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 TJSlater

Joined: 6/1/2009
Msg: 201
Superiority.
Posted: 7/12/2009 3:56:02 AM
Girls are better than boys.


I don't know about better.........but I've stood up to the proverbial brick shiite house in my life, knowing if it got heated I'd be pummeled into mince.

And been utterly terrified by a 5'2'' redhead with a shoe in her hand.

Better? not sure. Scarier? DEFINITELY.



SJ - you are so right. Girls are better than boys.............hehe


Typical girl. Last word merchant.
 JCL1 SEQUEL

Joined: 8/18/2008
Msg: 202
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Posted: 7/12/2009 3:56:24 AM
joeuk1. mssg 198.

Yes I have, and I've better things to do than join in with battles lower down the ranks. I'll leave them to squabble between themselves whilst I service the females
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I'm really worried about your mental state Joe. I believe, that you believe , what your saying to be true. Good God...... I'm almost speechless.


I don't think I've ever seen such a pointless battle of egos before. I'm sure the ladies are most impressed and were entertained by the quote boxes. Far superior to laugh and walk away


I think maybe you should refresh your memory. I recall you being involved in these kind of one -upmanship , copy and paste wars on a daily basis not so long ago . Maybe I'm getting you mixed up with somebody else. [johnny shakes his head in disbelief]
 ibakecakes

Joined: 11/27/2008
Msg: 203
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Posted: 7/12/2009 4:02:42 AM
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO



NO MORE, PLEASE.................................















SJ - you are so right. Girls are better than boys.............hehe
 shabbawanks

Joined: 4/16/2009
Msg: 204
Superiority.
Posted: 7/12/2009 4:20:09 AM
Is it safe to come in yet? who had the smallest knob?
 Nickiow

Joined: 4/27/2009
Msg: 205
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Posted: 7/12/2009 4:25:58 AM

I like the quote:

When one regards another as superior he has just made himself inferior


Not sure who made that remark btw.

Its to do with how Racism become acetable, first your better than them, then its ok to make them into slaves etc, of course racist forget there is only one human race, but try to pretend that there are more and its aceptable to exploit those races that are inferior, they even went as far to explain that slavery was good for them.......otoh, those who *think* differences between peoples and cultures, should be thought of as positives rather than nagatives had to work hard to limit racisms effects.
 Nickiow

Joined: 4/27/2009
Msg: 206
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Posted: 7/12/2009 4:30:21 AM


Message: Has Alpha male been established yet?


Oooooh, now there's a subject!!!!

I don't do alpha male. You can be alpha in some scenarios and not in others, and it's all pretty pointless anyway.


Ok so its not you then, try that dictionary i mentioned to you earlier.
alpha male




alpha male (plural alpha males)


noun

Definition:

1. dominant male animal: a male in a pack of wolves, or a similar pack or troop of animals, that other members submit to and follow and that takes priority in mating with females


2. dominant man: a man who controls the activities of a group and to whom others defer ( informal )
 JCL1 SEQUEL

Joined: 8/18/2008
Msg: 207
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Posted: 7/12/2009 4:33:40 AM
^^^^^^^^^^^ You just couldn't let it lie could you? LMAO....

I'm taking cover immediately. I have a feeling the Ants and Elephants and other scary beasts will soon be upon us.

Nickiow.

I go away for a while and the threads gained pages and pages!, so much to play nonsense from TJ to play with!


I was only kidding fella. If you have something to say, then go for it mate. That's what the forum is for after all .
 TJSlater

Joined: 6/1/2009
Msg: 208
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Posted: 7/12/2009 4:38:59 AM

I'm taking cover immediately. I have a feeling the Ants and Elephants and other scary beasts will soon be upon us.


Nah, I don't see this poster as worth it. Not a bully and not much of interest to say. I can happily let that particular sleeping dog lie.
 Nickiow

Joined: 4/27/2009
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Posted: 7/12/2009 4:42:32 AM

^^^^^^^^^^^ You just couldn't let it lie could you? LMAO....

