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 LostInSalem

Joined: 5/8/2009
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Posted: 9/12/2009 1:14:59 PM

As Asian women are generally more subservient than American women, I'd just think you were interested in someone you could push around ...


Are you kidding me? Subservient?? haha Push around?? No way.. not this chica! heheh
 El Efe

Joined: 3/25/2009
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Posted: 9/12/2009 2:20:12 PM
I don't mind pushing my women around as they are more than welcome to push back.

Then, puzzlingly, clothes start flying off not too long after. I used to devote a lot of time trying to root out the cause of that in an attempt to put a stop to it...but I decided some things are better left alone.

F.
 Not There Yet

Joined: 5/24/2009
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Posted: 9/13/2009 1:09:21 AM
I'm hetero so obviously I don't date Asian women but I've had many Chinese, Korean, Filipino, and Vietnamese female friends and co-workers who despite generally being diminuitive in stature were 10-feet-tall in strength of mind and purpose.

I wouldn't worry too much about all these alleged creeps on the loose coz it's a case of being careful what you wish for IMO.
 WackMC

Joined: 4/23/2008
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Posted: 9/13/2009 2:26:48 AM
I missed the part about why it's a curse.....??? If you're walking with a group of guys and a pretty woman walks by, ALL the men look. What kind of guys are you walking with that don't look at women?

Why is it a curse to be known to look at pretty women? How has this ruined your life? You said "curse". You didn't say "nusiance".

How is your life cursed? Do you wake up in the middle of the night with your German girlfriend and start screaming in Mandarin until she clobbers you with a hair brush? What is this curse thing?
 skyforger

Joined: 2/10/2008
Msg: 79
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Posted: 10/31/2009 8:39:01 PM
I understand what the OP on this thread is trying to say. I have given up answering questions about my last girlfriends (Chinese, Japanese, Korean). I don't have any particular attraction to asian girls. I did, however, live in Japan and Korea for six years. I remember being asked many, many times why I had asian girlfriends, the implication being yellow fever. My usual response to "Why do you have a Japanese girlfriend?" was "um... I live in Japan. The girls here are mostly Japanese." Apparently that made no sense. (Repeat situation and same question with slightly different answer for when I was in Korea)
It is pretty easy to get dumped into that rice king box. At first it was kind of funny, but now that I am back in Canada I just don't get it. I am getting pretty tired of being introduced to the only asian girl at the party ("This is So-Jeong, she's asian!"), I can only assume whoever the poor girl is, she's as uncomfortable as I am in that particular situation.

My experiences in Asia did curse me, if it is a curse to:
a) be on the constant lookout for good Hong Kong milk tea
b) try to find real Japanese food, and not some knock-off (I wanted to say, knock-off run by Chinese or Koreans, but the best sushi place I know in Canada is run by a proud Korean)
c) try and convince the nice lady at the Korean restaurant that I don't want white man spicy, but the real deal tongue like a sock numb spicy full Korean power
d) spend a lot of time studying linguistics as they relate to Chinese characters and their use in Japan, China, Taiwan, Vietnam and Korea
e) trying hopelessly to find a Japanese teacher here in Quebec city, because the university courses are at kiddy level
f) realize that I am not limited to dating white girls (this may seem somewhat childish, but before I lived in Asia, I just assumed Asian women were only interested in Asian men)
g) cry with pangs of hunger whenever I watch the first 10 minutes of "Eat Drink Man Woman"
h) sigh every time I walk into a camera store here in Canada, yearning for the days of the insane selections available in Osaka and Hong Kong
i) dream of a house with a Korean ondeol heating system, Japanese open concept architecture, Swedish furniture, all made with Canadian materials (especially the windows...)
j) etc. etc.
 NappyKAT

Joined: 7/2/2008
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Posted: 11/1/2009 12:06:59 AM

I suppose that the whole 'Jungle Fever' thing sorta counts...


Asian/white known as jungle fevah? That's new to me.

Never liked the term.

I like ice cream.

Should be 'vanilla butterscotch swirl.'
 Vannili

Joined: 7/8/2008
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Posted: 11/1/2009 12:41:09 AM
,,, and any time you're out with our friends and and asian girl walks by they'll immediately look at you expectantly,hoping to catch you drooling.
*It's just funny. Who knows what I'm talking about?*
( please note... I'm sure there are pllenty of you Asian Persuasion guys out there. For the record,y'all are some creepy** stards...)


I am an Asian Filipina,~~~~~~ that's correct, it is funny and I have no idea what you are talking about either, I don't expect men drooling at me if I walk by for the reason I am not a meat and the men are not wolfdogs... Just for the record..

Some men who likes Asian women are creepy **stard ???? Whew! You seem to have a flu,have you taken an Advil pills ? Flu in the brain is fatal than swine flu, so take care.

The curse of the Asian Persuasion is a title of a comedy show.... lol
 Vannili

Joined: 7/8/2008
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Posted: 11/1/2009 1:30:44 AM
As Asian women are generally more subservient than American, I'd just think you were interested in someone you could push around...



I beg your pardon , it is because we are nice, sweet ,kind and loving and we DON'T yell a man is j*rk or any name IN HIS FACE ,they can push us around ???? I don't know where you got that impression.. I've observed so many abused women, they are tall and big but they don't even know how to defend their self ..... Our company collect food donation during Christmas time from us employees to give to some women abused shelters.. We don't have abused women shelter in Asia

For the record, we Asian women knows how to *defend our self *and we know how to make our man docile. Yes I mean" docileee".. Divorce is not common to Asian women...
 xsploosh

Joined: 7/4/2008
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Posted: 11/1/2009 11:30:33 AM
The majority of asian women who are dating or married to a 'WHITE MAN' are with a maried man or a divorced man where the asian female helped with the divorce or the white man was volnerable. Once a man has an asian women in his life, he has a miserable time getting rid of her even if they're just dating. Maybe you should fish asian women in america and canada on the pof and other site and yes the majority of them are divorced or seperated.
 sashimiboy

Joined: 1/14/2009
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Posted: 11/1/2009 11:58:07 AM
balloon boy couple is the perfect example of a domineering white husband and subservient asian wife
 blueceleste

Joined: 6/2/2005
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Posted: 11/1/2009 4:02:26 PM
im lost lmao. i have never heard that one b4. it does seem u got friends who r stuck on stereotypes or somethin. i met a guy one time who loved asian women which was cool good 4 him. he told me he only liked asian women who were so obedient like dogs and wanted someone to kiss his ass not kidding true story. he had friends who felt the same way about asian women, they were all about asian girls and having an ass kissers.

yea u need new friends i dont know what 2 say lol
 guitaristinsc

Joined: 1/11/2009
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Posted: 11/1/2009 5:10:11 PM
I never got insensitive remarks from friends for dating an Asian girl. I'm not sure where the OP is coming from really.
 valenciacityx

Joined: 3/10/2009
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Posted: 11/2/2009 12:51:02 PM
Its Seattle, If you arent Chinese, Japanese, Philipino, Thai, Laotian, Vietnamese, Korean, you probably arent shopping at the University like I am ;)

Of course Asian girls from Sakahalin Island will always get head of the line priveledges. I cant resist that Russian accent.
 JCBoston69

Joined: 10/18/2009
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Posted: 11/4/2009 3:19:40 PM

As Asian women are generally more subservient than American women


It's sad that so many American women today confuse "being a lady" with "being subservient." You'd probably have more/better relationships if you understood the distinction.
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