| Bisexual men Posted: 10/15/2009 2:14:46 PM | I only take the lady as she comes (so to speak) I am not into strange relationships or sharing people. I wouldn't be happy dating someone who wanted to date other people as well as me once a relationship started. Life is comlicated enough without encouraging the hedoniststs. | |
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| Bisexual men Posted: 10/15/2009 3:18:53 PM | yes
messages this short are said tongue in cheek and many other orifices | |
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| Bisexual men Posted: 10/15/2009 3:32:02 PM | Jeeezus , I bet you lot are a feckin 'wow' at parties , with all yer dictionaries and thesaurii ...
and I choose to use that sentence in the context of .. 'as in not really ' !
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| Bisexual men Posted: 10/16/2009 4:21:40 AM | | Gawd you two are making me dizzy....I thought the subject was bisexuality, not the meaning of certain words. Just a tad anal lads. | |
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| Would you date and ultimately live with someone who was bisexual? Posted: 10/16/2009 4:49:40 AM | | nope i would not ,i know some one who did marry some one who was ,and he messed round loads of times with both men and women ,and i have a friend who is gay his partner is messing about and says that people who are bisexual or gay are ten times more promiscuous than people who are not | |
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| Would you date and ultimately live with someone who was bisexual? Posted: 10/16/2009 10:38:12 AM | Ive just come out of a nightmare relationship. The guy was a cheat from start to finish. However he was also a bisexual in denial as well. I caught him out 3 times trying to meet up with a guy for sex behind my back, each time he denied he was bisexual even though all the evidence was there. Each time he apologised and said "it was a thing" he was trying to get out of his system. Then went on to deny it and refuse to talk about it when I asked him if he was confused.
I dont think he was that choosy who he slept with to be honest. At the end of the relationship he ended up getting someone pregnant which is what finally the last straw and made me realise I wasn't gonna be a doormat any longer.
Anyway to answer the question, I dont see it as a problem really if you want to accept someone as bisexual. If a person has chosen you as their life long partner then they should be faithful to you no matter what. There should be no excuses. However, I understand the point about them maybe feeling like they are missing out. But, ultimately they should be loyal to their chosen partner or not be in a relationship at all. | |
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| Would you date and ultimately live with someone who was bisexual? Posted: 10/17/2009 1:10:06 AM |
not a chance i dont do share AND as for being bisexual is it just wantting the best of both worlds
So, are you assuming that because someone is bisexual they are incapable of having a monogamous relationship?
Who my partner has slept with in the past is absolutely nothing to do with me, just as my past has nothing to do with him. If he has slept with men in the past, so be it. However, if I ever found out he'd slept with ANYONE male or female whilst in a relationship with me I'd cut his balls off (metaphorically speaking) . | |
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| Would you date and ultimately live with someone who was bisexual? Posted: 10/17/2009 1:28:14 AM | And I would cut off his balls, literally speaking. But if I was with someone bi I would not assume he would be more likely to cheat. I would though feel that there was a bigger pool of people for him to potentially be attracted to and that wouldnt make me happy.  | |
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