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 farscapeprincess
Joined: 4/28/2008
Msg: 26
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OP, hooker or escort is my guess.
 LakeCountyGal
Joined: 9/4/2008
Msg: 27
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/8/2009 10:03:20 PM
Sounds like you had a date with a possible escort but were not aware of it at the time? That's the only explanation I can think of. I don't believe most women would say "if you want to do this again, you'll have to pay for it" after a date. That would be quite tacky, and shallow.
 edencapwell
Joined: 3/13/2009
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/8/2009 10:11:35 PM
the word prostitute comes to mind and a few other names as well.
 Single_in_ H_town
Joined: 6/14/2009
Msg: 29
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/8/2009 10:25:14 PM
more proof perhaps looking online for a female to date may not be the best idea

if she did that to me, id say heres 25 cents, call a cab, because I aint taking you home.
 Jd_25
Joined: 7/1/2009
Msg: 30
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/9/2009 12:16:54 AM
Maybe she watched Pretty Woman one too many times and figured that's how men like their women. Whorish and needy!
 hellgremlin
Joined: 5/23/2009
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/9/2009 5:55:23 AM
Should have asked for a receipt.

Might as well make her pussy tax-deductible.
 TooShadows
Joined: 9/26/2008
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/9/2009 6:25:31 AM
I had a couple of situations like this back in my single days. Before I was on the internet I tended to use Telephone dating services(no,not 1-900). I'd talk to ladies on the lines and sometimes meet them later.

Once when I had been talking with one lady for a while she invited me over to her place for a coffee. We talked for a while and she suddenly asked if she could borrow $40,and she'd be happy to have sex for it. Then she told me she had been a street hooker,but she no longer "did that". I said I didn't have that much on me,and left.

There was one other lady I'd been chatting to,and one day she invited me over. She met me at the door in a skimpy negligee,and what can I say? Afterward as I was leaving she tells me she had a great time and we should do it again,but the next time it would cost me $50. I told her there was a first and last time for everything and left.
 StarliteKisses
Joined: 11/25/2007
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/9/2009 6:55:50 AM
Hmmmm, sounds like the whole date took place in the car......And went "very quickly", so much for staying power on your part, Op! What was it, just a quick BJ? Was there dinner? Maybe I shouldn't be asking for details. ......
 MsCharlotte2U
Joined: 2/25/2007
Msg: 34
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/9/2009 7:09:50 AM
LOL Sounds like she was a call girl.
 JerseyGirl2008
Joined: 12/27/2007
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/9/2009 8:50:15 AM
I think she should have gotten her money up front before performing any services.

Amateur.
 OLD FRIEND
Joined: 2/16/2009
Msg: 36
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/9/2009 9:04:39 AM
On a more serious note......OP, time to go get tested....what the hell were you thinking? I guess intelligence doesn't doesn't come close to good old comon sense!
 Sun_Rebel
Joined: 4/20/2005
Msg: 37
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/9/2009 9:15:31 AM
Reading your story cracked me up ... there is a name for an experience like yours - "next"
Keep Smilin' Brother :)
 Consigliori
Joined: 1/7/2008
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/9/2009 9:42:07 AM
I guess even pros do some pro bono.

If you have to pay next time, be sure the fee is commensurate with the result.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 39
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/9/2009 9:42:44 AM

I think she should have gotten her money up front before performing any services.

Amateur.

I dunno. That was my first thought, but as I thought about it, there could be a good angle on it. She does get a better shot at choosing the men she sleeps with and if she is satisfied with a rate that gets her enough repeat business to make it worth her while, she's come up with a clever way to escort and lure clients (without the risk of arrest).
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 40
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/9/2009 11:31:35 AM

I dunno. That was my first thought, but as I thought about it, there could be a good angle on it. She does get a better shot at choosing the men she sleeps with and if she is satisfied with a rate that gets her enough repeat business to make it worth her while, she's come up with a clever way to escort and lure clients (without the risk of arrest).


Thus developing her own private clientele. And to borrow from business, free nuckie for each referral, and 10% off coupons for frequent preferred customers.
 clasact
Joined: 1/18/2008
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/9/2009 1:43:56 PM

Is there a name for this?

Yeah, like I said before.......it's called prostitution Mr. John with a LAW degree

YoooHooo, OP, where for art thou Romeo?
You posed the question and we in turn had some questions for you.
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/9/2009 4:36:06 PM
They don't teach these exotic dating techniques in law school!


Thanks everyone for your comments. One gentleman HAD a similar experience years ago.

There is certainly in some cases a great difference between "street smarts" and "book smarts" and I thank you all for the education.

Hope I have better luck in my future dates. Is it too much to want both a sweetheart and a sexy vixen all rolled up in the same woman to marry?
 ForumFilly
Joined: 5/14/2008
Msg: 43
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/9/2009 10:50:40 PM
OP, I know you just put up the photo of you holding a wad of cash, but photos like that will attract no one but the kind of woman you just experienced. If you really want to meet a sweetheart/vixen, make sure she falls for YOU... not your money.
 monarchmom
Joined: 4/13/2009
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/10/2009 4:57:49 AM
Lmao your profile says that for a first date you want to go to a museum or something and end up doing something totally unexpected ... was this unexpected enough for you??

Haha I guess it was that wad of money you showed on there that gave her ideas...now that we've talked, can I have a loan?
 purrtypurr
Joined: 11/19/2008
Msg: 45
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/10/2009 5:08:56 AM
Sorry, but you set yourself up with that one flashing money on your profile,.and boasting about your higher than average passion only gives the impression to a lady of the night that you can pay for services rendered...............
 leglover
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 46
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/10/2009 5:37:11 AM
I have been asked for money several times on first dates with hardship stories as justification and have never given a penny and i did have one date that ended with her showing me her nails witch in very small print said "no money no honey" and smiled. I slid the check over to her side and walked out i swear. I was very insulted.
 chris755
Joined: 2/21/2009
Msg: 47
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/10/2009 7:51:05 AM
remember you don't pay for the company you pay for them to leave...
thats a line from a comedian i saw.



Wow i thought i had some bad dates..
wow.. some people are just too damaged.
Gl in the future dude.
 StarliteKisses
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 48
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/10/2009 9:31:26 AM
I am wondering how it is that this post isn't showing up on your profile, Op???

BTW....somewhere between "street smarts" and "book smarts" there's plenty of room for common sense!
 iyamnot
Joined: 5/19/2007
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/10/2009 9:41:14 AM
At least he believes what he practices. "Client Confidentiality." He didn't give her name. Yes common Sense over Book Smart, anyday !
 Shamefullpride
Joined: 4/23/2009
Msg: 50
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/10/2009 9:52:07 AM
Well now we know where most of the "he never called me after the first date" threads come from.
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