| This is a loaded question but alot of people wonder about this
Posted: 7/18/2009 11:20:24 AM | ^^Those guys are doubtless out there. Maybe expand your search (larger distance, greater age range, etc.) People who screen for good partners can find good partners. Some of us focus on a certain "type" in dating, and perhaps that given "type" abounds in perverts, predators, cheaters and players......
There are millions of great people in both genders who are healthy, happy, and normal. The dater who perpetually ends up with losers has conditioned herself or himself to seek out losers. One has to screen differently in order to attract a different kind of partner. | |
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| This is a loaded question but alot of people wonder about this
Posted: 7/18/2009 11:44:25 AM |
I wonder why it is so hard for people to grasp the idea that just because some of us want long term because we value ourselves and our bodies and sex as more that just a sport or hobby that we are some how anti sex.
Probably why it's so hard for you to grasp that having sex isn't disrespecting your body and restraining from sex isn't giving your body higher value. Oh look you're better than me because you forgo things! Good job!
If many of you respect your body so much you'd be in the damn gym.
Some might lead shallow lives,
Right, if you don't follow The True Path of monogamy, marriage, and children then you have a shallow life. What the hell?
All of this shaming is done to herd men into doing what women and society want them to do. If a man does what he wants then there's obviously something wrong with him, right? We should all line up to support women and pay for their babies so that we don't get labeled as mentally diseased.
If a young man gets married, starts a family, and spends the rest of his life working at a soul-destroying job, he is held up as an example of virtue and responsibility. The other type of man, living only for himself, working only for himself, doing first one thinga nd then another simply because he enjoys it and because he has to keep only himself, sleeping where and when he wants, and facing woman when he meets her, on equal terms and not as one of a million slaves, is rejected by society. The free, unshackled man has no place in its midst.
I think many of you need to really look up crime statistics for things like women murdering and molesting children. It isn't played up in the media. For whatever screwed up reasons, male crime makes good tv while female crime is largely hidden. No one ever believes that women would hurt children or that "a mom could do that." Probably because women watch more tv and the media is geared towards bringing them in (it's obvious commercials are mostly made for women), and saying and debating things that make women look bad in general isn't good business sense... while man bashing is. Usually man bashing is considered good natured fun and par for the course on tv while women bashing is "OMG how could he say that. What a misogynist!!! Let's boycott and protest the network!" | |
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| This is a loaded question but alot of people wonder about this
Posted: 7/18/2009 11:46:04 AM |
Just like I would not force my religious beliefs on others, I don't want someones idea of vulgar sexual remarks
There are lots of things I, along with everyone else, does not like to hear, but that's part of living in a society in which people are allowed to speak.
or phonys who portray a nice person yet they are just out for the hunt and conquor approaching me.
Which has nothing to do with sex, per se. Con artists exist in every activity that being a con artist offers some gain to a person without ethics. Sex is just one of those activities.
Not to mention raped by someone on a dating site.
Which has nothing to do with anything I posted. I don't respond to strawman arguments. | |
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| This is a loaded question but alot of people wonder about this
Posted: 7/18/2009 12:52:05 PM | Sexual deviants are people who were abused in a sexual way at a young age so that their belief system of what is acceptable is screwed up. Once they become this it is like any other disease such as alcoholic - some with even intense therapy will still act out in some kind of way to control others either by physical or sexual abuse.
Players and cheaters are basically alike I think and they probably observed a father figure that did not know how to be faithful. Sometimes it can come from abandonment issues of the mother or her lack of faithfulness. There are probably a few of them out there that are just egotistical and think that the women (or men) of the world deserve to experience them coming into their life and should feel lucky that they even chose them.
Are their life fulfilling - maybe because they don't see anything wrong in what they are doing. Well I don't think that sexual deviants are fulfilled in their life because they beat themselves up after they act out on their deviancy - or at least some of them do.
There are the people who are just sexually open and don't believe in monogamy and they are perfectly happy. It is when they get involved with someone who does not think that way that I think can be hurtful for the one who can't even imagine sleeping around without committing themselves to that person.
Not sure if this helps. | |
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| This is a loaded question but alot of people wonder about this
Posted: 7/18/2009 7:15:43 PM | Having read quite a few different threads and then sitting back and having a think about it I've come up with these observations .
This particular thread has had 5430 views and 104 replies ...... for ever 52 lookers only 1 has bothered to try and get involved .
The thread about a 48 year old guy with an 18 year old girlfriend had 5196 views and 153 replies ....... for every 33 lookers only 1 has bothered to join in
The thread about our favourite sandwich combination had 4827 views and 200 replies ....... for every 24 views 1 reply
Even though this thread is half as interesting to most people as what would go good in a sandwich it still has attracted over 5000 views . 14 of the replies have come from the OP asking but why? why? and 52 to 1 readers thought why bother . | |
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| This is a loaded question but alot of people wonder about this
Posted: 7/19/2009 10:39:18 AM | | junkart you need to find a more usefull hobby. You have too much time on your hands. Is your purpose in life to rage on people? This person your raging on is my mother. She has a heart of gold and has been a wonderful loving mother. She also has a right to find love. She also has the right to wean out the dirtbags out there. From your posts you sound like one yourself. Who died and made you my moms judge and jury? Get a life. | |
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| This is a loaded question but alot of people wonder about this
Posted: 7/19/2009 11:52:03 AM | um.... kateri28 you need to calm down no one has been raging at your mother.
As far as I can see the two posts made by junkart are certainly NOT attacks against your mom you need to maybe slowdown and just read a bit more before attacking people. He is ONLY saying where she continues to ask why others are not Majority of readers of this thread are not interested. This is maybe not a statment even directed to your mother .... rather at those who think this is not interesting or as important as what makes a good sandwich.
Your response on the other hand seems pretty rude. | |
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| This is a loaded question but alot of people wonder about this
Posted: 7/19/2009 12:19:09 PM | | Sexual predators, perverts are people who are unfortunatelly rejected by opposite sex in so many ways that is not even funny. Their life sucks in that regard, and since at some point they couldn't overpower desire for sex which is natural, they decided to act in such extreme way. | |
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| This is a loaded question but alot of people wonder about this
Posted: 7/21/2009 5:43:34 AM |
junkart was merely pointing out in his post how many people spectate, without participation. How could this be considered raging?
I read your profile kateri28. It would seem, you have had your share of recent man problems. I can only conclude this is the reason your "sensitivity dial" is turned to high, and has "coloured" your thoughts. Your anger, in this instance, is misplaced.
Your mother, has posted a question to the forum community. No one is arguing her right to
wean out the dirtbags or to find love. | |
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