| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 10/22/2009 1:03:05 PM |
all I see is people bad mouthing, putting down, or talking badly about their ex's.
Because they are still angry to their exes.
Yes... he hasnt contacted me in over 8 years and thats good
Maybe he lives well so doesn't bother you. If my ex were trying to contact me, I would think he's in trouble. I couldn't contorl myself not helping him. I am glad that my ex lives well not bothering me.  | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 10/23/2009 6:36:24 AM | | My ex husband was a good man and a great father we had too many outside influences in our relationship it was bitter in the beginning but we talk fine now and share secrets with each other..... a little bit of harmless flirting too... lol.. but friends forever as for my recent ex too recent you dont want negitivity lol... | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 11/5/2009 4:26:23 PM |
gentlemaNJIM4ONE: What a very heartwarming story. Good Luck my friend. I truly believe anything can happen if two people are willing to compromise and see the good in each other. You have my BEST WISHES!
Thanks GoodmanGreg.
It's been a long time since I was able to post anything here since I was in the POF poky for speaking out about an issue. Yep got put on restriction until today.
So the delay in thanking GoodmanGreg for his well wishes.
Now a month has passed and I can post yet another update. I am happy to say the EX is no longer an EX! We are both committed to making it work. Yep, we are once again a couple! Still not an easy road since she is 1100 miles away now and a family situation makes in impossible for her to move back for now. So what started out as a long distance relationship over 3 years ago is now back to being a long distance relationship. But this time we are both as dedicated to making it work. The bond is stronger then ever.
Again I want to thank those that came here and shared the good things they had to say about their EX's. Not all relationships end due to cheating, beating and other horrific things that some of us can and will still say there is some good things about our EX's
Love is not something we can turn on and off like water. Sometimes we can work out problems and get back together.
for those that can't for the above horrific reasons mentioned, I do wish you all a new love in your life. One that will treat you with respect, honesty and devotion. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 11/5/2009 4:31:32 PM | | well my ex had a great big pair of tits, did anal sex and went to swinger nites, so on that score she was ok, as a person she was a total ****, good riddance when I binned the waster. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 11/5/2009 5:10:52 PM | | It doesn't do you any good to bad mouth your X especially if there are children involve. Better to say nothing if you do not have anything good to say for the sake of the children. It will bite back at you if you discredit your X and your children will be affected by your action and behavior in a long run. Good luck! | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 11/5/2009 5:12:26 PM | Oh ya sure I do...
1. She was the funniest girl I knew, always made me smile no matter how bad my mood was.
2. In the beginning she was great at listening and giving me her honest opinion.
3. Most importantly she taught me to not be such a push over and at actually stand up for what I believe in no matter what. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 11/5/2009 5:36:59 PM | Yes, she's planning on moving in with the guy that she was fooling around with.
There's nothing that I could have said or done to him that would punish him nearly as bad as that will. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 11/5/2009 9:50:21 PM | The guy I was in the longest relationship with as very good to me for a while...he was very attentive, affectionate, and we had lots in common.
It was all good until I realized he was compulsively lying about EVERYTHING. ha. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 11/5/2009 9:58:54 PM | | Ive dated about 5 girls, and Ive actually stayed friends with about 2 of them. I will say good things about them. The first girl has been my friend for about 7 years, and while she really broke my heart at first, I realize now we were never meant to be yolked together. The other girl admitted ditching me was wrong, and still wants to be friends with me. She was such a nice girl. She took care of me when I had the flu earlier this year, none of the other girls would have done that for me | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 11/6/2009 6:48:18 AM | My Ex was funny. A great Father and a decent man. He just got himself an addiction and couldn't deal with it and at the time didn't want to get help.
My kids didn't need to see the destruction around them. The kids are now happy and only see their Daddy when we know he's sober and well.
Not a bad man at all. Just not for me anymore. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 11/6/2009 7:00:21 AM | My ex was a good mother to my daughters, always did the right thing by them.
She lost a battle to cancer a few years ago, I was genuinely saddened by her death, and mourned the loss of her in my daughters life. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 11/6/2009 7:09:43 AM | She was a fantastic cook, and was genuinley a very fun person when she was in a good mood.
Some of her worse traits taught me some good though, being involved with her greatly increased my self-respect and confidence when things started to crumble and I saw what pur relationship was like.
This said she is a far better friend than girlfriend. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 11/6/2009 7:10:23 AM | | I have been one to always see the best in other people. I did hold on to anger and bitterness at one time long ago. I then learned it is much more of a benifit for myself to look at the postive and not the negative. When angry and bitter it only hurts the one with those feelings so why not feel them, forgive and let them go. If someone would ask me about an ex I would tell the truth as I know it. I would not bad mouth them in anyway. If someone is bad mouthing an ex they are apparently not over them and ready to move on. Tells alot about where a person is emotionaly. That is not to say someone can not experince a moment of anger or frustration with and ex when children are involved. It comes down to do you dwell on it???? | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 11/6/2009 7:56:20 AM | Yes, I can. I think it's better to remember the good things about my previous partners, not the negative.
Who want's/needs the negative energy?
Better to focus on the good things.
You can always find Something positive to say about anybody if you try hard enough;) | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 11/6/2009 7:57:36 AM | Well....she could...ah, no....but then, her......well,no, not that either,.... but she really shined at......no that's not right....Once she....no, that's right she didn't.....ah....ummmmmmm.
She gave birth to my children.
(whew....finally...SOMETHING!) | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 11/6/2009 10:43:47 AM | Something good about the ex...
He once had excellent taste in women
he's good at fixing things
he's intelligent in some ways (clueless in others)
he can be VERY charming when there's something in it for HIM
he's a VERY convincing liar | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 11/7/2009 6:14:52 AM | | I have great things to say about my EX... He is a great father to our two kids and if I had to choose a father for my kids it will be my EX.. It took us a couple years after the divorce to become great friends to the point were it's scary.. He is a hard working man and will never let any relationship he's in come between his kids or me .... I have realized that it's hard to find a good man or women... | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 11/7/2009 6:24:36 AM | | Yep...i ended my marriage...and ive always said good things about him...always will....usually when people have bad things to say...it's out of guilt for accepting the bahavior for so long.... | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 11/7/2009 12:41:44 PM | Yes, about all of them.
I don't know if it's being lucky, or just choosing good men. Even though it didn't work out, and even though I remember why we're no longer together, there are things I still respect about each of them. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 11/7/2009 12:57:17 PM | One was very structured and reliable.... fine traits. We shared a lot of common interests but as I grew and changed, he stayed happily where he was at. The other was fun and easy going, always willing to try something new/fun. He had a good heart but there were just certain things that would never be resolved.
Is that most don't want to remember that there were good things? There must have been if you were in a relationship with them. Take note of the bad and gain some wisdom from it but don't let it harden your heart. It is easy to become bitter. Remember the good and let go of the bad.
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