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 ~The Rock Man~

Joined: 4/23/2009
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/10/2009 9:52:07 AM
Well now we know where most of the "he never called me after the first date" threads come from.
 justbunky

Joined: 4/3/2009
Msg: 52
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/10/2009 10:56:35 AM
Obviously you weren't very discriminating in who you chose to sleep with, and how soon...but you're surprised at what you got?? HELLO-O!!
 SueCat51

Joined: 8/11/2007
Msg: 53
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 7/10/2009 5:04:14 PM
Jouster - if I said what the name should be, my Mama would wash my mouth out with soap. I am to assume that you won't be calling on this Pond Scum (I'm being polite here). There's all kinds in this world.
 ruffian2

Joined: 3/14/2009
Msg: 54
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 8/1/2009 3:43:08 PM
Why are you floored? A sober woman, probably good looking and younger got you off in your car on the first date and you thought it was because she was so taken by your presence? HA HA!

OMG, she should've charged you for the first f**k. If this is what you want you're gonna have to pay baby.
 REDDRAGON.

Joined: 10/9/2008
Msg: 55
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 8/1/2009 3:52:41 PM

I recently had a date that went... ahem, well - very quickly. Wow. Afterwards, she said we should keep in touch, then as she was getting out of the car, asked if I had any money!

Then she said "If you want this again, you'll have to pay for it"

OMG I was in utter and complete shock.

Is there a name for this? Has anyone ever had an experience like this? I have been just floored!



*this thread was baked on a true story*
 Ahappygal

Joined: 7/21/2009
Msg: 56
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 8/1/2009 4:04:41 PM

I am loolking for a deep mental connection and strong physical chemistry. Someone who will be my life partner, with whom we will work together on our next accomplishments.

If the OP didn't lie about what he seeks, he did lie to start the thread, vice versa!
 Shaitan

Joined: 7/8/2009
Msg: 57
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 8/1/2009 5:08:37 PM
That wasnt a hooker, sounds like a chic that gave it up way too fast, and then got upset when he treated her like one.

^T^
 Ifeellucky

Joined: 4/12/2009
Msg: 58
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 8/1/2009 5:16:07 PM
go get checked jouster, your gonna need a new sword soon after that
 MarvaJanuice

Joined: 6/3/2008
Msg: 59
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 8/1/2009 5:25:00 PM
...maybe she was kinda joking....are you sure she really meant for you to give her money?

Maybe she was joking because it all happened so quickly like a hooker meets a guy for sex..maybe she means if you want more from her it would have to cost something..like a long term relationship.... ?

Heck , I dont know. ..wow.
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 8/1/2009 7:08:53 PM
Sounds to me like she's come up with the perfect way for her to dispose of guys. Consider: if he says that he will pay her, she gets indignant, claiming that she was testing his morals and if that's how he felt about her and all that; if he says that he won't pay, then she knows that he'll never call her again.

Sounds like NotYur Typical Bimbo.
 ~GoneSailing~

Joined: 6/5/2009
Msg: 61
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 8/1/2009 7:49:58 PM
Yeah it's called prostitution. Pretty sure you should have phoned the police at that point because it was solicitation.
 doobie4fun

Joined: 7/26/2009
Msg: 62
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 8/1/2009 11:54:44 PM
let me guess..............she was selling condoms that came with free p*ssy samples
 dardika

Joined: 7/25/2009
Msg: 63
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 8/2/2009 2:42:24 AM
yuck

could a woman imagine a guy saying this to them?
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 8/2/2009 7:25:09 AM
OP, escorts don't count as dates! of course you have to pay for them! geeeze!!!!!!
 RenaissanceMan1950

Joined: 2/20/2009
Msg: 65
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 8/2/2009 7:31:00 AM


Is there a name for this?


Sure there is---prostitute.

There are some women, who are "soft hookers", who will appear to be "pcik ups", and who will give away "samples", but then let the guy know that it's a "pay for play" deal, if they want to see her again.

I ran into a variation of this shortly after my divorce with the only woman I've slept with that didn't go on to become a dating relationship. A much younger woman, who was in grad school, and who informed me, after our first time together, that there were 3 other guys who were "helping" her with her "expenses", but it wasn't "quite enough". Basically, if I were willing to "chip in" $900/month, she'd be "set", and would be available whenever I wanted her, so long as she wasn't with one of the other 3. She was willing to do "just about anything", etc..

To me it seemed a bargain with the devil and soul robbing, but there are a lot of men who have mistresses, which isn't all that different from what you described, OP.
 jacob8088

Joined: 9/6/2009
Msg: 66
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 9/20/2009 6:23:49 PM
LOL Wow, talk about being a 100% straight up goldigger.

And no, I never experienced anything like that.
 Mahogany-Rush

Joined: 7/23/2009
Msg: 67
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 9/20/2009 6:31:17 PM
Did you let her honk on bobo, or play with your chicken? what?????
 Ricomincia

Joined: 9/13/2009
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 9/20/2009 6:33:53 PM
So how much did you pay her and when are you seeing her again?
 RIBBON SKY

Joined: 7/23/2006
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 9/20/2009 6:41:31 PM
OMG! =>Dumb cheap hooker/prostitute (as she neglected to negotiate price of....@#$@#$... ahead of time) LOL ... OR,
=>A wanna-be escort (as she didn't have someone book her "appointment" negotiating the price of admission.. OOPS!
I mean ... well ... you KNOW what I mean! ... Haha! ... and arranged it herself) LOL

Either way OP get tested A.S.A.P.!!! You can bet you're not the first she's ... ummm..... "shocked!!!!" YIKES!
 3holePunchJim

Joined: 7/18/2006
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 9/20/2009 8:37:59 PM

Is there a name for this?

Pssst. It's called prostitution.


First date and she was in your car.
Ok, how many times did you two email before the "date." How many times did you speak on the phone? Did you pick her up at her place? Did you knock on her door?

He was just driving along and met this wonderful woman waiting for the crosswalk light, and she was so smitten by him she asked if he wanted a date...


I guess even pros do some pro bono.

I believe it's "pro boner".

Thanks folks, I'll be here all week!
 Wiyan

Joined: 12/8/2008
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 9/20/2009 8:50:23 PM
Prostitution? OPr maybe she expected you to pay for dinner and you did not-hence the forward statement? Not enough info on the specifics, but the fishies know we do not ask our dates for money!
 3holePunchJim

Joined: 7/18/2006
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She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 9/21/2009 3:00:25 AM
I can't believe I missed this one in my last post:

This gives new meaning to attorney-client privilege!

On the serious side, this is out of left field. Either the OP left something out, or he got an unadvertised "first one's free" trial, or she was ticked off about something on the date and made a snide or ironic remark.
 daydreamer57

Joined: 4/12/2009
Msg: 73
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 9/21/2009 6:04:23 AM
Ya shoulda asked for a menu at the begining...prob woulda been a satisfied customer then...and no...Ive never had that happen...lol
 irishgirl524

Joined: 8/26/2009
Msg: 74
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 9/21/2009 6:48:09 AM
The name for it is posittution, and just what all our amusement, what it even worth paying for....lol
 TantraD

Joined: 8/21/2009
Msg: 75
She asked for money at the end of the date!
Posted: 9/21/2009 6:49:02 AM
Usually takin' old one eye to the optometrist in a car "real quick "requires money..
what? you think she did cause you were the sh8t?


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