| Can you fall in love over the phone?
Posted: 8/5/2009 8:11:47 PM | uhmm, yeah sure you can...
then you can make love, finally meet, get married have a child, then get divorced.
Not necessarily in that order...of course...a la carte...but u get the pix...
in some cases you don't even have to get married, meet, or have children.
this can be done all on the internet, kool huh?
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| Can you fall in love over the phone?
Posted: 8/5/2009 8:53:09 PM | I recently saw a story of a woman who fell in love with a man she met on the phone. They talked, emailed, IM'd, the guy sent her flowers, gifts etc...each time she brought up meeting each other, the guy had a reason not to, she had this "Love" relationship for over a year!
As it turns out, said guy was actually a teenage girl (and a few friends) playing a prank! True Story!
Ms vicxstar, respect yourself a bit more, for your own sake?!  | |
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| Can you fall in love over the phone?
Posted: 8/6/2009 2:05:28 AM | I have always said"Happiness is having something to look forward to"
We get excited at the prospect of meeting the person after talking to them on the phone.
They make you laugh, fill in empty spaces and lead you on.
It's not your fault, you are only human.
Some men just don't care about your feelings...........
It happened to me a couple weeks ago............ | |
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| Can you fall in love over the phone?
Posted: 8/6/2009 5:32:56 AM | As it turns out, said guy was actually a teenage girl (and a few friends) playing a prank! True Story!
Some prank! Some friends! Sounds pretty cold and heartless to me  | |
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| Can you fall in love over the phone?
Posted: 8/6/2009 6:03:29 AM | | Phone conversations can be intense and revealing, however seem to be a poor substitute for up close and personal. If two people are so "connected" via the phone, and within a reasonable geographical distance to meet...the failure of one person to commit to meeting in person kinda makes me wonder what's up? | |
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| Can you fall in love over the phone?
Posted: 8/6/2009 6:31:40 AM | | You can fall in love over IM, phone, over e-mail, however it happens. But be cautious to think that you have fallen in love with the real person. You've probably fallen in love with your idea of what this person is. The longer you wait to meet, the more it becomes infatuation/in love with your idea of what s/he is reall like, the harder it will be to meet and possibly fall in love with the real person. | |
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| Can you fall in love over the phone?
Posted: 8/6/2009 10:20:00 AM | Stay away from separated men. Check out the threads. Separated = married. Separated = baggage. Etc.
The majority of us have only been separated at some point. | |
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| Can you fall in love over the phone?
Posted: 8/6/2009 10:37:50 AM | Dahlin, You are not in love, but you think you are ,the underline here is that you are desperate for a man... Talking endless hours of sweet nothing on the phone speed up the connection,physically.. I suggest you go out and meet other people, and socialized.
Then he got scared to meet in person ( being only separated) . Has anyone else fallen in love over the phone only?
The man is married you could do better than that, ....You are a pretty lady...
"This woman doesn't fall in love over the phone even on 10th dates unless the guy got goooood potential for a long relationship." | |
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| Can you fall in love over the phone?
Posted: 8/6/2009 5:42:07 PM | | No, never have fallen in love over the phone. Would have to meet that person F2F to see if there is chemistry. I talked to a guy who lived in Orlando and we had a connection (not sexual) over the phone but when I met him in person...I had no attraction to him. | |
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| Can you fall in love over the phone?
Posted: 8/6/2009 6:26:11 PM | Justbunky said this: "No, I don't think so. At least not me. Chemistry matters! Science has proven that smell/taste/hormones/pheromones all affect that "falling in love" feeling! Me, I gotta get up close and personal to see if that spark is there!"
I certainly agree with how smell/taste/hormones/pheromones affect that "falling in love" feeling but there is an intellectual connection too. I think things that get verbalized mix with said chemistry during intimate moments to create such feelings. I wonder if you really hit it off on the phone/online, and you meet, could a bad chemistry mix change things? If you hit it intellectually are good chemicals guaranteed? Could someone with better chemistry, a poor personality match, and equivalent looks outdo someone with not so good chemistry but a great personality?
I've started out a long distance thing on the phone/online but it took the meeting to consummate it. Pure love just on the phone? Anything is possible, i guess. There's a fine like between love and infatuation anyway. Infatuation is fleeting. When it goes the couple is wonder where all the magic has gone. They still feel love but it just ain't as exciting. Once in a while it comes back via a fond memory etc. Love is the bond. The bond isn't as fun as infatuation. A heavy dose of premature infatuation on the phone. Most def. | |
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| Can you fall in love over the phone?
Posted: 8/6/2009 6:59:17 PM | | it sounds like you had a really nice time relating to someone over the phone. there are many ways for people to connect. i wouldnt minimize your experience or allow anyone else to define it. you trusted a man on the phone and then put yourself at the mercy of the dating "experts". i dont think this makes you unstable or immature. it sounds like you are a very trusting person that is willing to risk the vulnerability necessary to eventually find a true partnership. now you feel the loss that naturally occurs when things didnt turn out as you hoped. i read that "experience is what we get when we dont get what we want". so...learn this lesson. there will be many. there is a delicate balance between self preservation and skepticism. skepticism is the kiss of death in the dating world. | |
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| Can you fall in love over the phone?
Posted: 8/7/2009 8:27:45 AM | how true this is i meant a man on pof and we talked for over a month and when i set a date to meet him he always had something else to do so i think possilby he was married or something the calls would end fast sometimes so i think possibly he was already in a realation ship but we go on lot of fish out there | |
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| Can you fall in love over the phone?
Posted: 8/7/2009 11:20:38 AM |
How the heck can you live up to the image you portray if you talk on the phone too long? lol.
Precisely, imagine a photo in the profile lying down in bed or couch scantilly clad with a Mystic Smile Ala Mona Lisa Portrait, hmmmm, I wonder if Mona Lisa is blabber mouth on cell phone and texting all the time if she is not smiling ?  | |
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