I'm taking cover immediately. I have a feeling the Ants and Elephants and other scary beasts will soon be upon us.



I go away for a while and the threads gained pages and pages!, so much to play nonsense from TJ to play with!.
 TJSlater

Joined: 6/1/2009
Msg: 210
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Posted: 7/12/2009 4:45:34 AM

I go away for a while and the threads gained pages and pages!, so much to play nonsense from TJ to play with!.


To quote Wilde:

Be interesting, or begone.

Not as clever as you'd like to think you are I'm afraid.
 *kath*

Joined: 9/30/2008
Msg: 211
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Posted: 7/12/2009 4:48:38 AM
A question begging to be asked.....


The piss taking and riling of the OP and co on this thread...isn't it just another form of superiority?(myself included in the piss takers).

There can be no winner in this thread..just a group of people fighting to be noticed.
 ibakecakes

Joined: 11/27/2008
Msg: 212
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Posted: 7/12/2009 4:54:21 AM
Girls rule, boys drool......................as me 8yr old would say
 zeegary

Joined: 9/25/2008
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Posted: 7/12/2009 7:32:34 AM

I don't do alpha male.


In what way don't you 'do' alpha male?

Do you disagree with the definition of what an alpha male is, or do you not accept that an alpha male can exist?
 TJSlater

Joined: 6/1/2009
Msg: 214
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Posted: 7/12/2009 7:37:24 AM

Do you disagree with the definition of what an alpha male is, or do you not accept that an alpha male can exist?


neither. As stated, I just do not see the point in even judging it for the reasons stated earlier........that we do not live as apes where one individual contrls the group, we live in discrete groups even within our own lives where it's possible to be defnined as 'alpha' in one group and not in another discreet part of your life.

So all in all, where's the point in being or trying to be 'alpha'
The entire POINT of being alpha becomes in my opinion, meaningless in our societal structure. I have met men more powerful than me who have sought to impose their will on me.........it's never worked yet (unless they offer me cold hard cash in the form of salary to submit to them professionally of course)
 zeegary

Joined: 9/25/2008
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Posted: 7/12/2009 7:56:20 AM

neither.


Neither??

Well, let's look at what you said..


I just do not see the point in even judging it for the reasons stated earlier........that we do not live as apes where one individual contrls the group, we live in discrete groups even within our own lives where it's possible to be defnined as 'alpha' in one group and not in another discreet part of your life.


So, you accept that it is POSSIBLE for an alpha male to exist in a particular group? After all, the definition is applied by human observers, and not always by the male in question (given that apes, for instance, don't use the term), and you do accept that:


I don't do alpha male. You can be alpha in some scenarios and not in others


You also agree with the definition of an alpha male, and that it applies to males in certain groups.

So, you claim to agree with the definition of an alpha male, and you accept that they exist.

So, I'm confused by your comment:


I don't do alpha male.


because it's clear that you do! It doesn't matter if a man is the 'alpha' in one group, and not in another - all that matters is for him to be thus defined in ANY group he is a part of.
 TJSlater

Joined: 6/1/2009
Msg: 216
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Posted: 7/12/2009 8:07:56 AM
because it's clear that you do! It doesn't matter if a man is the 'alpha' in one group, and not in another - all that matters is for him to be thus defined in ANY group he is a part of.


It's actually quite clear that I don't. I have quite clearly stated in previous posts that:

(1) I seek to control no one except myself.
(2) I have met men more powerful than me who have sought to 'control' me and it has never worked.

Because in our society, an 'alpha' male can only be such when you allow them to be.

To be clear, my comment was that I do not do alpha male. Not that others do not do it.
You are seeking argument where there is none. It isn't interesting.
 zeegary

Joined: 9/25/2008
Msg: 217
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Posted: 7/12/2009 8:28:02 AM

I have quite clearly stated in previous posts that:

(1) I seek to control no one except myself.
(2) I have met men more powerful than me who have sought to 'control' me and it has never worked.


