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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 10/9/2009 9:02:10 PM |
I am wondering if anyone has good things to say about their ex. Especially those that made the decision to end it. I was the one who walked out.
Good things to say.... hmmmmmmm
- he made good babies
- he is not the same man I divorced (a major improvement, believe me)
- he is now booze and drug free (another major improvement)
- he is a fix-it maestro, always was... at one point, he held 7 trade tickets
- he is a better Dad now than he ever was.... and the kids are the ones who gain from that.... which makes it ALL worth it. He is now a decent father... and keeps his children happy.... that is truly all that really matters to me now. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 10/9/2009 10:46:42 PM | | My third ex is lovely, intelligent, funny, and talented in many ways. Had she been willing to stop drinking and take the meds she was supposed to take for being bipolar it may have worked out | |
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MIZ_E
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Joined: 7/10/2008
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dn999
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 10/11/2009 8:31:08 AM | | Yes, I have more good to say than bad about an ex I dumped. Both ex's actually. They are both wonderful people. I really just want them to be happy, and I knew that I was dragging them down with my hectic work schedule for one. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 10/11/2009 8:48:19 AM | | i get a really bad vibe from people who discuss the ex in any terms at all...if you are living today to the fullest why would you even remember the name of your ex...i hate the ex questions...i just say we grew apart...i do not want to waste today dwelling on things that are over and done with...you cannot have fun while you are wallowing in self pity...don't ask don't tell should be your policy on the ex... | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 10/11/2009 8:58:19 AM | Sure, my ex is a nice guy in many ways.
1. made great babies
2. could fix anything (eventually)
3. made me feel safe
4. was great to have fun with
5. was good looking
My list of his failings is longer.....which is why he is my ex. It is over, next........ | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 10/11/2009 9:21:48 AM | #1 ex..
He kept his car clean & kept it serviced. AND onetime, he even put gas in MY car.
He taught me (eventually) how to defend myself, by never allowing anyone to raise an angry hand to me again.
He gave me two wonderful daughters.
He appreciated a clean home.
#2 ex....
He always had gas in his truck and cigs (without fail)
He gave me one beautiful daughter
He could tell, ummm ..... "creative stories"
He was great in bed!
He always appreciated me telling him what day was garbage day & when to cut the grass. He liked it so much, I repeated it every week.
Oh this was a good topic OP ...... difficult exercise thou! ;) | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 10/11/2009 9:39:00 AM | | All my exs have some good qualities otherwise I would not have been with them from the start. Exactly what is hard to pin point, I would say most were playful, enjoyable to be with, had an intrest im me and I in them. Just because things didnt work out doesnt mean I dont like them, it just means we each grew in different directions and apart. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 10/11/2009 3:28:10 PM | | Response to 391: Because I still have to see my ex durring the week to exchange our son. Therefore, there's a lot of contact. Otherwise I don't talk about her. If she is asked about I say she's the mother of my son, and I keep it respectful. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 10/11/2009 5:13:41 PM | | I do. For one thing at one time in our life together we were very much in love. Whatever happened did for a reason. Once the healing begins and the hurt is gone, you can go on and realize the hurt was the worst, not the person. Besides, mine gave me great kids and they are just as much a part of him as me. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 10/11/2009 5:21:21 PM | | Positive things about my ex? I allot of good things to say about her. She is a good woman, great person, and for the most part a good wife. People grow apart, it happens. Why drag up the negative when trying to meet new people? Your previous relationships have no bearing on your current ones. They only affect them if you let them, or if it's revolving around children and old bills. | |
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