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scuzzlebutt

Joined: 5/29/2009
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Relationships Posted: 7/14/2009 4:11:23 PM
lol I can't think of a better way to push somebody away. What's the point of him saying "I love you" if you nagged him into it? When you persist on something like this you start to give it a negative association in his eyes. How's that going to help anything? On top of all this, is he with you? Is he otherwise what you're looking for, etc? Why get hung up over this now, and especially at only 8 months into a relationship? Just chill out and let what's going to happen happen.

Enchanted8808

Joined: 6/16/2007
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Relationships Posted: 7/14/2009 4:41:29 PM
He probaly likes you and doesn't want to lie and say he loves you ?

vietgirl84

Joined: 5/28/2009
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Relationships Posted: 7/14/2009 5:19:54 PM
i think that u shouldn't have to ask him to say it. if he trully does love u then why is it so hard for him to say it? i think he's hiding how he really feels. it would be a deal breaker to me. i think that's so hurtful to say i love u to someone and not have them say it back. is that something u want to deal with everyday?

SASSYN89178

Joined: 2/19/2007
Msg: 53
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Relationships Posted: 7/14/2009 5:45:53 PM
Has anyone asked why the OP is still on this site? In a relationship for 8 months, and still here? Oh, okay it's for the message boards.

2Irish1

Joined: 9/1/2008
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Relationships Posted: 7/15/2009 6:15:54 PM
Marriages and relationships fail for different reasons. I realize that is only your opinion, and I respect yours, just like I hope you respect mine...which is totally opposite of yours. I just simply could not/would not be able to maintain a relationship where my SO couldn't communicate on the same level...we just would not be compatible. Yes, words are useless without actions, on the other hand, sometimes actions are harder for some individuals to intepret rather than words. Rick, gotta agree with ya on this one....at some point in time two people in a relationship do have a responsibility to each other to let the other know on what ground they stand on!!! Having a hard time tryin to figure out why great communicators think that non-communication will work in this case...I'm guessin that the great relationship opinionators may have this one wrong...

Blk_ArchAngel7

Joined: 12/21/2007
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Relationships Posted: 7/15/2009 6:38:31 PM
saying it too much can be overrated. Actions have to match with it as well. If he's taking care of you, or just thinking about you to just let you know. Also supporting you tells a lot as well as communication . If none of the 4 elements are being used ( actions, random thoughtfulness , support emotional or physical, keeping in touch ) then they don't love you and just saying things to sugar coat what they really feel.

wicked_desires

Joined: 10/27/2008
Msg: 56

Relationships Posted: 7/15/2009 6:58:15 PM
we do say it occasionally..though we hate having to say it when prompted to or blackmailed too at 8 months he should know - lose him :( or trying doing it in corset and boots

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