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jarbarian2

Joined: 2/13/2007
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almost 5 years living together now she's just gone! Posted: 8/5/2009 8:40:30 AM
OP there is a book you need to read called "No More Mr Nice Guy" (Glover). You can get it on Amazon. It's around $10.00 and worth it's weight in gold. Get the book and read it. When you do, you'll understand how you contributed to the demise of the relationship, how to rebuild your confidence and self-esteem and how to behave (like a man) in a relationship. NOT how to be a jerk and certainly how to cure yourself of the "Door mat nice guy" syndrome. You can't control her nor can you change her. You may realize, after reading the book, that she was broken beyond repair and what's happened now was going to happen one way or another. And it will probably happen to her again and again. She IS broken and you can't fix her. Forgive yourself for picking a bad apple, read the book, heal and look forward to meeting someone far, far better for you.

IsabelK

Joined: 7/19/2009
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almost 5 years living together now she's just gone! Posted: 8/5/2009 8:55:17 AM
Treat yourself as you would your best friend right now. Be gentle and kind with yourself. When others treat us like sh1t, is when we need to remember how precious we really are.

mcwr

Joined: 3/24/2009
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almost 5 years living together now she's just gone! Posted: 8/5/2009 12:42:41 PM
Unfortunately she had an anger problem but I always stuck bye her and put the pieces back together She doesn't respect you, because you let her treat you like crap. ALWAYS stand up for yourself. You will get over her. Ok, I just read your latest post. Congrats.

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