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Posted: 10/12/2009 12:45:13 PM | No, dating a bisexual guy wouldn't appeal to me at all.
I dont mind my man checking out the odd woman here and there but it would be a bit odd if we was checking out the same guys 
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Posted: 10/12/2009 1:15:39 PM | It wouldnt matter if he was bi or not but I'd expect the same from him as I would from a hetro man.. monogamy. Being bisexuel doesnt give you free reign to mess about.  | |
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Posted: 10/12/2009 1:32:42 PM |
It wouldnt matter if he was bi or not but I'd expect the same from him as I would from a hetro man.. monogamy. Being bisexuel doesnt give you free reign to mess about.
I'm with Hunni on this one. Three is most definately a crowd | |
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Posted: 10/12/2009 2:05:49 PM |
I didn't see any demontration at all.
And why am I not surprised?
I'd like to dumb it down for you, but I can't see how I can. MSG 51 had stated, with regard to anal sex:
it baffles me why some men do this. It's surely a sign of bisexuality or closet homosexuality.
In MSG 54, I responded:
"How so? Not everything that a 'gay' man does is necessarily 'gay', and it doesn't make any heteros who also do those things 'gay'.
Is a woman who enjoys receiving oral from a man showing a sign of latent lesbianism? Of course not!"
In MSG 57, the poster stated that my analogy didn't make sense to him, so in MSG 58, I clarified my earlier assertion:
"I was simply demonstrating that an act performed by lesbians does not make a hetero woman 'lesbian' when it is performed on her.
In the same way that an act performed by some 'gays' , when performed by hetero males does not make those heteros 'gay'."
Now, if you find that difficult to comprehend, I'm not sure that I could supply a link which explains it any simpler - sorry.
I don't think I know one man who is bisexual (I know some gays), but I know no politicians and not a huge number of ex public school boys. Is bisexuality more prevalent amongst ex public school boarders?
Well, seeing as you know some public schoolboys - why don't you ask them? | |
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Posted: 10/14/2009 3:46:15 PM |
Could you provide a link to the site or section of YouTube where you perform this demonstration please?
I was simply demonstrating that an act performed by lesbians does not make a hetero woman 'lesbian' when it is performed on her.
Are you asking for that poster to provide a YouTube link showing he is a lesbian? Or is that me being blonde?
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Posted: 10/14/2009 4:06:29 PM |
Is a woman who enjoys receiving oral from a man showing a sign of latent lesbianism? Of course not!"
Not so fast! - What if she is reading a copy of "Lady Truckers in Leather" whilst the man is giving her oral pleasure? - That may be a sign, of sorts ....
In MSG 57, the poster stated that my analogy didn't make sense to him, so in MSG 58, I clarified my earlier assertion:
haha! You said "anal ogy" An 'assertion' is a way of stating a fact or belief confidently and forcefully.
"I was simply demonstrating that an act performed by lesbians does not make a hetero woman 'lesbian' when it is performed on her.
What would 'make' her lesbian? Is it possible to make someone lesbian?
Could I do it without the person knowing?
In the same way that an act performed by some 'gays' , when performed by hetero males does not make those heteros 'gay'."
I think one man hiding his 'sausage' in another gentleman's 'exhaust pipe' could hardly be mistaken as 'a terrible misunderstanding'? I think I might safely assume he had 'tendencies' towards 'gayness' if he were to be found performing said act? | |
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Posted: 10/15/2009 2:05:14 AM | It wouldn't bother me if a guy I was seeing was bisexual, as long as he was honest about it with me. As to whether I'd be happy with him fulfilling his bisexual desires whilst we were in a relationship, that would take a lot of discussion between us both - and his honesty would be absolutely paramount.
To the poster that said he didn't know any bisexual men, I think you'd be quite surprised by just how many men are bisexual. The thing is, it's nowhere near as acceptable as bisexuality in women, so they just keep quiet about it  | |
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Posted: 10/15/2009 2:07:16 AM | Nope dont think i could,as much as im pretty open minded myself and dont mind bisexuality,i wouldnt want my man eying up the same arse i was | |
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Posted: 10/15/2009 2:29:31 AM | The word is NO for me, I do not get attracted to bisexual men.As a matter of fact it once happened to me that I found out one of my ex boyfriends was bisexual and I could no longer be with him.
