave me with two options:
- someone wrote your profile for you
- you are not in your normal state.
come back tomorrow, and if you change your tune, we speak. I do not give advices to people under influences.
In the remote case that you are suffering from dyslexia, message me in private. | |
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