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 _King_Of_Kingston

Joined: 2/24/2009
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Why Men Prefer Pretty Faces
Posted: 7/8/2009 7:11:10 PM
There are a lot of studies that indicate proportions that are selected as most attractive are consistent across cultures and races -- for example the geometry of the hour glass figure is consistently assessed as desirable -- however "beauty" is more ethnocentric.

Many attributes that are seen as very highly attractive amongst the people of the South American rain forests wouldn't ever make the cover of Vogue and vice-versa.
Why Men Prefer Pretty Faces
Posted: 7/8/2009 7:13:54 PM
Men prefer pretty faces so they will get all hot and KISS and KISS and KISS and get excited. Hello. What turns one man on may not turn on another one. The wise words of sweet daddy are so true. My oldest son thinks a certain woman is pretty and I look at him and say "what" you gotta be kidding me. So pretty is what each person deems pretty and not necessarily is that person pretty at all. I see alot of ugly women with handsome men but that is my view...he obviously feels she is pretty.
 spicynicegirl

Joined: 8/10/2008
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Why Men Prefer Pretty Faces
Posted: 7/8/2009 7:33:55 PM
Pretty is different to different people.

I would hope that once you get to know someone, male or female, WHO they are becomes slightly more important than just their looks.

I've read about a musician who recently dated Jennifer Aniston and he was so excited about the date because she was like his no.1 fantasy woman or something. Anyway he told a magazine about their date and he went on to say how disappointed he was in her when he finally had his chance. So perhaps her looks didn't maintain the interest. Could this be why we see her on cover after cover "seeking that elusive boyfriend". In other words she looks lovely but that's it. There's not alot to her.

Just a thought..................
 TOMic bomb

Joined: 10/5/2008
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Posted: 7/8/2009 7:52:49 PM
a pretty face don't make a pretty heart...forgot who sung that but it's true. and a pretty face don't mean the pvssy is good either.
 BigDaddyJinx

Joined: 11/4/2006
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Why Men Prefer Pretty Faces
Posted: 7/8/2009 8:56:51 PM

a pretty face don't make a pretty heart...forgot who sung that but it's true.

That would be Robert Palmer...Bad Case Of Loving You.
 _King_Of_Kingston

Joined: 2/24/2009
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Why Men Prefer Pretty Faces
Posted: 7/9/2009 3:33:04 AM
"Pretty" is often directly linked to symmetry of features -- and its assessment is part of the "toolkit" provided to us after millions of years of evolution to assess a mate. Symmetry is read as a Quality Control feature -- good breeding stock -- as they say in the livestock business.
 HazelRose

Joined: 6/15/2009
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Why Men Prefer Pretty Faces
Posted: 7/9/2009 4:03:00 AM
Even mother dogs and cats will roll out out of their litter the babe that is deemed "not fit or ugly". It is a sad and scary world we live in, but only the strong suvive.
 hellgremlin

Joined: 5/23/2009
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Posted: 7/9/2009 5:51:30 AM
Why men prefer pretty faces?

Because the alternative is ugly faces.

I should get a Nobel for this one!
 Cochyn

Joined: 3/4/2009
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Posted: 7/9/2009 6:39:57 AM
Why why why exactly did I just read this entire thread, which I don't usually do, only to find out that some ignorant idiot pointed out he's allowed to like pretty ladies based off a study?

First of all, according to that study it was prettiness in general and not specifically gender based so that also means that women are predetermined to prefer pretty faces as well so go get yourself in shape! I like a hot man! Oh my God, blue or green eyes, with nice trimmed eyebrows. Tall and muscular. Brown hair. Sound good to anyone? I either just described Brad Pitt or Andre the Giant. Which one are you going to be particular to? Subjective subjective subjective

Secondly, it's a study. I bet if I do a quick google I could find 5 more similar studies and probably 10 more to contradict it. Does anyone actually listen to or pay attention to studies anymore? Hell, if I were good enough I could probably find half a dozen studies to condone serial killing!
 miss_contemplative

Joined: 3/12/2008
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Posted: 7/9/2009 6:51:04 AM
Babies seem captivated by my face and stare at me a lot when out in public. I'm going to take it as a compliment considering this study's findings.

Nothing like a baby to give you a sense of unconditional love, especially considering their lack of prejudices and influences.
 Zebra Circle

Joined: 4/12/2009
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Posted: 7/10/2009 5:49:46 PM
To a blind man, there are no ugly faces.
 kpooks

Joined: 12/23/2008
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Why Men Prefer Pretty Faces
Posted: 7/10/2009 5:54:09 PM
"Prettiness" is truly in the eye of the beholder. If she's pretty to you, it's because of the way you look at her that makes her feel pretty.

Someone said "beauty is skin deep but ugliness goes straight to the bone". Indeed, a personality makes a woman pretty or ugly just as much as her face. I've met women whose structural physical perfection was matched only by their hostility. And women others would consider plain whose soul just illuminates a room! And still others who exhibit both qualities in various proportions.
 BeladiZills

Joined: 5/1/2009
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Why Men Prefer Pretty Faces
Posted: 7/10/2009 6:22:49 PM
You can't save a man from a pretty face.
 highline9

Joined: 10/26/2008
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Posted: 7/10/2009 8:05:46 PM
Actually, beauty can be measured. A lot of things we deem attractive in life conform to the Phi ratio. From facial beauty, to body beauty, birds, insect, plants, everything.