And for example this new Jordan's boyfriend who is a cross dresser, I personally could not get attracted to him either. | |
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Posted: 10/15/2009 3:05:51 AM |
Not so fast! - What if she is reading a copy of "Lady Truckers in Leather" whilst the man is giving her oral pleasure? - That may be a sign, of sorts ....
Nothing of the sort was occurring in my analogy...
What would 'make' her lesbian? Is it possible to make someone lesbian?
OED Make: cause to exist or come about.
A heterosexual woman does not 'become' a lesbian by merely enjoying an act (performed upon her by a male) which is also enjoyed by some lesbian women.
Could I do it without the person knowing?
I don't know.....it might have something to do with how much 'woman' you are, and that is a private matter for you and your partner to discuss.
I think one man hiding his 'sausage' in another gentleman's 'exhaust pipe' could hardly be mistaken as 'a terrible misunderstanding'?
Are you questioning what you think, or are you questioning whether or not a particular act could be mistaken as a misunderstanding? It's difficult to tell with you use of the question mark.
I think I might safely assume he had 'tendencies' towards 'gayness' if he were to be found performing said act?
If you are questioning the act of a man performing anal sex upon another man, then I would agree with you. However, a man performing anal sex on a woman isn't necessarily 'gay', as some posters clearly think to be the case.
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Posted: 10/15/2009 3:09:51 AM | However message 83, by using the phrase "isn't necessarily 'gay'" you are allowing for the fact that it might be gay.
HTH
However, on topic, I do hate being dragged off topic!
I may have mentioned it before but for 4 years I lived with a gorgeous young 'lipstick lesbian' (her term) who was bisexual. During the period I never once brought up the idea of a 3 some (they are vastly over rated in my opinion), nor did she ever have the inclination to have a relationship with another female.
So yes I would have a relationship with a bisexual female, and yes I have had, but just like any relationship, hetero or bi, it would have to be 100% exclusive. | |
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Posted: 10/15/2009 3:10:22 AM | | In a word yes I have had a gf in the past who was bisexual and i lived with her for 19 months.She didnt cheat on me with a guy or a woman. | |
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Posted: 10/15/2009 3:16:03 AM | I've never been aware of anyone I know being bisexual, but it really wouldn't bother me, same rules/boundaries would apply to them as to anyone else.
I guess it's possible I might consider that it could be a contributory factor to him being a better lover since he's presumably open minded and has come closer to experiencing things from my perspective. | |
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Posted: 10/15/2009 5:23:37 AM |
I guess it's possible I might consider that it could be a contributory factor to him being a better lover since he's presumably open minded and has come closer to experiencing things from my perspective.
This is very wise....
As a child of the seventies, I have known quite a few claimed bi-sexuals, although I was never tempted myself ....
But one in particular would describe himself as "tri-sexual"
On the basis that he would try anything sexual!
I would have no problem at all with it, as long as it was monogamous/exclusive, or with consent , but she would soon get sick of my questions, and endlessly re-telling the same stories, over and over over and over over and over over and over..
*Ahem*
Yes, it would be fine with me..... | |
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Posted: 10/15/2009 5:26:39 AM |
But one in particular would describe himself as "tri-sexual"
On the basis that he would try anything sexual!
... and on that basis , I know someone who was bi sexual ...
if he couldn't get it , he'd buy it ....... | |
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Posted: 10/15/2009 7:41:46 AM | oggers... i laughed lots.....
