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| What are you looking for in a relationship?
Posted: 7/14/2009 8:19:17 PM | Dude, you seriously need to give yourself a check up.
Forget whatever what ever the hell your mother told you about girls, she was lying.
Grow some and look in the mirror and find the person you want to be, then maybe you can start to be man.
Looking for woman to complete you?? You'll die of a broken soul. If you find one that steps up to plate and wants to be on your team then go for it but don't be the wimp in the corner sulking other wise you go home with the common stock pig.
At 27 you have no idea who you are yet, but at least be what you know about yourself.
Don't lie or bull shit your way into a relationship, just be you.
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| What are you looking for in a relationship?
Posted: 8/24/2009 10:06:12 PM | | I am looking for someone that I can be "me" with....I thought I found that person, but once again turned into another dead end. Honestly, if you are not the person that you are on a daily basis, how can that person ever really know you!!! Let it all hang out and the cards fall where hey ****in' well feel like it. | |
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| What are you looking for in a relationship?
Posted: 8/24/2009 11:08:18 PM | | I am looking for someone who will hold my hand while we walk. Someone who I can talk to about everything from current events to existentialism. Someone who isnt afraid to live love and laugh. Someone who will tell me when I am being an antagonistic hag, and still love me enough to laugh about it. Someone who will rub my shoulders and sing to me. Someone who doesnt think I'm off my rocker because I want to go dance on the beach to music only I can hear. Someone who is ok with being doted on and touched. I want a best friend. A lover. A real man. Someone sexual but not a pig. | |
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| What are you looking for in a relationship?
Posted: 8/25/2009 12:54:58 AM | 1. someone who can wear the pants without turning into Attila the Hun 2. someone who isn't passive aggressive - i'd rather have ****y and REAL than smarmy and resentful 3. someone with an excellent sense of humour 4. someone who knows that "kind" outweighs "smart" in the human sweepstakes 5. someone who doesn't mistake good manners for weakness so help me god or they'll get a BIG surprise LOL!!!
The PMS "I don't ask for much" Pragmatist  | |
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| What are you looking for in a relationship?
Posted: 8/25/2009 9:25:18 AM | WOW! worse than ever, What an honest, realistic, straight forward and down to earth response. I believe that most women really feel this way but are either afraid or do not know how to express it. I recognized your statement "Does not mistake good manners for weakness" as I have this almost word for word in my profile. What really surprised me is that your response was so serious compared to your usual posts. SEE Never judge a book by it`s cover. haha No offense intended. | |
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| What are you looking for in a relationship?
Posted: 8/25/2009 11:15:55 AM | | wte ....i look for the same as you except i'm going to wear the pants cause i can and the point about good manners is exactly right.to many people make that mistake.great observation on your part | |
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| What are you looking for in a relationship?
Posted: 11/2/2009 2:44:39 AM | i'm really honestly looking for someone groovy and peaceful to hang out with who isn't witless enough to mistake kindness and good manners (i know it's hard to believe but i really am polite en masse) for WEAKNESS!!! because then you know i can't be held responsible and it would be unreasonable of anyone to expect it so GO POUND SAND STUPID M0THERFVCKER! you won't read this anyway, cause....you're too stupid and i'll be long gone before you figure it out, cause...i've lost patience and my attention span is not the longest recorded ANYWAY
The PMS "bored witless" Warrior Queen  | |
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| What are you looking for in a relationship?
Posted: 11/2/2009 7:57:45 PM | I'm looking for someone with the ability to be:
..present, yet not always
tough, and soft at the same time,
someone who invokes feelings of complete trust,
and titillating excitement
a dangerously sensual lover, as
well as a trusting friend
a surprising, inquisitive mind, and
a yielding ego, that asks to be informed
that person who knows and respects everyone's rights
as well as their own......
kindness and compassion for those who don't get all these things,
a heart that wants love, gives love, and sees love 
**but just on Saturday night, because I'm busy the rest of the week   | |
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| What are you looking for in a relationship?
Posted: 11/2/2009 8:48:50 PM | A good companion....potty trained.... yikes...I might need a dog...lol
no.. really.. in a relationship with a man... I need romance... I introduced to the concept a few years ago and I love it.
