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Posted: 7/9/2009 12:38:52 AM | Wow...First I wanna say THANKS to all you who offered some really good viewpoints on this...I really appreciate it! In retrospect I can see now why theyd be upset about it...I didnt think theyd see it like that. I never wanted them to feel like they werent good enough, cuz they were...I just simply get more pleasure from their orgasms than i do my own....Weird I know...But I didnt realize how selfish I was actually being. I can see now where they would feel a bit cheated...I mean they both said as much, in their own way...(Although not quite as eloquently) Thank you again for your responses to this thread...The whole thing had me kinda vexed.
As for those of you who felt the need to talk shit...
Well, **** ya'll! lol
If you feel the need to bash someone on a forum where you dont have to worry about getting chin checked for your dumb ass responses then try getting a life...Maybe take up a hobby. But dont sit here and act like you know what the hell you're talking about. Some people actually come here for some REAL help and advice...NOT to be tormented by some douchebag with a big mouth!(Or fingers in this case) | |
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Posted: 7/9/2009 12:54:22 AM | | lol Ok...Where the **** is this OP thing coming from!? Ya'll mother****ers must be higher than ME! lol If thats some kinda Andy Griffith reference then I'm gonna be pissed! lmao | |
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Posted: 7/9/2009 7:15:45 AM | Most women tend to be very generous lovers. When you state:
Personally, I seriously enjoy getting a woman off as much as I possibly can. I enjoy doing EVERYTHING and anything to get my partner off as much as possible each and every time
How can you not understand why a woman would feel the same way. Only it's worse, at least the woman O'd. You didn't get anything from that perspective. | |
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Posted: 7/9/2009 8:46:59 AM | Mystic, what got most of the nasty posts was your
cuz I like to help people where I can with the knowledge and wisdom I have....
statement. Dude, you're 24. Even by the time you reach the ripe old age of 26 you'll realize you knew jack sheet when you were younger. THAT knowledge - of how much you DON'T KNOW - just increases every year you're alive and conscious. Not a smack down for being 24 just from OUR perspective a good poke in what shows as an overinflated ego and a delusional concept that you "know" something.
Enjoying GIVING a woman orgasms is a GOOD thing. Many even at my age just don't "getit" when it cums to making your woman feel sexy and wanted and lusted over and needed ... sexually and emotionally - as a friend AND lover. Not caring whether she gets to punch all your buttons just illustrates that you don't quite understand them yet.
That said, from my perspective and the author of the TRY THIS thread I have to tell you that THE biggest hurdle to overcome when a couple discovers this is that SHE can orgasm over and over again and HE ... just .. CAN'T ! SHe wants to return the favor - the pleasure that he has discovered in making or being able to make her orgasm all night long. It AIN'T there. Like I said, above, as long as he gets off once or twice and she makes it exciting, is open to or initiates variations that make sex always fun and makes him crazy then he will love orgasming with her when they make love AND THEN he will love giving her as many orgasms as she wants / needs or can handle because that's just the way she's wired.
In a loving trusting relationship they will accept their gender specific abilities and limits and that will be OK. Trust me though, when her lover is giving her as many orgasms as she can handle every time they make love she WILL do everything in her power to make sure that when she gets him off it will be with a 200% effort !!! | |
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Posted: 8/18/2009 2:38:27 PM |
I was about the joy of sensations, various touches, intensities, visuals - the extended foreplay is so incredibly pleasureable to me, not some big bang end result...not that those aren't fun as well.
I think most women feel this way. My fellow men need to man up and stop watching all this stupid, lame fake porn and truly learn how to please women. | |
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Posted: 8/18/2009 8:13:22 PM | I had a similar situation like this. About 2 months after I found my wife was cheating on me. I went into a serrious depression and lost about 20 pounds!
At a sales meeting I end up with one of my colleages and gave her a multitude of orgasms. Problem I could not get it Up. Next night the same thing. I explained the Lexapro 10mg and stress situation, and she understood, but you could tell she wanted to return the favor, and I just could not pull the trigger.
A few weeks later I get some Blue ED drug and I could offer her a multitude again. This time I can have an orgasm also great for me. For her it was important to reciprocate.
So the gift is in the giving from both sides. She understood the situation but she was real happy to return the favor! | |
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Posted: 8/19/2009 1:35:20 AM | yeah, that's all good..and I definitely enjoy multiples..but I take as much pleasure pleasuring my man as I do receiving..so ..it's exactly your logic, reversed..nothing wrong with just taking turns for the night once in a while..but for the most part you can both enjoy the pleasure of giving pleasure =)
flipping out over sex is counter-productive though..just sayin'
***sighs*** I really should read all of the posts before responding , lol | |
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Posted: 8/19/2009 8:15:26 AM |
But Ive run into a couple women who got extremely upset when and if I didnt get off myself....Regardless of how much I obviously enjoyed myself...When I explained WHY I didnt care if I got off or not, they flipped like I had done something wrong.(Which tripped me out, cuz after 5 orgasms you'd figure shed be too tired to ****)
Any thoughts on this?
Well...think about it this way....how would you feel if she didn't get off?
I am a 'sacrifical orgasm giver'myself...
Can totally handle going without to make sure my man is pleased.
He get's upset that I don't come.I am fine with it.Used to it as a matter of fact.
Some people take someone not coming personally.
Wouldn't you? | |
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Posted: 8/19/2009 8:17:11 AM |
lol Ok...Where the **** is this OP thing coming from!? Ya'll mother****ers must be higher than ME! lol If thats some kinda Andy Griffith reference then I'm gonna be pissed! lmao
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Posted: 8/19/2009 8:30:30 AM | ORIGINAL POSTER
Damn! After reading his self-promoting thread starter, I was certain it meant Omniscient Paramour. 
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VVVV I plead the 5th on that one, Dave. | |
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Posted: 8/19/2009 8:41:29 AM | CSB, don't you remember when YOU were 24 and knew everything there was to know?
Benefit of the doubt(s), I think he meant well but ...
As stated by a number of women here it is more than apparent that many feel THE SAME WAY. They often are psychologically programmed to cum when they feel him cuming ... which is GREAT and very very mutually satisfying. Nothing sexier than feeling those spasms deep in her just when you are too!! When she knows that he has had a really good one then she can lie back and let her partner do those things that'll drive her wild for the rest of the night - or not depending on her mood. The option is always open though to giving her what she is capable of enjoying and she can do that once she knows she's taken care of her guy first.
The OP needs to realize that by cutting her out of the loop and concentrating only on her O's he is denying her exactly what he professes to enjoy so much. Not selfish methinks. Just ignorance. At least he doesn't have the "I had mine. I could care less if she did too" attitude that some maroons have in here!
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Posted: 8/19/2009 8:42:07 AM | Faking: The problem with female orgasm is, with the exception of a few squirters, you don't SEE the stuff shoot out like it does from a man, so there's no guarantee you REALLY got her off.
Be delighted you were with "givers" who wanted to see YOU squirt! Give-and-give...it's a beautiful scenario. Indulge them, and stroke it until you shoot your goo. They're obviously into the prurient thrill of getting YOU off too. | |
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Posted: 8/19/2009 8:43:53 AM | | I am the same way. If my partner don't get off then I am not satisfied. I would rather my partner get off then myself. You have to find a partner that feels the same way, so you both get satisfied. So since u satisfied her she wants you to experience the same. She is missing out on your grand finale so she is being cheated in a sense! | |
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Posted: 8/19/2009 2:56:14 PM | Not that I really even blame the OP jerseygirl, check out his screen name, he probably smoked a bowl before he typed that.
Hilarious!!! I didn't even notice that. Nice! | |
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