| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/6/2009 1:36:11 PM |
How can you say there is nothing wrong with him. And then blame this woman as he does...it is NOT her fault. He is in his late 30s and ejaculating like a 13 yr old. This is HIS problem not HERS. She needs to get a new man. | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/8/2009 3:22:34 AM | | Some guys are just a lot more sensitive down there than others from what a Dr. told me. I have this problem & the Dr. prescribed me a low-dose SSRI anti-depressant (Paxil). One of the side effects of Paxil is inability to orgasm. It works very well for me, I used to only be able to go for like 1 minute, but since I've been on the Paxil, 10-15 min. is the norm. | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/8/2009 5:44:30 AM | next time before sex, have him get it hard then bang the **stard on the nite stand till it goes numb. he should last longer than 2 minutes. if not, repeat step one.
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/8/2009 7:56:21 AM | Well...if its not anything you have said yourself....once he climaxes....wait a bit....suck him hard and you should have fun....Ive lasted for the longest after the first time....depends on how much sex you have too.....like how many times a week....more...he should last a while....less....will be quick. | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/14/2009 6:15:51 AM | | have him drink some booze will help him feel less and keep him up longer. Also a****ring will keep the blood there is he does cum you still can ride him till you get yours | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/14/2009 6:36:19 AM | What can I do to make a man last longer
cut him into smaller bites ...and dont over cook him...and throw some vegetables in the pot | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/14/2009 9:54:13 AM | | OP: Go for the good ole whiskey****and a thick condom. If that doesn't work go for the next best thing which can be purchased at your local sex shop. | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/14/2009 10:58:07 PM |
If this guy, not man, guy is blaming you for him getting off to fast by whatever it is you are doing: talking, moving, etc., get rid of him. He is way too old to be having that kind of problem and still blaming the woman he is with. Move on...NEXT.
I'd agree with this.
I mean, a problem is a problem and it's all well and good to try to find a solution, but if the guy's being a jerk in relation to the problem, what's the point? | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/15/2009 2:11:51 PM | First: If he was cheating it would only make him better in bed.
Second: Thinking its a choice on his part is WAY off.
If it's been months then you have something to worry about.
But not as much as he does.
I'm sure its frustrating for women who are involved in these situations as gratification is impossible in those circumstances.
For men though its not a matter of not being satisfied. It's immasculating and more than a little embarassing, and more than likely beyond his control and something that every girl who's ever dumped has had plenty to say to him about.
Asking lots of questions about not being attracted to you or cheating are piling the stress onto something that's already a source for him.
I know my endurance was drastically shorter after long dry spells as believe it or not, the feeling can be overwhelming after some time off. Over time though as long as there was some understanding this worked itself out. Sex shouldn't come with a score card about who came how hard when and how many times.
For the most part, even if he does finish fast if you were to try again 20 minutes later he'd probably last more than long enough. Understanding this is the key. The more you let him know its a PROBLEM, the more he's going to be thinking about it when its happening. In which case its like trying to ignore an itch. DON'T THINK ABOUT CUMMING DON'T THINK ABOUT CUMMING DON'T THINK ABOUT CUMMING is going to be racing through his head and y'know what, even though he gets to "finish" it still won't have been enjoyable for him at all.
Women tend to look at sex as "Well I'm letting you have a shot so YOU'D BETTER BE GOOD."
In my experience women get to grade their partners from the perspective of someone getting a B+ for showing up. Imagine how little you'd enjoy sex if after everytime he rolled over and huffed and puffed about how you're no good at it because you take so long to finish.
I've even turned down 1 night stands before because I knew that the pressure to be "good" after it had been a while was going to ruin it for me if not her. | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/15/2009 2:18:50 PM | | Try Trojan Extended Pleasures. He needs to put them on atleast 5 minutes before penetration. It is the simplest fix for you without drugs, surgery, etc... It de-sensatizes the penis, so if he usually makes you be very still after sex because any movement drives him crazy then this is the product for you!! Happy screwing!! | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/15/2009 2:55:00 PM | op..........its nothing your doing wrong. you have what i call "killer ****" that means your stuff is sooo good, a guy can't prevent cumming after seconds or a few minutes. the only way to prevent this from happening because i can imagine how frustrated you are, is to have him take it out repeatedly when he's about to cum and start over again.
i've had a few women with that "killer ****" they're perfect for quickies in public...lol don't worry op, its not a bad thing, its actually good because you know you have some good ass ****. | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/27/2009 1:06:58 PM | Read up about and practise Tantra (Tantric Sex) - for both of you it will be brilliantly helpful.
