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Posted: 7/10/2009 10:03:15 PM | well not really, we tend to like the idea of two women, and us more of a group thing, we dont really like it when they push us away.
well thats how I feel anyways
also id worrie about my chick picking the other chick over me, so this idea will always be in my mind but never acted out
call me boring if ya like, but I want a chick that loves me :) | |
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Posted: 7/12/2009 2:40:02 AM | [If a lesbian is attracted to a man, what does that say about his manhood...? hahahaha
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Oh now I get it. Homophobia. I was trying to figure out a new trend, and homophobia rears its ugly head. I thought homophobia was centered towards men, but I see it is directed towards females as well, just not as violently. This actually helps explains why normally str8 women go for girls occassionaly, to get away from d-bags. | |
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Posted: 7/12/2009 5:43:07 AM | | Not every girl. I am as straight as it gets. | |
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Posted: 7/12/2009 7:25:32 AM | [If a lesbian is attracted to a man, what does that say about his manhood...? hahahaha
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Oh now I get it. Homophobia. I was trying to figure out a new trend, and homophobia rears its ugly head.
Actually No.... it's called comedy... note the "hahahaha" after it...
Homophobia is a term meaning esentially afraid of Gays... however, it usually used by a proponent as a method of trying to make anyone who does not like gays and lesbians look bad. It's about as old fashioned as using the race card to make other people look prejudiced. But when people start throwing terms like homophobia around, it just makes them look pathetic... | |
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Posted: 7/12/2009 7:45:08 AM | To the original poster,
Maybe you've been going to a lesbian club. I'm sure you'll find many women who want to do women there.
Outside of lesbian clubs, you'll occasionally find attention-seeking fake bi women hanging off their boyfriend's arm. These woman might claim they are bi while their boyfriend will claim he is straight. In this scenario, the woman is being an attention-seeker. Often, she'll have self-esteem issues which relate to how she is perceived by the man in her life.
Her bisexuality is fake, a form of exploitative bisexuality, and not far from a form of prostitution. | |
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Posted: 7/12/2009 3:37:20 PM | HouseKitten86 wrote:
But, the chances are most girls who are so super-keen to point out to that you that they'd just LOVE to bone their best friend, are probably amping up their very very minor bisexual tendencies in an effort to get you interested.
OK, I know I'm naive, I'm from the farm, I'm not as experienced as most of the twenty-somthings on here, but
IS THIS EVEN POSSIBLE: can one woman BONE another woman????? 
TK
{ya learn somethin new ever day} | |
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Posted: 7/12/2009 3:51:19 PM | I think a lot of women (especially young women) do this for attention, or because they think it will make you like her more.
I also believe that a lot of women confuse their attitudes for other women as being "bi." I for one find beauty in a woman's body, and often look at good looking women as much or more than I do men. Do I think i'm bi? No. I think women do this for several reasons, including admiration and jealousy.
I think a combination of this as well as wanting to impress guys makes many women label themselves as bi, or act out on lesbian-associated behaviours.
P.S. The alcohol probably plays a role in this as well. | |
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Posted: 7/12/2009 4:19:06 PM | | If you "don't like" gays and lesbians because of their sexuality, you are homophobic. If you don't like that term, I'll use prejudiced. You're prejudiced against gays and lesbians. Whatever you want to call it, that attitude is destructive, immoral, and not in the best interests of advancing the United States. Does that work for you? Also, everyone is saying women just "act bi." These girls aren't "acting" bi. They are going home and having sex with each other. I've watched it happen, and been involved :) Most of my friends that are girls are bi. They aren't the exception, they are the norm. "Out" lesbians are all over the club too, not the "lesbian" club, the "normal" club, and they do quite well with the ladies, an str8 people don't bother them. Maybe Mississippi has gotten more lesbian tolerant than the rest of the country, although it is certainly not more gay tolerant. | |
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Posted: 7/12/2009 4:57:41 PM | | I have to say, I am repeatedly shocked by how judgemental people are in these forums. it seems that people who behave in any way other than they are used to ( or approve of ) is either immature, and attention seeker or worse. Sorry, but that's just not how the world works. It may not always make sense, but just because someone is different than you does not somehow give them less value, just like I do not say you have less value if you do not approve of pre-marital sex, or multiple partners etc. It is not that you "don't get it".. you just have different personal values.. PERSONAL values.. ;) | |
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Posted: 7/12/2009 5:35:18 PM | Women are attracted to the softness of other women.Who can blame them.They enjoy being pampered and women pamper each other the way they want to be pampered.**** likes to be licked....and most women know how to lick it.So it would be natural to let a woman lick your ****.It's a friends thing mostly. | |
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Posted: 7/12/2009 6:23:30 PM |
Seems like every girl I connect with lately really wants a girl. Not that I'm against that at all, I love girls and bi girls. I love the lez love. It just seems weird, that EVERY girl I know at the club points out some girl that she wants to do. Is this normal? Opinions welcome.
