online dating service
REGISTER | MAIL/PROFILE | HELP | NOW ONLINE | SEARCH | RATING | FORUMS | SUCCESS STORIES

 

Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Remember that we are the largest 100% free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.
     
Show ALL Forums  > Sex and Dating  > why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head?      Mod Threads Home login  
Page 11 of 11 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11
 Author Thread: why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head?
 flirtyfunblonde

Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 251
view profile
History
why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head?
Posted: 10/20/2009 12:17:40 PM
I kinda compare this a man's penis size. Just because your hung like John Holmes DOESN'T make you a good lover. Just becasue you have the equipment to make it work doesnt mean you have the tools to get the job done.
 Gem With Flaws

Joined: 9/28/2009
Msg: 252
why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head?
Posted: 10/20/2009 12:22:26 PM
I hope you have a lot of different women to count as part of your 'market research' .. because that statement is pure ridiculousness ...

There is no average
There is no majority.

FFS everyone is different. There is nothing worse than a generalisation.

Grow up
 flirtyfunblonde

Joined: 8/25/2009
Msg: 253
view profile
History
why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head?
Posted: 10/20/2009 1:06:03 PM
My guess would be that pretty women don't need to be good in bed to keep the guys, and ugly women need to compensate for their unattractiveness.

THIS COMMENT IS SO FAR FROM THE TRUTH..... a person size, shape, color has nothing to do with ones sexuality !!
 ChinaShopBull

Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 254
view profile
History
why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head?
Posted: 10/20/2009 4:00:20 PM


My guess would be that pretty women don't need to be good in bed to keep the guys, and ugly women need to compensate for their unattractiveness.


THIS COMMENT IS SO FAR FROM THE TRUTH..... a person size, shape, color has nothing to do with ones sexuality !!


Maybe not directly, but how someone views or values themselves makes a difference in many aspects of behavior (both positively and negatively), regardless of how anyone else sees or values them. It's not how the world views us that makes the most difference in how we perform (in all matters); but, the world CAN influence how we see ourselves. There are many reasons why someone might be good or bad in bed. That doesn't mean that there is no truth in a comment that doesn't apply to you personally. Some women DO try harder because of their less than ideal appearance. Some women never meet a man that needs a little extra attention to overcome the view, and haven't developed their skills beyond beginner levels.
 GoodWitchBeth

Joined: 2/21/2005
Msg: 255
view profile
History
why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head?
Posted: 10/20/2009 5:15:41 PM
I was married to two men...one had a very tiny penis and was a terrible lover because he just didn't care. The second was well hung, loved sex, and was the most amazing love I have ever known. So that story is a myth as far as I'm concerned.

I've been told I'm a very attractive woman, and I also have been told I'm one of the most uninhibited and giving lovers. I truly enjoy sex, I adore a man's body, and I certainly and not 'compensating' for anything. I just really like great sex with a wonderful lover. MMMMMM

Yeah, I'm sure there are some supermodels who don't want to mess up their hair and just lay there, and some guys with footlongs who think all they have to do is thump and pump to make a woman happy, but they are fools. I have had a man or two with that attitude before...as I recall, I made him my biotch before the night was over. Muahahahaha.
 DAVE632

Joined: 6/17/2006
Msg: 256
view profile
History
why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head?
Posted: 10/20/2009 11:46:33 PM
AND THERE boys and girls is the SECRET of LIFE, the MANTRA for HAPPINESS, the PHILOSOPHICAL BASIS for falling asleep with a big fawking SMILE every damn night even.


and I also have been told I'm one of the most uninhibited and giving lovers. I truly enjoy sex, I adore a man's body, and I certainly and not 'compensating' for anything. I just really like great sex with a wonderful lover.


ANY women whether she's a 10+ or a minus three (shudder) can and WILL make her partner and herself happy with that attitude.

Too bad ya couldn't BOX it and sell them at WallMart ...

From a male's perspective I completely concur. If you LOVE your partner and just want to CONSUME them, find every nerve ending they have and one by one give each and every one a mini O, to snuffle and breath in the aroma off every inch of their skin and hair, to taste them and discover exactly what drives them half crazy when you do it to them and never stopping - never stop finding those things either. They change and they vary in so many aspects. When every night is that good. When every moment apart even after YEARS of being together makes you want to FEAST on her all over again and can't wait to be with her again... then and only then will you appreciate the silliness of your hypothesis.
 girlwPriOriTies

Joined: 9/30/2009
Msg: 257
view profile
History
why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head?
Posted: 10/21/2009 3:54:46 AM
lol i am absolutely speechless. this is effed up
 cancer_babi

Joined: 10/7/2009
Msg: 258
why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head?
Posted: 10/23/2009 11:53:46 PM
those pretty women are afraid of messing up their hair and make-up lol jking.
i am not beautiful, but i am cute and well lets say im not the worse in bed lol! i have yet to have an orgasm! my ex couldnt say that about me!
 cancer_babi

Joined: 10/7/2009
Msg: 259
why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head?
Posted: 10/23/2009 11:54:30 PM
i totally agree with flirtyfunblonde. its not the size of the package. its how the package is delivered!
 SweetieGuy_81

Joined: 12/25/2005
Msg: 260
view profile
History
why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head?
Posted: 10/24/2009 8:34:18 AM
Well as Dr Phil said on one of his shows, which i found true and quite funny.