A respectufl man... a good companion... great conversation....a good sense of humour... easy maintenance.. ..independent dude... not a Mama's boy.
ya...that's about it... accepting.... of me...my kids... we are a package deal. | |
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| What are you looking for in a relationship?
Posted: 11/4/2009 1:05:22 AM | | What my Mom, Dad and Grandparents had. A commitment through thick and thin. Neither of you runs when the going gets tough, cuz we know it isn't going to always be a cake walk but we love each other enough to stick it out! = Relationship | |
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| What are you looking for in a relationship?
Posted: 11/4/2009 5:24:42 PM | * No workaholics, no alcoholics, no smokers/druggies, no gambling holics, no anger management problems, no players. Sheesh! Why is that so impossible to find?
* The ability to gab together for hours on end & still never run out of things to talk about, but at the same time, being comfortable doing & saying nothing but just enjoying each other's presence.
* Someone who has what it takes to be my best male friend, companion & confidante.
* A witty, smartass sense of humour is a must. I will die in a relationship without laughter.
* Non-judgmental, non-critical with a sensitive, kind & caring spirit towards humans & animals.
* Similar interests in movies, food preferences & other activities.
* The patience & endurance to go through the ups & downs of life together without bailing out at the first sign of disagreement or crisis.
* Good personal hygiene.
* A guy who can keep up with my sex drive, knows how to work my body until I'm begging him to stop & enjoys the fringe benefits that will be reciprocated. 
* Above all, a deep love & commitment because when you care enough about a person to give them those two things, a whole lot of other good stuff will happen within the relationship & all those trivial things that used to bother you about each other won't mean diddly anymore.
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| What are you looking for in a relationship?
Posted: 11/5/2009 11:38:49 AM | Values in common, similar life flavor, mutual trust and respect, chemistry, and most importantly: the ability to form the "Sacred Triangle".
MN | |
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| What are you looking for in a relationship?
Posted: 11/5/2009 12:21:06 PM | I think it's really hard to answer this question. There seems to be this underline balance between looking for what we truly want and looking for what society has taught us to think is right.
I think everyone has that same plain idea of who they want. Honest, Caring, Funny, and yet with a trace of Masculinity/Feminitity.
I think, personally, that the best relationships aren't with people who are like me. Rather, people who add some new dynamic, and yet still love me for who I am. Big thing is obviously where you are in life. I'm going for my masters, so for me someone intelligent takes priority over looks. Hopefully, no matter what people are looking for, they find it on here or somewhere else | |
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| What are you looking for in a relationship?
Posted: 11/5/2009 12:50:20 PM |
most importantly: the ability to form the "Sacred Triangle".
Funny ... I checked your profile & it doesn't say anything about wanting a threesome.  | |
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| What are you looking for in a relationship?
Posted: 11/5/2009 3:34:14 PM | ok you 2! get your minds out of the gutter!
Sacred Triangle, with God at the apex... get it?
For me spirituality is very important and my ideal man would want to know and love God (Source, Creator of all things, etc.) above all else.
I believe very strongly that in such a triangle there is stability and strength, while excluding egoism.
Yes?
MN | |
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| What are you looking for in a relationship?
Posted: 11/5/2009 10:38:26 PM | ok I have narrowed it down to three things....
1. more money than God
2. one foot in the grave
3. no living heirs.
hahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaa,............ no seriously!
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| What are you looking for in a relationship?
Posted: 11/5/2009 11:11:11 PM | | I thought about it a while. I think t boils down to someone who'll keep me safe and protect me and in turn i'll help keep him healthy and happy. | |
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| What are you looking for in a relationship?
Posted: 11/6/2009 12:18:41 AM | Back off Phat.... I called Dibbs on all the old timers!
Single Gal looking for Husband.
- Older gent, late 90s
- Heart Condition
- Blind in one eye
- Deaf
- One Kidney
- Mega Rich beyond Bill Gates and Warren Buffet combined
- No Heirs
Ya.... that would be the perfect relationship... might be a short one...but hey... I will survive!  | |
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