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Posted: 7/6/2009 12:03:43 AM | Now every lady on POF knows how cheap and meanspirited you are. Technically, when a guy leaves his shirt at a girl's house, he has had sex with her, feels comfy to leave it there in hopes of seeing her again, and never worries about it again. She will probably give you back the dumb shirt later on at some point when she does not feel like explaining it to the new guy she lets sleep over, and leave his shirt there.
By being silly about it, she is using it against you to piss you off. In the immortal words of SNL "when you drop your keys in molten hot lava, forget about them, cause man they're gone!" Deep Thoughts.
LMFAO   
P.S You already know this., and are not going to get pity from any1 here. We've all lost our shirts at one time or another. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 3:41:14 AM | You just don't want her to have it and she does not want to give it back.
Children grow up!! | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 3:52:40 AM | my goodness. is the recession that bad that you can't buy a replacement shirt? common, bro. it's just a shirt?
you are out of line. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 5:01:29 AM | i agree with you here.... it is not the shirt it is the PRINCIPAL of the whole dam thing....
she dumped your ass and you will use any means possible to hear her voice just one more time.... be it in love, or be it in hate... the sweet tones her voice...ahhhhh just like the song of a thousand angles ring down your spine.....
in truth... this shirt holds the scent of her sweet body. a scent you hunger for. in your mind you have visions of her holding it to her breast as she sleeps.... visions that you are not ready to cast aside.....
"my son" said the walrus to the carpenter, "the time has come... to gather your memories. to bury them in the sand.... and stroll towards the future!"
but thanks for the laugh.... it does take the gray out of a cloudy day! | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 5:37:39 AM | Well grasshoper what have you learned from this????
Next time a girl asks you for your shirt... make sure you take her thong and if it is a expensive shirt also a bra and hold it ransom | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 5:51:18 AM | | I think you just desire another confrontation. I'm a pacifist, myself, and if you have to ask for it back, the chances are good that you won't get it back...or anything else. The old 'so-and-so has some of my sh1t ploy' is just an excuse to see if they're still part of The Lonely Hearts Club, and let's do it once more for old times' sake...you'll find a new babe far more exciting than beating on a dead horse. Good luck, and good lovin'! Love, Titus | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 6:03:36 AM | Op: Are you THAT cheap, greedy, materialistic?!?!?! Or are you using this to keep some form of the bridge alive between you and your, now EX, Girlfriend? (which is the REAL reason)
Because of the Principes?! Do not make me laugh! (sorry you already did); You simply lowered yourself by doing so; be bigger then that! have some shoulders!
Having it back or even the money will maybe make you win the petty battle of ego, but will make you lose the war of the better person.
Forget the T-shirt, Forget the Girl, move on, have a life and go buy yourself another T-shirt and some man pants. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 6:36:52 AM | OP, I understand 'the principle of the matter' and all that. Truly, I (and I believe the other posters) do. However, if you insist on making contact over this shirt it could wind up costing you much more -- like attorney fees, court costs and fines for harrassing or stalking behavior. I'm not saying that's what you're doing but it certainly could appear that way.
I hope you really take this lesson to heart. Look out for #1 and develop the ability to say "No" (instead of claiming some itty-bitty woman MADE you do something you didn't want to do. If not, next time you could be saying "I want my life/boat/car/house/kids/retirement/savings back." | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 6:40:54 AM | OP You recently had a birthday being Taurus and all.....Why didn't you ask everyone to chip in for a new shirt?
Lost it? Likely story. More like she tossed it!
I know you are going with the principle but honestly this does make you sound 'cheap' and argumentive. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 9:14:51 AM | Haha. At least it's a break from "why can't a nice guy get a date?" and "why doesn't he call?" Count your trolls- er, I mean, blessings!
I say, if you really can't afford another shirt, just wash one you already have. I know, you probably can't afford the laundromat either, but hand-washing takes minutes, and it can line-dry overnight. | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 9:22:31 AM |
She essentially just made me leave without it one night.
Clearly you left your nads there as well...do you want those back too? | |
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Posted: 7/6/2009 10:00:31 AM | | So, you left a shirt at your g/f? I`m sure you can buy another in a week or 2. I left my 500.00 dollar bike at my ex-g/f because I use to stay with her on weekends and we rode a lot. I forgot it there and wanted it back but because I cared for her alot I just let it be. I gave her a leather chair and ottoman worth over $500.oo because after she had an operation I wanted to show that I cared for her. I have let it all go. I still think of her after over a year and a half. So, don`t be so, petty. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2009 6:52:06 AM | | C'mon, have a heart. It's just a cheap shirt. You must be a real miser if you expect her to buy you a new one! Yes you are out of line and being especially petty. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2009 7:05:50 AM | LMAO. It actually reminded me that I used to snare a black T-shirt from every guy I dated. I still have most of them.
Let it go...she wants the shirt (you know it isn't lost) to remind her of you...you aren't going to get it back. By now, the mere mention of the shirt reminds you of her...do you really think you'd want to wear it again? | |
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Posted: 7/9/2009 7:14:28 AM | | I call bullshit on this. Your using the shirt as an excuse to stay in contact with her. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2009 7:17:54 AM | It's a SHIRT.
Unless it was made of gold and precious gems..why do you care about it?
Unless you are looking for a reason to keep things going w/ her,screw the shirt and move on.
Unless ,of course,you ARE trying to keep things going w/ her. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2009 7:22:35 AM | I say you pick a really dark night and sorry no silly syllabical pun on knight k..
okay so you break into her house.. or apt or condo or tent .. where she re-sides k.. and you tip toe around on your tip toes.. k.. not the boner you have in your head and hung dung for her .. and when you find the shirt .. you tie your azz up in it .. get out some hand cuffs.. and duck tape and before you hog tie yourself in the cuffs you call 911 with her cell phone .. and then quickly duck tape your mouth over and wait til the cops show up from your disturbing .. and terrifying .. cry for a pair of nuts.. when they get there begin.. squirming and beating the floor.. and tell them after they wax off the duck tape from your wienie squealer .. that you've been tied up in that shirt in the closet since you split up and finally you get a stay in another cell and your shirt back.. and a cell phone you gottah answer .. ringing all the time in your lil.. no brainer.. hmm dat should.. suff .. vice .. k.. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2009 7:24:54 AM | | It's a shirt, get over it and buy a new one yourself. You could choose to see it as an aggravation or a compliment that she apparently wants to keep your shirt. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2009 7:34:10 AM | No, not unreasonable at all. Since she 'lost' your shirt maybe she can let you pick one of hers. Are you the same size?
Stay on top of this issue. She probably wants you back and her way of keeping you in her life is to perpetuate the 'lost shirt' tale. This way she can always suddenly 'find' it. Call her several times a day. Park in front of the house, you know the usual stuff. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2009 7:38:28 AM | | Holey mackarolee.. Brewton.. if I had a shirt , shoes, and a shave and shit for every guy that sc'wed me outah a my straight jacketless shirt.. I'd be the richest bill fold and bulging vagina.. in ursula miner.... get over it Op.. I haven't!!! | |
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Posted: 7/9/2009 7:41:43 AM | | My ex still has my bike, half my furniture, 2 designer dresses, and nearly all my summer clothes. He can sell them on eBay for all I care. I'm not going back there for anything. | |
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