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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 10/8/2009 4:50:31 PM | yes....
he taught me everything i know about being a smart azz....
he's paid his child support on time (like clockwork) since 2001
and he helped me through a tough time when i had cancer.....
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 10/8/2009 10:56:40 PM | I have good things to say about my ex's. Some ex's I can speak of more positively of than others. I've tried not to judge a person based on our relationship not working out; I mean afterall I 'chose' to date them so what would that be saying about me if I admitted to making a shitty choice. Everybody has good and bad qualities, myself included, and I try to focus on 'learning from the experience,' rather than bad-mouthing another person. And just for the record, I've been the dumpee as well as the dumper.
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 10/8/2009 11:28:02 PM | | I don't think I've ever dated or had a relationship with someone who there was nothing good I could say about him. There always had to be some glittering quality about him that attracted me in the first place but like the saying goes 'all that glitters is not gold'. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 10/8/2009 11:39:28 PM | It takes awhile for the hurt to go away but of the three long term serious relationships Ive been in, I have nothing but good things to say about the men I was with. I could name the reasons it didn't work out but we all have faults. Just because it didn't work out, doesn't make either of us the bad guy.
One of my ex's has the patient of a saint and helped me through some seriously rough times. Plus he's pretty friggin intelligent, a computer genius, and very interesting to have a discussion with. I learned how to be independent from him and how to think for myself.
The other is incredibly generous with his time and money. Doesn't even think twice if a family member or friend is in need. He's right there. And he's one of the sweetest guys I know. Him and the above ex are the two biggest reasons I made it through the police academy. Learned that I actually like musicals and trying new things isn't bad at all.
The third was just one I had the most in common with. He was my best friend. Wasn't judgemental. Very sincere. Would give you the shirt of his back. I developed my love of UFC from him and learned to love myself due to him being very understanding. Just a fantastic guy.
All three of these guys Im still in contact with from time to time because even though we're not in love, there's still love for them and vice versas.
But these guys also never cheated on me, stole from me, abused me in any way or disrespected me. We just were together for about 3 years a piece but didn't work out in the end for one reason or another. But they're still awesome guys and I wish them nothing but the best. :) | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 10/9/2009 12:26:26 AM | First girlfriend: She changed who I was, took me from being a nerdy kid and helped me realize that I was better than what everyone originally saw me as.
Second girlfriend: she made me laugh
Third girlfriend: we have a beautiful girl together, that is currently resting peacefully on the bunk above my bed. :)
Fourth girlfriend: She was very strong will and determinant on doing well for her and her son's future. She has succeeded at everything she has put her mind to and continues a vigilant battle for fulfillment in life.
Fifth girlfriend: She was perfect in every manner, intelligent beautiful, loving, patient, and I could go on but I'll stop myself to be polite to you.
I have good reasons for beef with 3/5 of these girls... 2 of which after our break up dated my 'friends', and one of which landed me a criminal record. The other two just got away... The shortest relationship out of the 5 was 2 years, the longest 4 years. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 10/9/2009 1:39:43 AM | Yea, my ex was a beautiful, loving, wonderful best-friend that will forever have her own special place deep in my heart. If all of humanity had her positive traits of compassion, empathy and understanding, we'd be alot better off. She was sexy as all hell and had a badass little rocker/punky style that got her laid pretty damn good by me at all hours of the day/night and her pigtails were great handles.
That woman had me in ways no one should ever grip another person's heart and soul.
A truly amazing person and I will blow my brains out before ever taking her back. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 10/9/2009 6:30:40 AM | | My most recent ex was a great guy. We went dancing, he cooked and did laundry. We went fishing. He was a good lover...The problem?? He didn't want to work. He didn't mind spending my money, which I have very little of. The other problem he had was the constant lies. Do anything, almost, you want to me...but don't lie..He is still a friend, but that's it... | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 10/9/2009 6:48:00 AM | | I get along with all my exes still. And while we split up because of less than pleasant circumstances, I try to see past those things and maintain civil, even friendly, relationships. Two of them gave me my kids and I'm very thankful for that. It's always easier to hang on to bad things, that seems to be human nature. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 10/9/2009 7:04:35 PM | Q: Do I have anything nice to say about my ex?
A: Of course I do!
1) She was very talented.
2) By far the most beautiful woman I've ever dated. Inside and Out.
3)Was selfesh and only though of herself. Its healthy to put "herself" first and formost
4)Had a great personality - advanced delusionary schizophrenia with involuntary narcissistic rage. We never had BORING days! 
5)Moved to a whole nother country & gave me only a days notice. Oh, and I totally understand because talking can sometimes get in the way of all that fun of planning to move to a whole nother country.
6)While gone she left all of her responsibilities to me, such as pay her half of the rent and to take good care of her cat. That was awesome! How did she know I wanted more responsibility in my life with very little money at the time. Gosh, I'm almost embarrassed as to how much she thinks of me at times. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 10/9/2009 7:47:32 PM | Absolutely! Itwas tough for a long time, and I never thought I would have wht I have today. What it took was patience, clear communication, respect for each others feelings, and the main thing-What is best for the children, not our own selfish stuff.
By clear communication, I mean using I statements...I feel hurt by the words that I heard you sy..." what I am feeling right now is anger, I will stop this conversation, and let's discuss this at another time when we are both calmed down..respect the other person, and acknowledge that they are in pain, and or hurting also. When we step outside ourself, and and think what might be best for the children(if there are any) then we allow ourselves to see another picture. Letting go in a relationship when it is not our choice cn be very painful-however staying in a relationship where there is no communication, trust or respect can be more damaging-sometimes people just don't get along, and if they are not willing to wok at it, it does become painful. Now, we get to make a choice-will I allow this to hurt me, or will I make a choice to feel the pain, work through it, and put it behind me? We can't always change people from hurting us on the outside, we do get to decide how it will affect us on the inside... | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 10/9/2009 8:11:19 PM | I am good friends with both of my x's.
I just love his wife and we are all friends.
Second one lives now at my son's house. I have stayed over at son's house and x and I have very nice chats. My son came unglued when I went up to x and hugged him.
I did that just to see what son and granddaughter would say.
Of course they kept saying,
"Went to your room just to check you weren't in Dad's room?" I don't have those desires for him anymore. He has been thru now bypass heart surgery and not in great health.
He is younger than me but I guess paying for all his drinking back when he would be gone for several days at a time when we were married.
I was very young when I married 1st husband. I was also dumb in the sex department.
My only regret is we didn't go for counseling. We both had faults and both had good points.
I was pretty young on 2nd one but he has grown up now. Lots of problems when married but I got past those. I care for him as a friend now.
3rd time he passed away. It wasn't a charm.
I have been now by myself since 1986
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