Sex is to be thoroughly enjoyed, not stressed over, but Tantra teaches the man how to gain more control over his physical responses (Carlos's post about stopping and starting when you pee is definitely a beneficial exercise for strengthening and controlling). There'll be loads of stuff for you both to do to both experience pleasure together. In the main, enjoy each other - if he can find alternative ways to give you pleasure, whilst learning how to gain more control over his reactions, he wont feel so shit or feel that he's letting you down is someway.
Try sex in different places or at different times - the pressure may well be taken off. Finally, dont chase the orgasm, but if it happens let it and then continue.....it's all about pleasure and there's many, many ways to experience that with each other!!!
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/27/2009 2:26:02 PM | http://www.esquire.com/women/sex/average-sex-time-0709
according to this site, surveys taken state the average sexual expierence last from 3-7 minutes. And that very few people have sex (constant penetration) more than 12 min.
Sounds like you take to long, not the other way around.
You should ask what you can do to cum faster!!! | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/27/2009 2:45:46 PM | | Tell him to get his frenum pierced. It takes away some of the sensation. On a seriouse note... Some guys are just like that and its due to the biologicall make up of it. He may just be really nervouse or he may have a pre-ejacultion problem. Not sure if there is any way to fix it but good luck | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/27/2009 2:51:46 PM | A sure fire way to make the sex last longer...try swallowing the first two loads... then when the time comes for the horizontal bop it will last much longer... 
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/27/2009 3:22:06 PM | I knew my relationship was over when I got to the point where I kicked my man off me.
He was 50 years old so age has nothing to do with it.
I was so frustrated with his inability to go past three strokes before he orgasmed.
I spent years being patient. I encouraged him. I made suggestions in delicate ways. I did everything I could think of to make him feel like he was a wonderful lover.
But I also experienced the "don't move and don't squeeze" verbal commands after he entered me. "Just lay there Connie, let me do it"..three strokes...he is done. He always told me it was just that I felt so gooooood!..wtf ever!
Was he good at oral...yes...is that enough? NO! A woman wants to feel her man inside her and not just for a few seconds.
The last time I was with him and he told me once again not to move, I lost it. I raised my leg to his chest and kicked his ass clear across the room.
Enough is Enough!
Girl...find yourself another man. You will be much happier for it. | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/27/2009 3:42:00 PM | | MORE SEX, lots more. I didn't see anywhere in your post how long you and Mr Fast Gun have been doing the deed. If I have gone a long time without intercourse, I'm quicker than when I am in a relationship. Especially in new relationships people can get really excited. He is asking you not to move because he knows he is close to cumming, so he is really trying to put the brakes on it and make it last longer. You also didn't say what your age, or his was. How about a hand job or blow job early in the encounter to get his first orgasm out of the way. Generally speaking most guys are gonna last a lot longer the second time around, and hey, YOU can get him excited and hard for round 2 can't you. | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/27/2009 3:59:52 PM | Have him play gooney baseball in his head . Thats when you hit the imaginary ball lets say a tripple than run the bases backwards in his mind. To become aroused only takes a physical component to climax usually has to do with being there mentally as well as physically if he can distract himself during the act it will mitigate the arousal level and allow some lenthening of the act.
Then again as a guy I do put a lot of respect in the theory that practice practice practice is the best way to become better at anything. Just don't make it a job or it may backfire in your face literally anyway.  | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/27/2009 4:37:29 PM | | The ESO program's been around many years - ALWAYS works if followed. Regular Kegels, keep clit centered & don't neglect Gspot. And LOTS of communication! | |
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| What can I do to make a man last longer
Posted: 7/28/2009 11:46:19 PM | He's probably got the hots for you so badly that he can't help it! This happens with a lot of guys, especially if you're new together, or even with couples that haven't been with each other in awhile. My BF can last a long time, but after not seeing each other for awhile the first one is always a quickie!
There are exercises you can do together, where you stop and pinch the head of his penis to keep him from cumming. Hold it until he relaxes, then start again. Go to a sex advice website or buy a book or video to find out exactly how to do this. I don't know of any good ones offhand but maybe someone else does.
Also, get used to your bodies being naked together and touching. Lots of foreplay, naked spooning and cuddling, etc. Spend at least an hour, do a little bit of this and that, without the goal of an orgasm, using the above technique. Don't do the deed for at least an hour or 2, and not 'til round 2 or 3.
A few sessions of this and you're probably good to go.
BTDT. | |
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