| So he has been in prison so what right?
Posted: 7/25/2009 9:27:08 AM | Your parents are overprotective, and you're dating someone who would give them a heart attack....
anyone want to analyze just this statement? anyone?
If you're being supported 100% financially, WHY do you want to screw that up?
Answer, honestly to yourself, these two questions.
From that, you will find the answer. Everything else in your post doesn't matter. Yes, people can change. People make mistakes. But really, focus on the two questions I posted rhetorically above. | |
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| So he has been in prison so what right?
Posted: 10/18/2009 1:37:07 PM | So he served some time, big deal..get over it. Speaking of prison, I met a bbw chic on this site a few weeks ago. I don't know what is it with her but she had some sick twisted fantasy of getting gangbanged by a few prison inmates in a cell.
BTW she went into complete detail (which is to explicit to post)..lol. | |
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| So he has been in prison so what right?
Posted: 10/18/2009 1:52:53 PM | | just tell them he did some bad things in the past and is currently turning his life around. No need to speak of prison and all that. Let them know who he is, and if he feels he wants to tell them about his incarceration I'm sure he will. There is a difference between lying and letting ppl know the information that they need to know | |
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| So he has been in prison so what right?
Posted: 10/18/2009 5:42:22 PM | It's not so much the prison part that jumps out at me first, op. It's that he's only been out for one month so you barely know him and that does not bode well for any couple regardless of their mutual pasts.
I think it's far too early to meet the parents although you seem more concerned about simply telling them. And that begs the question about just how sure of the situation you really are within yourself -- otherwise, why bother?
The other thing that concerns me is that my nearest and dearest male friend who did seven years in prison still had issues with his experience for years after he turned his life around and never looked back.
On some level of his being he was still living there and this was indicated by some of his reactions to normal social situations.
Only time will tell if he 'changed'. But it will no doubt take a very long time before his first response in certain circumstances mirrors his stay in prison -- and whether you are going to be able to understand that. | |
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| So he has been in prison so what right?
Posted: 10/18/2009 8:31:39 PM | I would never be interested in someone who was in prison for home invasion.
That is almost as bad as it can get. It shows he doesn't care what he does
and has zero good judgement.
Home invasion isn't a "mistake". It shows he is dangerous. People get killed
in home invasions.
And I wonder about your intelligence.
I don't automatically have a problem with an ex con but it depends on the crime. | |
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| So he has been in prison so what right?
Posted: 10/18/2009 8:56:41 PM | Home invasion second degree, that's a felony kiddo, he will have a felony record for the rest of his life.
He can't vote, own firearms or be around them, and it is EXTREMELY difficult to find a decent job.
If he has any work skills that is, other the what extra skills he learned in prison.
Leave it alone, there are plenty of young men without criminal record out there.
If you were my kid, I'd tell this guy to leave you alone.
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| So he has been in prison so what right?
Posted: 10/18/2009 10:17:50 PM | | Hate to break the news to you but amazing men don't violate other people's privacy and break into their homes.Con men however can be quiet amazing. | |
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| So he has been in prison so what right?
Posted: 10/19/2009 5:42:07 AM | Well...usually I read the authors profile to see what their about but your not available....you might have an idea what this guys deal is but most do hide what they really did or their history...dont be nieve....I work in a prison...seen it all...and if you have any children...keep-em at bay.....till you think you know the deal.....I have a theory...first time in the big house----hes got a chance at a real life when he gets out.....any more---nope hes a loser and will never fly right....Good luck and keep your eyes open! | |
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| So he has been in prison so what right?
Posted: 10/19/2009 6:05:12 AM | | please girl...where are your standards...is it anyone who will have you...get out now...and don't be surprised if you see his dark side when you try to get out...run, don't walk...this is trouble ...and deep in your heart you know it..you can do better... | |
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| So he has been in prison so what right?
Posted: 10/19/2009 7:51:37 AM | | grow up get off the parents tit and then you wont worry about making decisions that may or may not be detrimental to your family your friends and you.....IN THAT ORDER. | |
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| So he has been in prison so what right?
Posted: 10/19/2009 7:54:35 AM | "Im worried about telling my family my boyfriend is a recently released convict."
I'd be more worried about dating a recently released convict. Dump him. Let him find another criminal to date. | |
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