I would date a bisexual woman... nothing to do with the lesbian fantasies at all no.
seriosuly though, bisexual people is not a term to describe their sex life, it describes the fact that they could easily fall for a man or a woman, in which case they basically double their chances of finding someone suitable theoretically. it doesn't also mean that they are more likely/less likely to cheat.
no men for me though... i'm a lesbian... | |
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Posted: 10/15/2009 11:13:25 AM | No way plain and simple. I am quite old fashioned in that way and the thought of munching on a todger that even years previous had been doing the hokey pokey with another man just makes me wanna heave.  | |
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Posted: 10/15/2009 11:35:56 AM | mmm I think I would, the possibility of a threesome springs to mind!  | |
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Posted: 10/15/2009 11:53:42 AM |
However message 83, by using the phrase "isn't necessarily 'gay'" you are allowing for the fact that it might be gay.
No, because I was using the word with its correct meaning. I know it annoys people when I do that!
OED Necessarily: as a necessary result; inevitably.
OED Inevitable: certain to happen; unavoidable.
So, anything which isn't 'necessarily' present is also not 'inevitable', ie there is no question that it is or will ever be present. Therefore, in the analogy I chose, and using the specific words, there is no room for the word 'might'.
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Posted: 10/15/2009 12:08:20 PM |
So, anything which isn't 'necessarily' present is also not 'inevitable', ie there is no question that it is or will ever be present.
Not inevitable means there is still a possibility , it doesn't mean:
there is no question that it is or will ever be present.
I think you're getting confused....
Yeah Bi-sexual women are great, and that
HTH | |
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Posted: 10/15/2009 12:28:42 PM |
Not inevitable means there is still a possibility
Only if you don't know what all the words mean in that sentence.
You plainly don't.
I suggest that you find a dictionary definition of 'inevitable' which allows for the 'possibility' of something not occurring, and present it here. You won't find one, of course....but 'good luck' in your search!
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Posted: 10/15/2009 12:49:09 PM |
I suggest that you find a dictionary definition of 'inevitable' which allows for the 'possibility' of something not occurring, and present it here. You won't find one, of course....but 'good luck' in your search!
I don't need to look it up, I know what it means.
Inevitable, means -will definitely happen, can not be avoided (in the future) a certainty.
"Not inevitable" , which is what you said, means there are other possibilities., but there is still a high probability of the thing it's referring to happening.
It does not mean, as you said;
there is no question that it is or will ever be present.
Perhaps you need a bigger dictionary...
Yes Bi-sexua, l that's the thing, or not, I'm not sure really. | |
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Posted: 10/15/2009 1:17:11 PM |
Inevitable, means -will definitely happen, can not be avoided (in the future) a certainty.
"Not inevitable" , which is what you said, means there are other possibilities.
No, it doesn't.
"Not inevitable" means that the event in question will not occur or be present at any time.
Let's use part of your definition of 'inevitable':
"will definitely happen,"
and add the 'not' aspect to it:
"will definitely not happen".
If the man in my analogy is 'straight', then the act of anal sex with a woman will not alter the fact that he is 'straight'. This is what I originally stated in MSG 54:
"Not everything that a 'gay' man does is necessarily 'gay', and it doesn't make any heteros who also do those things 'gay'."
and clarified in MSG 76:
"In the same way that an act performed by some 'gays' , when performed by hetero males does not make those heteros 'gay'." | |
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Posted: 10/15/2009 2:01:36 PM |
"Not inevitable" means that the event in question will not occur or be present at any time.
Let's use part of your definition of 'inevitable':
"will definitely happen,"
and add the 'not' aspect to it:
"will definitely not happen".
No you've misunderestimated me.
If you add the "not" it becomes "will not, definitely, happen"
Slightly, but significantly different meaning; ie., it may happen, but not definitely.
eg A meteor heading towards us, actually hitting us is probable, but not inevitable, there may be things we could do to prevent it , for example.
Bi-sexual women are generally very nice, probably. | |
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Posted: 10/15/2009 2:07:39 PM |
you've misunderestimated me.
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If you add the "not" it becomes "will not, definitely, happen"
Slightly, but significantly different meaning; ie., it may happen, but not definitely.
OK, you add the 'not' where you want in your posts, and I'll do the same for mine.
Anyway, given that I didn't use the word 'inevitable' in any of its forms in my assertions, it doesn't alter what I said about heteros being bisexual just because they like anal sex with females.
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