| Bisexual men
Posted: 7/12/2009 12:30:05 PM |
While I take your point, that someone would have chosen you it still doesn't completely ignore the fact that they are also attracted to the other sex and in that respect, you cannot totally fulfil them................unless the sheer magnificence of your love making turns them back to the hetero life...............and therefore there is always a chance that at some point in your relationship, you may not be able to fulfil them and that could be the undoing of the relationship..
Exactly the same logic can be applied to any relationship between two heteros where one partner has a preference for something that the other doesn't possess.
I'll use me as an example. I have a receding hairline (it's a solar panel for a sex-machine, if anybody mentions it) and I keep my hair cropped in winter and shaven in summer. It is quite possible for me to have a relationship with a woman who prefers her man to have a full head of hair and for me not to worry that she would leave me because I lack it or that she meets someone else who has. She knows I don't have the full head of hair, yet she chooses to be with me.
A bisexual man is with you for what you have and what you are. He has chosen to disregard your lack of penis, your feelings against doing 'that', and the fact that you have breasts because he wants YOU......and I reckon such people should be applauded, not shunned.
Each to their own, of course!
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| Bisexual men
Posted: 7/12/2009 12:38:10 PM | | Not offended, quite open minded..but i can't share when in a relationship with anyone.. | |
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| Bisexual men
Posted: 7/12/2009 1:26:22 PM | I was once engaged to a bisexual man, made for a VERY interesting love life... I didnt know the full extent of his curious sexuality at the time or it might have made me feel differently, being the opne minded and nin judgemental type once i did find out it didnt bother me..... At the time he loved me and only me and his past, as mine also, didnt influence our future, we gave each other a clean sheet so to speak, which is important in any 'new' relationship..
Being newly singke, this issue does rear up now and again as i have more gay/bisexual friends than straight friends but i can honestly answer that as long as my partner was safe and careful and didnt 'lust' after other new fella's then i would be perfectly happy to be in a relatonship with a bi sexual fella, being bi curious myself i would feel hypocritical to judge him on such a matter... Live and let life is my motto, but once someone commits to a serious relationship then he should put aside his bi sexual wants & needs and concentrate on his lady, xxxx | |
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| Bisexual men
Posted: 7/12/2009 2:41:56 PM |
My question is could you ever find it acceptable having a partner that has intercourse with men whilst being with you due to him being bisexual. Would you date and ultimately live with someone who was bisexual?
I personally couldnt date or have a partner who was bi sexual; its nothing to do with the fear that they may lust after the opposite sex whilst with me - im not homophobic either, but i just couldnt do it.... | |
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| Bisexual men
Posted: 7/12/2009 2:46:47 PM | Ahh i get it now ... Sooo if a bint goes out with a hetro guy, like myself for instance, i wouldnt look at a another woman if i choose to go out with them? Lmfao
between me and the rest of the forum we know thats a load of crap lol it dont matter if your hetro, bi or gay we all look at each other people, depending on our sexual preference lol
reading thru the thread i think its about control and the fact women dont like losing the control over the man.
Why do you see fag hags hanging round with gay men, hoping one day they might pick them as their soulmate etc. Same as men wanting to turn lesbiens? That not control but pride and king of the jungle mentality - my gf was gay till she met me mentality!
hth
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| Bisexual men
Posted: 7/12/2009 3:04:37 PM |
My question is could you ever find it acceptable having a partner that has intercourse with men whilst being with you due to him being bisexual.
Surely your question should be "would you stay with your bi-sexual partner if he was unfaithful?"
His sexual predelictions should have no bearing on your relationship, as he has chosen to be with you ...................... unless he told you he had to satisfy his 'other' side. Which IMO would be the same as hetero guy saying "I want to be with you but I may have to sh@g the odd red-head on the side as you are blonde  " | |
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| Bisexual men
Posted: 7/12/2009 4:09:48 PM | If someone was bisexual, would the person be happier if he were looking/thinking about other women, is the issue with them fancying other people, or fancying other men? As for people being greedy, if some people fancy both sexes then what's wrong with sleeping with men and women? As for someone not being able to fulfil that person's needs, then surely if that person is attracted to both sexes but chooses to have a loving relationship with you, then that should be enough.
I think it might be different where someone was curious about sleeping with another man and hadn't done it. There are people who have slept with someone of the same sex and then decided it wasn't for them and not gone back to it.
Unless you ask, you aren't going to find out someone's sexual history anyway. | |
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| Bisexual men
Posted: 7/14/2009 5:24:52 AM | I'm afraid I'd have to say no chance.
Not from the aspect of them maybe looking for another man to fulfil their needs, but from the angle that I would be put off that the guy fancied other guys.
I know in my head that a man having sex with another man doesn't emasculate them, but it just doesn't appeal to me in the slightest.
I have gay friends, (although their women) and have no problem with their sexuality, but I do have a problem with my partner having sex with other men, even if it stops when they meet me. I would be thinking about it when i'm having sex with him. | |
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| Bisexual men
Posted: 7/14/2009 5:54:21 AM |
A bisexual man is with you for what you have and what you are. He has chosen to disregard your lack of penis, your feelings against doing 'that', and the fact that you have breasts because he wants YOU......and I reckon such people should be applauded, not shunned.
This.
I don't share either, male female or anything between is not relevant, I prefer an exclusive relationship. But if it was a past thing and now he wants to be with only me then I have no problem with it. | |
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| Bisexual men
Posted: 7/14/2009 8:40:26 AM |
it baffles me why some men do this. It's surely a sign of bisexuality or closet homosexuality.
How so? Not everything that a 'gay' man does is necessarily 'gay', and it doesn't make any heteros who also do those things 'gay'.
Is a woman who enjoys receiving oral from a man showing a sign of latent lesbianism? Of course not!