There is actually a phi mask you can put over your own face to determine how HOT STUFF you are. No matter what race you are, if you match the mask, you're most likely a ten.

YES...watching the History Channel finally paid off! Here I thought I'd never use this knowledge.

Phi...google it.
 Hilly1971

Joined: 4/15/2009
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Why Men Prefer Pretty Faces
Posted: 7/10/2009 10:49:28 PM
Is this a trick question?
Surely its just because no one wants to wake up next to someone with a face like a smacked arse...men and women alike.
 stacyshrop

Joined: 4/25/2009
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Posted: 7/10/2009 11:02:10 PM
Amen sister. I like compliments, but deep down I don't trust them because I want someone to know the real me and some of that just ain't pretty. Oh yeah,,,babies do like staring at me though...but I think they are just trying to figure it out.
 danishsweetbread

Joined: 2/25/2007
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Why Men Prefer Pretty Faces
Posted: 7/10/2009 11:53:00 PM
The bible has the story of Potiphar's wife trying to seduce Joseph who was "handsome in form and appearance" and said she said to him "Lie with me".

Looks like women can lose it at the sight of a handsome face, just like men can at sight of a pretty one.

Humans, all our feet are made of clay.
 NerdStatus

Joined: 1/9/2007
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Why Men Prefer Pretty Faces
Posted: 7/11/2009 12:12:10 AM

I bet if I do a quick google I could find 5 more similar studies and probably 10 more to contradict it.

Generally speaking, studies that get attention in the scientific community are ones that have been verified by repeating the same (or similar) study. It's also important to note: there's a difference between the data in a study - and someone's interpritation of that data.

Also of note: there's loads of studies that show human's thoughts on what's beautiful hasn't changed much over the years. As stated, the magic 3/2/3 ratio, symmetry etc. There's also studies showing predispositions in the "eye of the beholder" based on their genetics. More notes of importantness: correlation and causation are two entirely different things.

Does anyone actually listen to or pay attention to studies anymore?

Yes.

Hell, if I were good enough I could probably find half a dozen studies to condone serial killing!

Good luck with that.
 missjones4206

Joined: 2/23/2009
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Why Men Prefer Pretty Faces
Posted: 7/11/2009 7:29:43 AM
lol, thats so wrong
 Crunchy Tacos

Joined: 3/26/2009
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Why Men Prefer Pretty Faces
Posted: 7/11/2009 8:06:36 AM
We all have what makes us tick. For me I will get to know anyone so long as their looks are not so offensive to me. A few I have met that weren't so hot to me in the beginning I found were very hot later because I also learned to appreciate their brain and heart.
 whytwater

Joined: 8/7/2008
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Posted: 7/11/2009 9:39:51 AM

The bible has the story of Potiphar's wife trying to seduce Joseph who was "handsome in form and appearance" and said she said to him "Lie with me".


I'd be, uhhhhh, pretty much seduced if some winsome wench murmured "f-ck me" in my ear, but "Lie with me"? I'd probably be thinking she had forgotten the exact punchline from that Pinochio joke where Snow White is riding is tongue. But 's okay, I'd still "get it". Lol. I think we all need to move past that King James version, anyway.
 danishsweetbread

Joined: 2/25/2007
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Posted: 7/11/2009 11:03:55 AM
whytwater, that was from the New American Std Version, not much unlike the KJV.


The New Living Translation shows Gen. 39:6b-7
"Joseph was a very handsome and well-built young man, and Potiphar’s wife soon began to look at him lustfully. “Come and sleep with me,” she demanded."
 anjelic

Joined: 7/27/2008
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Why Men Prefer Pretty Faces
Posted: 7/11/2009 11:18:58 AM
This is very interesting.
I know a young man who's mother has a very nice face.
He is an very talented artist and can sketch a womans face and body in such beautiful detail.

Every face resembles the mother in the lips and eyes, even jaw line.

Body type to most extent. ( He has been known to enlarge the breast somewhat).

I find this facinating, because most of the women he dates look nothing like her, but the art does.

Interesting post
 ami2oldfrit

Joined: 5/25/2009
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Posted: 7/11/2009 12:23:06 PM
pretty faces? just turn em round, job done. i think you may be in need of professional help
 AmeliaMD

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Posted: 7/11/2009 5:37:25 PM
"...the preference for pretty faces over less pretty ones is embedded in our brains from the moment of birth and possibly prior to birth."

Uh yeah....well what is a "pretty face"? This is different for everyone. To some, a pretty face is high cheekbones, big eyes, nice full lips...to some, it's a cute little turned up nose, thin lips, high forehead, (to some that's ugly), small eyes, slanted eyes, eye folds, no eye folds, I mean I could go on all day with this shit.
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