you need to stop hanging around the lezbo clubs. | |
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Posted: 7/12/2009 10:48:20 PM |
If you "don't like" gays and lesbians because of their sexuality, you are homophobic
Look... I don't like "blondes" either... does that make me a blondeophobic? Of course not... Not liking something is normal... I don't like stupid people either... but I'm not afraid of them... I'm not a stultophobe or what ever word might apply...
If you don't like that term, I'll use prejudiced. You're prejudiced against gays and lesbians. Actually, I'm not... in fact my G/F has had several bi-sexual encounters... but she's still my G/F.... so how does that stand up as me being prejudiced or homophobic...
Based on your theory of not liking something you are phobic... then do you like EVERYTHING???? Because if not, you're a phobe or prejudiced...
In actual fact, not liking something is not the same thing as hating something... one could be totally ambivalent, yet by your theory, of not 'liking' then they'd be prejudiced...
Prejudice is based on pre-judging prior to proof... what does it become if someone has reason or proof that justifies to them, to hate...??? You can't use prejudice anymore... now it's simple dislike...
not in the best interests of advancing the United States. so now you're accusing people of being against your country... (Now that smacks of Xenophobia...)Note that I said YOUR country... I'm not in the Good ole' US of A....
But in your case, you've proven that you are culturally prejudiced... are you going to preach genocide against other cutures now...??? Seems to be a logical prograssion based on what you've said so far....
Most of my friends that are girls are bi. They aren't the exception, they are the norm. Well, no... they're not the 'norm' they just are more common in the circle you movie in... In my circle, they get laughed at.... or tolerated with a degree of humour mixed with pity.... or ignored...
Maybe Mississippi has gotten more lesbian tolerant than the rest of the country Maybe because to a lot of un-sophisticated males the concept of lesbian girls and the hoped for threesomes with a guy is still a fantasy they cling to.... afterall, it's kind of the ultimate fantasy for young guys to masturbate to in porno movies.... that's why they put it in porn so much... | |
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Posted: 7/12/2009 11:49:46 PM | | Well OP I now realize what m_church's problem is......hes almost 50. Not to be mean or anthing but holy crackers. From what im reading you have a hate on for lesbians and bi's. Anyways, me personally I am bi curious. Not because im an attention seeker.Its because I genuinely like girls. I think being in a relationship with one would be way better than dating a guy because there would be no guessing maybe mind games but not to a huge extent, I could be wrong though I have been told its the exact same as dating a guy lol. Seeing two girls kiss is very hot, no matter how many times you see it and I dont watch porn. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2009 12:19:59 AM | | Men want Bi girls,but if they were honest, they would admit that they can not please two women, I have found that 2 men not gay can please a women to no end. Like a tag team. But it takes two very strong males to do this with no problems!! | |
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Posted: 7/13/2009 1:14:17 AM |
I have to say, I am repeatedly shocked by how judgemental people are in these forums. it seems that people who behave in any way other than they are used to ( or approve of ) is either immature, and attention seeker or worse. Sorry, but that's just not how the world works. It may not always make sense, but just because someone is different than you does not somehow give them less value, just like I do not say you have less value if you do not approve of pre-marital sex, or multiple partners etc. It is not that you "don't get it".. you just have different personal values.. PERSONAL values.. ;)
personal values got thrown out the window many moons ago.
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Posted: 7/13/2009 1:29:08 AM | | The first couple of posts have it right. L8trz | |
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Posted: 7/13/2009 5:51:48 AM | I'm sorry but I have to disagree with some of the posts on this topic.
The simple fact is that female bisexuality has a huge exploitative aspect to it, far far more exploitative than anything that could be connected to male bisexuality. That's because female bisexuality slots in with the girl-girl fetishes of many "straight" guys. A simple look at the men's adult magazines proves my point.
While there are genuine female bisexuals, most of the trendy types are simply playing a role. They're doing it for fetish reasons, not orientation ones.