'Its not how deep you plow, its how long you stay on the field' i found it quite true and funny.
 TOMic bomb

Joined: 10/5/2008
Msg: 261
view profile
History
why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head?
Posted: 10/29/2009 6:27:18 AM
MSG 253


My guess would be that pretty women don't need to be good in bed to keep the guys, and ugly women need to compensate for their unattractiveness.


generally, i agree with this statement but flirty fun blonde said...


THIS COMMENT IS SO FAR FROM THE TRUTH..... a person size, shape, color has nothing to do with ones sexuality !!


uhhhh .....yes it does in a very general way. i believe you are INCORRECT because you are a woman. and that first comment is closer to the truth then some WOMEN actually realize. most men of vast experience know what the GENERAL truth is.

remember that men and women are different. you as a hetero woman have no idea what it's like to have sex with a drop dead gorgeous woman and what sex is like with a plain woman.

the plain woman tries to please you more and is more pliable to bend for THE MAN'S desires rather than her own. GENERALLY SPEAKING (i keep saying that so you'll understand there are exceptions). she tries a little harder to keep you. the gorgeous woman can get most any man so she doesn't have to try as hard or exert herself more AND THAT MAKES A DIFFERENCE .

no hetero woman can speak for a man in this way.
 scd

Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 262
view profile
History
why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head?
Posted: 10/29/2009 6:33:10 AM
Great,
I`m glad this is a joke... You have issues that need to be dealt with as a person which has nothing to do with this topic or thread....maybe you should begin by growing up and start being a man instead of a little boy...
 1kindMan4U

Joined: 5/23/2007
Msg: 263
view profile
History
why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head?
Posted: 10/29/2009 9:29:54 AM
I'm laughing

There's another thread about peni size. Several women said that more endowed men just sort of "show up" flop it out and say.. Ok baby.. it's all yours as if just HAVING a larger than average peni is all they have to DO.

Now.. I HAVE noticed that the prettier a woman is, the more shallow and self-absorbed she is.

I happen to believe that it comes from being desired when young.

The pretty girl always gets attention.. no matter HOW much a biotch she is. Both to the boys and the girls who want her cast-offs. You always saw that "Mean girls" leader who had her pack of shrews who thought they were ALL THAT just because of their clothes, boobs, or skirt length. Complete bubbleheads

It's been hilarious to go to reunions and see them now. Almost ALL of them put on a ton of weight.. got dumped and left with the kids when their looks-expiration-date came.. and almost ALL of them looked haggard.. Yeah.. HAGGARD.

The funniest part was how they were STILL trying to be the belle-of-the-ball, but now those ugly-duckling nerdish bookworm girls had blossomed and had BOTH careers AND style.. as well as much improved looks. Oh.. they also had CHARM and GRACE, something that the stunners back in school never learned.

Whether this general LACK Of development carries over into the bedroom when naked would only be anecdotal.

I DO know this.. MOST affairs.. where the guy seeks out ONE other, has the mistress not-as-pretty as the wife.. BUT she is a lot more nurturing AND enthusiastic about her man... even if he IS a borrowed one.
 Blue-Eyes-Shine

Joined: 11/26/2008
Msg: 264
view profile
History
why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head?
Posted: 10/29/2009 11:04:24 AM
So...I'm guessing ugly men are better lovers.
 TanishALovE

Joined: 9/1/2009
Msg: 265
view profile
History
why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head?
Posted: 10/29/2009 9:44:17 PM
haha definitely exceptions to the "rule"!
Just depends on the person and there level of sexuality.
 scottdehart

Joined: 6/5/2009
Msg: 266
view profile
History
why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head?
Posted: 10/30/2009 10:06:41 AM
I'm still waiting for the sign up sheet for the fact finding expedition on this.
 RickyGR

Joined: 10/9/2009
Msg: 267
view profile
History
why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head?
Posted: 10/30/2009 1:03:42 PM
The hottest girls I have known have been beautiful. BBW's can be sexy as well. 90% of sexuality is in the mind anyway. Being raised as a strict fire and brimstone Christian can screw up someone's sexuality.
 barbyanne2

Joined: 10/19/2009
Msg: 268
view profile
History
why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head?
Posted: 10/31/2009 9:08:39 PM
Being pretty does not mean having to "work" less in bed. If being in bed with a man/ woman is considered work, then you, man or woman, have some issues.

Being in bed, sexually engaged, is exciting, intimate and satisfying. Why wouldn't I or any other "pretty" woman want to touch tease and please our handsome man's gorgeous bod? That does NOT sound like work to me...

My guess, regarding the OP's issue, is that he is less self concious with a less attractive woman. What that tells me is...wait longer till you are comfortable to have sex so that a woman's appearance won't intimidate you, or her prettiness won't make you so self concious.
 misssynne

Joined: 10/18/2009
Msg: 269
view profile
History
why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head?
Posted: 11/3/2009 1:53:25 PM
Perhaps the ugly women feel obligated to be a sexslave....
Whilst the pretty ones know that there are tons of other men that would love to kiss the ground they walk on.... Do I need to say more...

And perhaps the ugly ones are trying to hint to you OP that you perhaps arent the best in bed;)
 venndiagram

Joined: 10/29/2009
Msg: 270
view profile
History
why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head?
Posted: 11/3/2009 2:19:13 PM
So...I'm guessing ugly men are better lovers.

Absolutely!
Page 11 of 11 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11
 
Show ALL Forums  > Sex and Dating  > why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head?