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 ChancesRMD

Joined: 4/11/2009
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Posted: 8/19/2009 8:32:45 PM

I think what they really mean is "good girl with a really naughty side"


That's true for most of us. We want to be able to take you home to family, work or a classy social. Then again we also want the adventurous and wild side.

I think that's true with both sexes. You ladies want the same from us guys.
 rexie xo

Joined: 8/11/2009
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Posted: 8/20/2009 6:05:58 AM
i dont think that makes you a bad girl.. but when the word good girl is used it's more like habit wise/personality i believe. although i consider my self a good girl and havent gotten much luck on here lol
 big22blue

Joined: 1/13/2007
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Posted: 8/20/2009 6:22:10 AM
someone who isn't a shit, who brushes her teeth often enough; who washes her hair often enough; changes her shorts often enough; and is good at the things we want to see in a gal!! and no biting!
 bencasey

Joined: 1/25/2008
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Posted: 8/20/2009 6:54:55 AM
I don't think a good girl is looking for a relationship when they aren't even out of the last one yet. Separated means you're still married. As for the out of wedlock kids,
 7rainbows

Joined: 1/6/2007
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Posted: 8/20/2009 9:51:37 AM
i was in a threesome recently, the one guy kept calling me a good girl when i had two up at the same time. Does that make me good? He also commented how much of a good girl i was every time i squirted too, i must be an angel cause he said it lots of times.

I drink occasionaly, i dont smoke, iv had no convictions, never had an std, i do have piercings and tattos, i have children but never been married (cause i dont belive in it, and yes they have the same father), i dont tell lies, im a vegetarian, iv got loads of qualifications, i dont do drugs (well ok tried space cake in Amsterdam, smoked a little pot and tried lsd once). I do voluntary work related to the environment, i have worked in the care industry with elderly, disabled and homeless clients, i buy local where possible and fair trade if its available.

So does this get me my angel wings
 whatsallthis

Joined: 5/1/2008
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Posted: 8/22/2009 11:43:41 AM
Woman sleeps around a lot-slut.
Man sleeps around a lot-stud.

Go figure. A good girl to me is one who isn't sleeping with my aquaintances when I am not around, or using me as a past time till a better deal comes along. I say aquaintances because my friends and I don't fool around with our friend's girls.

I was reading a blog about "nice" guys, and this woman wrote that a nice guy is one she will take home to meet her parents when she gets tired of dating rock musicians.
 MetDBlck

Joined: 1/18/2009
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Posted: 8/22/2009 12:00:09 PM
The good girl is like the nice guy. They exist only in mental-imagery land. They have no substance or carnality. There is nothing anybody can do to become a good girl or a nice guy.

There are, however, things in your mind, morality, ethics, experience, which may or may not change, which may well cause people you know, meet and greet to be given the "quick assessment" label of one of the above two. People use labels like these all the time for reputed efficiency. Trick is remembering something can change labels, and a label can also change, or be ripped off altogether.

Good girls and nice guys are subjects (in relation to-)
they are not objects (existing as-)
 DeepLuv09

Joined: 7/24/2009
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Posted: 8/22/2009 12:49:55 PM

Man......." A good girl is one that does as she's told, gives me sex when I want it, doesn't question my silence etc etc...


ArabianAngel you completely cracked me up.

I know this one guy that is about 40 still looking for that "good girl" that will put up with his BS and when I say BS I mean, BS. The guy is almost impossible to get along with, very rude and inconsiderate and yet he still HOPES that there is a beautiful, wholesome woman somewhere on the planet that will take in all that crap like a "good girl". I am thinking, boy you will wait forever.
 arie46

Joined: 6/13/2009
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Posted: 8/22/2009 12:56:28 PM
Then I must be qualified for angel wings!
 CoolOldBroad

Joined: 8/9/2007
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Posted: 8/22/2009 1:41:30 PM
Ah, I can only think of the saying"When I'm good, I'm very good. But when I'm bad -- I'm very, very good." LOL.
 Esperanza

Joined: 2/15/2009
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Posted: 8/22/2009 1:47:13 PM
By reading one of the men's comments "I am a Good Girl". I have been described a Nice Person/Good Girl as long as I can remember. Sometimes after hearing the terms Good Girl so much you want to hear Bad Girl but I haven't heard that term only making bad choices in men.
 Eski-bro

Joined: 3/1/2009
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Posted: 8/22/2009 3:25:20 PM

Good girls and nice guys are subjects (in relation to-)
they are not objects (existing as-)


What a great and wise assesment!
 johnWbooth

Joined: 5/29/2008
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Posted: 8/22/2009 3:49:06 PM
some of these are just too funny. the best i erad are these two.

x-file:

Personality & habbits
- Humble, simple, down to earth personality which generally means:
-- Calm, relaxed, and easy to get along with - no impulsive happy or unhappy outbursts, no rushed decisions, no rushed judgments, no "OMG!" or "Whatever." remarks, no drama, no "I'm a princess attitude", no entitlement attitude.
-- Her voice is soft and gentle like a feather - she never yells or screams
-- She is kind, honest, and non-vengeful, especially when she is mad - the type of girl you can hardly ever get pissed-off at, and if you do, it doesn't last more than 2 minutes.
-- She is open and easy to talk to, and does not hold grudges, and genuinely forgives when she does.
-- She prefers to be kind over being right - no insults.
-- She does not feel the need to impress, show-off, or make herself feel better at the expense of another.
-- She is modestly proud, confident, trustworthy, and a woman of her word - she does not feel the need to manipulate, lie, or have a hidden agenda
-- Enjoys the simple life. Can go camping and is not afraid to get mud on her face.
-Naturally and genuinely loves sex - does not see sex as "giving it up", "putting out", as a favor to a man, as a "reward" or a way to get what she wants, or even as a way to "apologize", but rather something she wants and enjoys doing with a partner, not to "please him", or "to keep the peace", or "out of respect", but simply because sex is pleasurable for her.
-Does not smoke.
-Does not drink, except on special occasions.
-Does not eat junk food.
-Does not do drugs.


this is just pure fantasy and wishful thinking. sounds great doesn't it? but lets be real. these traits can not and never will be in one person alone. x-file you would have to be like dr frankenstein and build her yourself. and then if that was possible, watch out, cause she won't you, she would develope into something else and leave.


Hazelrose:

I would fall into the latter of both qualities of good and bad:
The Good
1) I have no children
2) Never been married
3) Do not cheat
4) Do not lie (I am as blunt as children's scissors).
5) Do not do drugs
6) Help save lives
7) Help people
8) Love my immediate family
9) Forgive those who have hurt me
10) Know when to admit I was wrong

The Bad
1) I love going out and having fun.
2) I love piercings (just not in the face, but I will let the groin thing slide for others)
3) I love tattoos.
4) I love action.
5) Terrified of marriage
6) Hate the idea of losing myself
7) Crave action and sweets


this is maybe the most honest one can write of them selves. pat on the back to you hazel.

to the OP, a good girl is one who makes the guy most happy in as many ways as he can be. its that simple!
 808 syndicate

Joined: 10/13/2009
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Posted: 10/18/2009 1:17:43 PM
I'm not sure. Although I assume most guys have their own definition of what a good girl is. Speaking for myself, a good girl is one that knows...

when to speak
when to STFU
when to be a nympho sex freak in and out of the bedroom
how to cook a f*ckin awesome meal in the kitchen
and most of all one that knows her f*ckin role in a relationship.

Oh but of course if she happens to carry some extra baggage with her, then in my book she's not considered a good girl..
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