If they're in a club, it's even more cause for suspicion. Somewhere lurking in dark corner you are likely to find her strictly straight boyfriend or husband waiting patiently for her to recruit another woman for a threesome. | |
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Posted: 7/13/2009 7:56:54 AM | | Many good points made here. If your woman is saying something in a club scene, it sounds to me as though she is just attempting to grab your attention. For me, I am a very sexual person. I have no issues or taboos, so to speak. However, I don't go clubing and pointing out "hotties" of either sex, that's just showing no class at all. Now, if you have been with someone for a long time, and you see someone you both like, then I see nothing wrong with a quiet comment to each other about it. | |
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Posted: 7/15/2009 4:29:46 AM | Oh don't you know bi is the new......fashion style so to speak.
And hey can you blame them? Girls are pretty and smell nice and have soft skin and hellloooo boobies!
But I also think it's in some ways an evolution so to speak of society's sexual limits. Where even say 10 years ago the LGBT scene was hush hush not something ok with your average person today it's much more accepted and therefore where 10 years ago girls maybe thought about it they would NEVER say it today...it's much more accepted. | |
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Posted: 7/20/2009 4:09:36 PM | God Bless Bi Girls... I am one of the lucky ones to have one, she likes the manhood,loves it in her mouth,swallows and loves to lick a clit....
Nothing better than a bi girl..just my opinion | |
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Posted: 7/20/2009 4:12:55 PM | By definition a TRUE bisexual is....
noun
3. Biology. an animal or plant that has the reproductive organs of both sexes.
4. a person sexually responsive to both sexes; ambisexual.
I am a true bisexual then! Not in today's 'slang' definition! | |
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Posted: 7/20/2009 4:17:22 PM | | Kellygurl you rock, bi or not,love your posts | |
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Posted: 8/6/2009 8:37:18 PM | That's because female bisexuality slots in with the girl-girl fetishes of many "straight" guys. A simple look at the men's adult magazines proves my point.
(lesbian sex) "is porn efficiency - it's sex with a greater density of women!"
You have to realize there's a huge difference between porn and real life! The stuff in porn is not indicative of what people want to do in their own bedrooms (though, for some guys, the line between porn and reality blurs badly). Porn is no more real than reality television is.
There are several different types of bi-girls, (IMO) -
There's the 'bar-bi' girls ("most women are only a few drinks away from girl-on-girl action") They're there for the attention - they'll grind up against a friend of theirs on the dance floor, a little light making out, etc. These girls are all about the attention, and they do it because it works! They have no intention of going down on their friend, and would probably freak out if it ever went that far. They're not bi- they're insecure.
There's the bi girls that are attracted to the person regardless of their gender - they generally are monogamous, but they're not particular about which gender they're dating. They fit the dictionary definition best.
There are the bi girls that are attracted to both genders, and they will date both a man and a woman, often at the same time. These (and the next ones) are the ones that true lesbians tend not to like, because they're not monogamous, and any time you have that sort of complex relationship, one partner or the other tends to start wanting the girl in the middle for themselves. Those relationships work best if everyone involved in the relationship is involved in the relationship, rather than two separate relationships with the same person.
Last, but not least, are the ones who are bisexual because of some sort of trauma - they were abused, molested or raped, and they just have the need to bring that sort of chaos into any relationship they have. They doom any sort of committed relationship, and they give bisexuals a bad name because of the wreckage they leave behind them.
I've dated the last 3 types myself, so I've seen how it works first hand. Finding women attractive to some degree or another really doesn't make you bisexual, that seems to be more common, especially as attitudes towards sexuality become more open. Women are more likely to experiment with homosexual behavior than men, though it's not been shown whether or not that's a sociological phenomenon or a biological phenomenon. (there are studies drawing both conclusions, and I'll wager that it's probably some of both issues) | |
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Posted: 8/7/2009 8:27:08 PM |
I think it's your age. The young girls now a days seem to think that's what men want and what they should be. I think there is a lot of sexual confusion out there right now. It's time that people get honest with themselves and stop the game playing!
Thank you! I'm sick of this. The problem is, EVERYONE under 30 is doing it, and if you're not into it you're the uptight party pooper. | |
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Posted: 8/8/2009 3:42:16 AM | I get a kick out of this, some of the posters here in other threads dealing with men that have tasted another mans sperm or had some type relationship with another guy are automatically labeled gay or bisexual. Yet, when it comes to women who have done sexual stuff with another woman, they are maybe closet bi, or not really bi, or just fake bisexuals.
Does consistency count at all anymore? Why are so many posters hypocritical on this subject when the only difference is gender? | |
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