The only thing that distinguishes a 'gay' man from a hetero is that the former is only sexually attracted to men, whereas the latter is only sexually attracted to women.
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| Bisexual men
Posted: 7/14/2009 8:44:23 AM | Doesnt bother me much ,if hes with me hes mine !
Please John Barrowman turn bi just for me .........now to get him drunk enough mwaaaaaaahahahaha | |
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| Bisexual men
Posted: 7/14/2009 8:53:06 AM | | i feel so enlightened after reading all the posts .... who ever said that british people were not tolerant and open minded ! | |
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| Bisexual men
Posted: 7/14/2009 9:44:12 AM |
Is a woman who enjoys receiving oral from a man showing a sign of latent lesbianism?
Eh?! That makes not a jot of sense as a comparison...! Zeegary's on a wind-up again! | |
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| Bisexual men
Posted: 7/14/2009 9:50:43 AM |
Eh?! That makes not a jot of sense as a comparison..
It makes perfect sense.
I was simply demonstrating that an act performed by lesbians does not make a hetero woman 'lesbian' when it is performed on her.
In the same way that an act performed by some 'gays' , when performed by hetero males does not make those heteros 'gay'.
Now, instead of naming posters and making personal comments about them, why not explain your comments in MSG 54..........or are you unable to?
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| Bisexual men
Posted: 7/14/2009 11:00:00 AM | I have no hang ups over what people do, it's up to them as long as everyone's happy.
You can't help who you fall in love with or who you fancy, after all it should be the person that interests you.
As for the post above -Not quite the same thing that, hamburger eating as penetration, after all, like I used to ask, but got the thread removed for is what is the difference between a male bum hole and a female bum hole?lol No one could answer me - some one must be able to. | |
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| Bisexual men
Posted: 8/1/2009 8:15:10 PM |
My main concern would be was he practicing safe sex and think it would be within my right to ask for an HIV test.
Also surely you are one or the other and deciding that you are attracted to both must be an indication to your indecisiveness?
Wouldnt you do that for your partner anyway?
I mean if you are in a place in your relationship where you are not having safe sex then before you got there you would need to be trusting of eachother and if you had had many partners in the past before you even think about having "unsex" sex then I would imagine you would both want to know wouldnt you? | |
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| Bisexual men
Posted: 8/3/2009 1:53:54 AM | My question is could you ever find it acceptable having a partner that has intercourse with men whilst being with you due to him being bisexual. Would you date and ultimately live with someone who was bisexual?
No. It has nothing to do with his preference for sexual partners but everything to do with the fact that I would prefer to be part of an exclusive relationship and that I don't wish to share Roger with Tom and Sally.
I find it interesting that a lot of men readily accept a woman being bisexual or gay but that they frown on their fellow men for being gay. | |
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| Bisexual men
Posted: 8/3/2009 1:57:16 AM | [q]I find it interesting that a lot of men readily accept a woman being bisexual or gay but that they frown on their fellow men for being gay.
I'm not saying its acceptable, I just want to watch !
well for the frst 20 mins anyway | |
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| Bisexual men
Posted: 8/3/2009 2:37:59 AM | Aabrave: You just proved my point!  I think bisexual men are usually stereotyped as being confused about their sexuality preferences whilst bisexual women appear to be confident and assertive about their sexuality.
If I was bisexual I would in fact prefer to be with a bisexual man because I feel that a lot of bisexuals are more enlightened about themselves and their sexuality, since I believe that it is the person and not the gender that is important. I think almost everyone has bisexual tendencies if they would only open their minds to the conception. | |
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| Bisexual men
Posted: 8/3/2009 3:02:44 AM | Lol Brownie,
I may point out at this point my best mate is Trans Gender.
and no, I havn't or wouldn't
but, and this is where I'm coming from. Personally I find men, even myself unaatractive therefore can't understand why other men would fancy other men. Now women, well there are just yummy ! therefore I can relate | |
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| Bisexual men
Posted: 8/3/2009 6:51:12 AM | | I could only have a proper relationship with a 100% straight man, but must confess to fantasizing about two fit-looking blokes having it off together -- 'cuz guys kissing guys is HOT, HOT, HOT!!! | |
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| Bisexual men
Posted: 8/3/2009 9:22:19 AM | msg..69........69 69......god just my mucky mind.....yep two blokes snoggin,very hot ...two blokes,buggerin there brains out ...... yuk.
back to topic.......i would rather have sex,and wake up next to a bi........than find out he was a rapist..or some kind of nutter.... | |
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| Bisexual men
Posted: 10/12/2009 11:56:17 AM | " My question is could you ever find it acceptable having a partner that has intercourse with men whilst being with you due to him being bisexual. Would you date and ultimately live with someone who was bisexual? "
I would love to go out with a bi man ... | |
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| Bisexual men
Posted: 10/12/2009 12:18:02 PM | I can't see what the problem is tbh.
Bi or straight you still have all the same issues with HIV and other STIs, still have the same issues if they fancy someone else, still have the same issues if they decide to be unfaithful. Can't see what the difference is. Girls do you not think about where his penis has been prior to meeting you? Are female arses different from male? It's all sh*t isn't it. | |
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| Bisexual men
Posted: 10/12/2009 12:39:47 PM |
I was simply demonstrating that an act performed by lesbians does not make a hetero woman 'lesbian' when it is performed on her.
In the same way that an act performed by some 'gays' , when performed by hetero males does not make those heteros 'gay'.
I didn't see any demontration at all. The usual remonstrating, but not a bit of demonstration. Could you provide a link to the site or section of YouTube where you perform this demonstration please?
I don't think I know one man who is bisexual (I know some gays), but I know no politicians and not a huge number of ex public school boys. Is bisexuality more prevalent amongst ex public school boarders? | |
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