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Posted: 7/5/2009 7:41:19 PM | I have good things to say about all my exes and great things to say about most.
If you don't, that says two things to me...
1) You are probably a petty, bitter, immature person who lacks perspective. They might be your ex for a reason....but they didn't get a chance to become your ex by accident. If you can even recall what brought you together in the first place, then you are probably a pett...wait, I said that.
2) You must be pretty fcuked up yourself that you chose to enter into a relationship with a person who had no redeeming qualities whatsoever.
If you can't find something nice about your exes to say...that is a reflection on you more than them.... | |
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Posted: 7/5/2009 7:44:06 PM |
What is meant by booty call?
...a call you make to get some booty....and not much else.
A booty call buddy....also known as a "cuddy buddy" and a "fcuk buddy" is someone with whom you have a relationship that is not only based on, but consist almost entirely of sex...and very little else.
You don't need a definition for "booty", do you? | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 7/5/2009 7:44:15 PM | My motto has always been "Never hate your Ex more than you Love your Kids, my ex and I were married 23 years and it was a great marriage, besides each other he gave me five really, really great kids and the ones that are married themselves have really great marriages too, and they have given me the best grandkids in the world. None of this would have been possible without him, so I will always be eternally gratiful and love him for his part in making this time in my life extremely happy. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 7/5/2009 8:38:39 PM | ABSOLUTELY! Since my teens, I've been in four longish term relationships and can still tell anyone why I fell in love with them. I still am in warm contact with them.
The one exception is the father of my children (15 yrs). I bless him for giving me two beautiful daughters and I am impressed by his artistic talents, but it ends there. He is a mean **stard. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 7/5/2009 9:05:33 PM |
I am wondering if anyone has good things to say about their ex. Especially those that made the decision to end it.
I ended it. And yes, I have many good things to say about her, despite that.
I'm not asking you to give reason or details as to why you dumped them. Just want to know if you can still say good things about them. After all, you cared for them at one time, so there must be some qualities you still like or even miss about the ex.
If I could find one just like her, minus the aspects of her that caused me to leave. I'd be the happiest guy in the world. For a long time with her, I was... | |
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Posted: 7/5/2009 9:16:53 PM | | My ex finaly found a woman that is perfect for him, they are very compatable and get along great. He has turned back into the man I used to know, and it is a joy to raise our kids together now, instead of fighting all the time. | |
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| Does anyone have anything good to say about their EX?
Posted: 7/5/2009 9:26:23 PM | I can honestly say I have and still do. Any time I mention my ex husband it is always in good taste. He was and still is a sweet man and unlike most other divorces I thank God ours was friendly. He still comes to all the family functions in fact often times he informs me of the upcoming event. We just turned out to be better friends then lovers. Simple as that!
I believe it is up to each person to see to it how and what impression they want to walk away with. Anger is a choice; bitterness is a choice, why not pick another feeling. For me it was important that we still had good communication lines for the sake of the kids and for us. Just made things a lot easier for all of us . Even during the marriage neither one of us spoke bad about the other in front of other people that was our rule. His own lawyer said. “Your honour, I have never seen a divorce like this in all my years of practice”.
What gets me is this... eventually the guy I am seeing or dating has to meet him lol happens every time. They say” he’s such a nice guy.. why did you divorce him?
A wise woman keeps her ex-husband’s faults far from her children and far from her family and friends.
If you don’t believe me ...you can ask him, but my lips are sealed! lol | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 12:11:31 AM | | I have many good things to say about my ex. She was the best thing that ever happened to me, but I screwed it up. We argued a lot and got in many fights almost everyday. We fought so much because I had some personal issues that I had never taken care of and they got to me. I took it out on her and now here i sit, wishing that I could go back in time and take back all i did. I loved her so much and I still love her to this day. She was and is the love of my life. Then again, what do i know? i'm just a 20 year-old kid. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 3:33:14 AM | I don't miss any of them, we did break up.
I can say something good about all of them.
One helped me build a privacy fence 2 years ago and tuned up my car.
I don't have bad feelings or hatred towards any of them.
They all had qualities that I admired, and learned something new from each one. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 5:56:26 AM | Yes, I can say many good things about the man he used to be or I believed him to be for the first 12 yrs of our mairrage. he was the perfect man for me loving effectionate partner we enjoyed doing most every thing togeather raising our family he was also my best friend and good father to our children. He was my favorite dance partner he is a good dancer. we did enjoy also camping and riding with friends.we had 12 good yrs that I don't regret will look back on that time as when I was the happiest. though we did go through some rough times, I wouldn'thave made it emotionally if he had not been by my side when I lost my dad.
I still don't full understand why he changed so, mid life crisses I believe was mostly to blame lost two of his friends to accidents started fearing his own mortality, thought he was missing out on something he began drinking and running with younger single people and became a bar toad. It's sad when I look at him it's hard to see in him the man he used to be on the inside or on the outside he also let his physical appearence go. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 6:35:00 AM | I had a few months of absolute contempt for my son's mom after she left ... mostly due to some shadey circumstance surrounding her leaving. But certain things were settled between the men involved, and she has since gone on to marry that other man, and I'm good with him too. lol
And you know, since she's my son's mom it's not like I can hate her. I love my son and she brought him into this world for me, and he is ... he's my son. And the boy deserves better than squabbling parents. I just look at our past more from a friends perspective rather than a "relationship" perspective, and look at how happy I was when I was with her ... which was increasingly depressed and and moody and morbid of thoughts. And I'm a better man than that. So, I thank her for being less of an Irishman than me, even though she's more Irish than me.
Everybody's happier now and that's what really counts.
And no, I would never get back together with her. She's precisely the wrong type for me. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 6:46:38 AM | Golfgirl (msg 14)
Amazingly well put!! And exactly what I would have said. Only you said it WAY better!! I have to say, the incitefulness and maturity of some of the contributers in these forums (and you are one of them) is truly inspirational to me and is what keeps me coming back each day to read more!!! Thanks!!!!!!  | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 8:40:12 AM |
If I could find one just like her, minus the aspects of her that caused me to leave. I'd be the happiest guy in the world. For a long time with her, I was...
I agree with this totally...if I met a guy just like my ex tomorrow minus the things that got in the way, I'd be stoked. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 9:00:14 AM | | Sure. My ex is no angel but she's a lovely person: smart, classy, very well respected in her particular field of artistic endeavour and fundamentally kind. I think she grew a tremendous amount as a person during the time we were married; going from somebody who was basically too shy to say "boo", to someone with a fair bit of moxie. Plus she had more guts than I did about ending a relationship that was holding us both back and had long since ceased to be a source of joy. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 9:08:35 AM | I don't have anything bad to say about my ex.
He was my best friend for many years...and we're still good friends.
We were together 29 years and we just discovered we wanted different
things as we got older.
I was the one that had the courage to end it...and he has since thanked me
for it. He's gone on to marry again and he's very happy.
I'm still single...and I'm certainly not unhappy.
I still think I've done 4 really great things in my life.
I married my friend
I had daughter #1
I had daughter #2
and I divorced my friend.
It works for me. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 10:16:28 AM | I have alot to say good about my ex....
He really is a great guy...a wonderful provider...strong man....hard worker.
I wish him many years of happiness....
I'm just really sorry that he allowed his rage to replace his happiness....because I really loved the happy man. | |
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