| no sex for 15 months
Posted: 7/7/2009 5:30:35 PM | | Work and other obligations also take a big part in priorities. | |
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| no sex for 15 months
Posted: 7/7/2009 5:49:40 PM | Are you arms and your hands very built up? Do you prefer your right or your left hand? Or are you non committal about those kind of things? Guys like you are never loyal and faithful to a hand. You will spank with any hand that is convenient. No wonder you have gone so long with out some nookie!     | |
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| no sex for 15 months
Posted: 7/7/2009 5:57:02 PM | its been ...........well way to friggin long for me...But i can say i could lift a fully loaded minivan with my right arm. I'll leave the reason why to your imaginations.
But i pity the poor woman i sleep with next...she had better pack a lunch and not make any plans..because its going to be a long session. | |
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Posted: 7/7/2009 5:59:36 PM |
How long are you supposed to hold off after child birth?
Depends on how the birth went. Most doctors will say 6 weeks. Since I had normal births with no tearing or damage and not too much bleeding, it was 9 days with the first, about 2 weeks with the second and 12 days with the third. I'm sure having sex that quickly is not recommended, but it worked for us. (although my husband at the time did say "wow, you're quite a bit looser" 9 days after I gave birth. Gee, d'ya think??)
Longest stretch for me over the past 14 years has been 3 months. After my divorce I quickly found a FWB, and now that I've found 'the one', damn it if he doesn't live on another continent! That was the three month stretch. | |
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Posted: 7/7/2009 6:08:31 PM | After the divorce, I went 4 yrs. without sex... I knew I needed to heal, and the last thing I wanted was to attracted anyone even remotely like my ex! I had seen too many of my friends do it, and I was not going down that road or even pausing to read the sign post.
Most recently, I was in a 9 month relationship, and when it ended, I went for about 18 months without.... that ended last fall.
If you enjoy sex....why would you go so long without it?
Because to many of us, our emotions have to be involved too.... or they get involved shortly after sex comes to play in the relationship. So, sometimes we know we need a break, or other things take precedence..... so we end up going without for a while.
It isn't that a person doesn't enjoy sex.... I think it is more that they make a choice to do some thinking with the head above their shoulders.... and yes, it is relevant for both genders, IMO. | |
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| no sex for 15 months
Posted: 7/7/2009 6:38:56 PM | | It's been so long since I last had sex I can't remember who gets tied up. | |
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Posted: 7/7/2009 7:29:39 PM | 11 years + but I shoot things so i get a bang one way or the other.ive made peace with it.lol | |
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| no sex for 15 months
Posted: 7/7/2009 8:43:40 PM | | I have one friend who has gone over 19 years and another that rarely goes 19 days -- so people can cast quite a different perspective on their physical and emotional needs. I don't think it's wise to dwell on intervals -- and it is not something I would specifically track -- it becomes like one of those signs on a factory 947 days without a time loss injury.... With each failed experience there's a rather geometric decline in physical needs. | |
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| no sex for 15 months
Posted: 7/7/2009 9:04:49 PM |
backcheck, did your wife have oral surgery too? That would be a real downer. No, ovarian cysts, but I don't count oral....enjoy it, but there is no substitute or vaginal. | |
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| no sex for 15 months
Posted: 7/8/2009 3:35:25 PM | Ah, hell, son, that's nothing. I beat that span several times over and that was married.
Difficult? Hmm, let's just say I have little recollection of the period and would prefer not to. It was not fun, not pretty, and more frustrating than talking to a teenager.
TK
{was a good time to reflect on all the topics we should have discussed before marriage ... but didn't} | |
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Posted: 7/8/2009 3:38:55 PM | | 3 years. It sucked, but I got a hell of a lot of work done. | |
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Posted: 7/8/2009 3:54:54 PM | The last four years of my marriage and two and a half since divorce was final so 6 1/2 years. I feel for you OP. I chose not to pursue outside opportunities while still married but separated, and took a year off from dating after to find myself again so 5 of those years were self imposed, and now I am lucky just to get a response to a friendly email.
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| no sex for 15 months
Posted: 7/8/2009 5:46:31 PM | | LOL boy have I got u beat... I'm at 19 mnths... 20 mnths in a few days actually. It sucks cus smtms I'll b fine but summer time is hell for me cus I def go into heat! | |
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| no sex for 15 months
Posted: 7/8/2009 5:57:16 PM | Make that 17 years, but then when you are a parent of a handicapped child you do what you have to. Now that I am widowed and alone , I don't cherish not having intimacy at least 2 or three times a week, however there have been week or 2 intervals. Particularily I would like to have one last soul mater/ partner who has like interests. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2009 8:52:58 AM |
It's been so long since I last had sex I can't remember who gets tied up.
Whoever asks first.
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Posted: 10/12/2009 10:06:19 PM | | Thing Fish, you just does not understand the reprecussions of the homonculus of the eternal elixir. Y'all's be better gettin' back to the fundamentalism of the poodle, understands what I's a sayin? Say it's right, Ob'Doola d'X. | |
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| no sex for 15 months
Posted: 10/12/2009 10:10:45 PM | I think the longest I went was around two months or so. I was usually able to find someone to have sex with even if she wasn't the ideal woman.
Ed | |
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| no sex for 15 months
Posted: 11/4/2009 8:28:26 PM | Long enough but it was not a choice, I had a really hard time finding a suitable sex partner, and for what I hear from friends around my age, for some reason both men and women are horny but we are not able to connect as easily as before.... part of that is the 'cougar' phenomenon and the other is that we are no longer in the bar scene, so getting to know women gets trickier with time, and trust me, POF will not help you a great deal.
Eventually either you find the right woman or just get used to have sex by yourself in te shower (at least your balls won't hurt)  | |
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Posted: 11/4/2009 8:33:01 PM | | I've gone two years, to help deal with it I started working out at the gym. It did up my sex drive a bit, but I would be so sore and tired that I couldn't have done anything anyway. Also try long walks, after the sixth mile your mind kind of turns to mush and you don't think about anything but getting done and sitting down. | |
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| no sex for 15 months
Posted: 11/4/2009 8:54:19 PM | | 12 months and counting. I keep myself busy during the day.. and the only time i would think about it, is when im layin in bed at night... doesn't bother me much lol... anymore | |
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Posted: 11/5/2009 12:56:10 AM | | 8 years was the longest I went without since I first had sex. The first couple years were bad but it got easier, I took care of myself every day though as I knew for sure if I didn't get that stuff out of me I would go crazy. | |
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| no sex for 15 months
Posted: 11/5/2009 4:25:48 AM |
i am nervous about getting into a relationship at the moment as the wounds from my divorce are still there.
That's very sad! Never let the sins of the past affect the now and future! Get over it fast or you won't be happy in any future relationship and you could be turning away some awesome women who want to be in your life! If you get over that crap you may very well find a great woman to help you get off the dry spell! | |
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