Quite, but my query isn't related to how you view yourself with regard to being an 'alpha male'.


my comment was that I do not do alpha male. Not that others do not do it.


I get you - you accept that alpha males exist, and that the definition is correct, but that you don't see yourself as being one.

You've explained your earlier comment so well.......thanks!
 TJSlater

Joined: 6/1/2009
Msg: 218
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Posted: 7/12/2009 8:34:18 AM

I get you - you accept that alpha males exist, and that the definition is correct, but that you don't see yourself as being one.


I'll go futher and say those who think they are are quite funny to me.

All you have to do is stand, arms folded and watching as they do the 'chest beating' then walk off.

In meetings I meet the type quite often. They try to establish control.......and I allow them to do the chest beat, then draw their attention back to the matter in hand. The reactions are generally ones of then taking a much more passive position. It's a thing of beauty to execute.


Further, by definition, if someone in the group refuses to engage in the game and stands outside of it, can they still be considered to even BE alpha?
 *kath*

Joined: 9/30/2008
Msg: 219
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Posted: 7/12/2009 8:38:36 AM


Further, by definition, if someone in the group refuses to engage in the game and stands outside of it, can they still be considered to even BE alpha?


Depends on the reactions of those still left inside the group,if they choose to follow Mr.Solitary then he turns into Mr.Alpha superiorititis (I made that shite up)
 TJSlater

Joined: 6/1/2009
Msg: 220
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Posted: 7/12/2009 8:40:50 AM
if they choose to follow Mr.Solitary then he turns into Mr.Alpha superiorititis


Ah, but not if Mr Solitary does not seek to dominate the meeting but to treat it as an open and honest forum to reach a fair resolution.



Some of it from Kath.


Lol, tell me about it. Scary or what?
 *kath*

Joined: 9/30/2008
Msg: 221
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Posted: 7/12/2009 8:47:38 AM



Ah, but not if Mr Solitary does not seek to dominate the meeting but to treat it as an open and honest forum to reach a fair resolution.


If they respect enough they will follow regardless of whether he beckons them or not.

Tis why we have such admiration for the underdog rather than the one thrusting themselves in the limelight..the underdog is stealth like and trustworthy whilst Mr Superiority comes across as blinkered and selfish.
 jayeff

Joined: 8/9/2008
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Posted: 7/12/2009 8:55:19 AM
Phew, Christ....
*waves arms about to waft the smell*
Someone open a window in ere - it stinks of spent testosterone. Some of it from Kath.
 zeegary

Joined: 9/25/2008
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Posted: 7/12/2009 11:29:00 AM

I'll go futher and say those who think they are are quite funny to me.

All you have to do is stand, arms folded and watching as they do the 'chest beating' then walk off.

In meetings I meet the type quite often. They try to establish control....


Thereby demonstrating that you don't understand the term 'alpha male'.

I suspected as not.

An 'alpha male' knows he is in that position, not merely thinks he is. 'Control' is already established by him being 'deferred' to, viz:

Definition:

2. dominant man: a man who controls the activities of a group and to whom others defer ( informal ).

When one doesn't understand a term, one cannot discuss its use/application/consequences with any authority.
 TJSlater

Joined: 6/1/2009
Msg: 224
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Posted: 7/12/2009 11:32:29 AM

Thereby demonstrating that you don't understand the term 'alpha male'.

You remind me of The Sun newspaper. the way you use words such as 'admit' when a person has in fact merely said. Or demonstrated, when in fact they've commented an opinion which you have willfully chosen to misunderstand so you can take issue with it in an effort to appear as though you're an 'alpha'

You do make me laugh you know.
 shabbawanks

Joined: 4/16/2009
Msg: 225
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Posted: 7/12/2009 11:33:49 AM
An alpha male would have walked away from this bollox 8 pages ago, i can be certain of that.
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