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| why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head? Posted: 8/9/2009 6:45:15 PM | Dang Kellygurl! Too bad you live in Cali. I think your attitude is quite sexy. Ahh, but on to the point. Dude, your expectations are one way and your reality is another. Maybe it was you that didn't please them or turn them on. Works both ways you know. Not trying to slam you but, it takes 2 unless you are self-eroticating. It's all about chemistry. Work on your target aquisition and refine your target set if sex is all you are after. | |
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| why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head? Posted: 8/12/2009 4:25:24 PM | Here is the true answer to this question. Unattractive girls ...actually, most girls in general, have low self essteem. So, at a young age they believe that all they have to offer to a male, in order to recieve his love and respect, is sex and sexual favors. These girls grow up to be more sexually experienced and therefore will please you more. They think its all they have to offer.
Whereas pretty girls, are told they are one of a kind. They are treated like a queen, and paraded to family and friends to show off as a trophy girl. They didn't havey to do anything for anny man to get this treatment and therefore, she is less sexually experienced and thats all it really is.
My last bf and I broke up a few m onths ago and now he is dating this HIDEOUS man looking "girl" lol.....very unattarctive. The first thing my guy friends said, "SHE MUST BE A FREAK!" And i was like "CLEARLYYYY" LOL Well good for him and his freak, shes gross, and im getting the last laugh. | |
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| why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head? Posted: 9/1/2009 9:25:05 PM |
Here is the true answer to this question. Unattractive girls ...actually, most girls in general, have low self essteem. So, at a young age they believe that all they have to offer to a male, in order to recieve his love and respect, is sex and sexual favors. These girls grow up to be more sexually experienced and therefore will please you more. They think its all they have to offer.
you have a lot to learn grasshopper.
beauty is only skin deep you won't be chirping this song when the girls start to sag. | |
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| why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head? Posted: 9/1/2009 9:38:15 PM | My last bf and I broke up a few m onths ago and now he is dating this HIDEOUS man looking "girl" lol.....very unattarctive. The first thing my guy friends said, "SHE MUST BE A FREAK!" And i was like "CLEARLYYYY" LOL Well good for him and his freak, shes gross, and im getting the last laugh.
I'm ashamed to be the same gender as you. Just - wow. Your whole post.
Although, I suppose it could show people that you probably suck in bed, given that you are "crazy beautiful" or wait.. no you're probably that rare exception aren't ya?
Someone's gene pool needs a little chlorine.
And yea, I'm happy being the fugly girl. At least plastic surgery can help my ugliness; yours is embedded in your genetic code. | |
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| why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head? Posted: 9/2/2009 2:16:52 AM | it takes two to have bad sex... perhaps stop relying on your partner so much for your satisfaction.
as for the OP's statement about good in bed vs. appearance... I disagree entirely. I think anyone can somewhat already have the signals to tell if someone isnt quite their match in a sexual relationship.
dont underestimate being comfortable around each other... that sort of trust makes it so much easier to open up and let go, and its a wonderful feeling... totally enraptured in the moment.
By the way, everyone is talking about their own personal experience, obviously no expert and factual data represented... that also means talking from a fram of reference from social conditioning, culture and proximity. In Europe, as opposed the US, pretty girls arent told how special and unique they are and it is very rare to find someone so infatuated by their own beauty... in fact, most of the extremely attractive women I know are uncomfortable with being seen as some sort of social value object and actually embarrassed or insecure about it. | |
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| why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head? Posted: 9/2/2009 8:08:57 AM |
In Europe, as opposed the US, pretty girls arent told how special and unique they are and it is very rare to find someone so infatuated by their own beauty... in fact, most of the extremely attractive women I know are uncomfortable with being seen as some sort of social value object and actually embarrassed or insecure about it.
This is true.
My theory, after living in Prague for six years in the 90s, is that it's because there are simply so many pretty girls in Europe that they simply blend into the landscape and are not put on a pedestal and fetishized like in most parts of the US, where a beautiful girl becomes almost a local celebrity by the time she's in her late teens.
Supply and demand... | |
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| why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head? Posted: 9/2/2009 8:42:52 AM | I can neither confirm nor deny the OP's statement. Perhaps if I can experience a larger sample size I can provide a statistically valid answer ...
So far, I've experienced examples both confirming and contradicting this. Projecting from my limited experience, I believe that other factors have a greater impact on skill than how pretty she is. | |
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| why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head? Posted: 9/2/2009 12:37:06 PM | | As I dont exactly consider myself prettier than average, although i dont consider myself ugly, my opinion on this is that most beautiful women are more concerned with how they look and getting satisfaction for themselves, than with pleasuring and pleasing their partners. | |
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| why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head? Posted: 9/2/2009 12:39:53 PM | This is true.
My theory, after living in Prague for six years in the 90s, is that it's because there are simply so many pretty girls in Europe that they simply blend into the landscape and are not put on a pedestal and fetishized like in most parts of the US, where a beautiful girl becomes almost a local celebrity by the time she's in her late teens.
Supply and demand...
Agreed. But it's not all of it, just most of it. The US is a huge country. The vast majority is filled to the brim with angry, homely girls... but there are parts that are chok full of hotties. Surprise, surprise, the better looking the women are in a geographical area, the nicer and more "normal" said pretty girls are.
The european standards of obesity are WAAAAY different than the US. Does the term "BBW" even exist over there?
I am honestly curious.
Not only that, in my experience, european women as a whole seem to enjoy being women, and accept gender roles better than American women. It seems like the vast majority of younger American women are suffering from a hard-core identity crisis.
-8sf8
PS. There is nothing hotter than a black or an asian woman with a British or Irish accent. Mmmmmm. mmmmmmm | |
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| why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head? Posted: 9/2/2009 1:26:47 PM |
The european standards of obesity are WAAAAY different than the US. Does the term "BBW" even exist over there?
Never heard that term while I was over there, actually. Someone with Jennifer Lopez's body would be considered "big" in most parts I think.
Not only that, in my experience, european women as a whole seem to enjoy being women, and accept gender roles better than American women. It seems like the vast majority of younger American women are suffering from a hard-core identity crisis.
Sometimes there is a particularly toxic mix of radical academic feminism with American Christian puritanism, which results in a fundamental confusion of sexuality with sexism.
That said, I often did miss the spunkier, more independent spirit of many American women. I found Aussie and particularly Canadian women (these were expats, so they may or may not be exceptions to the rule back home) to have a nice balance between spunkiness and femininity. | |
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| why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head? Posted: 9/2/2009 4:19:51 PM | are you brad pitt or george clooney>>>you are such a jerk...have you noticed why those pretty girls do not want to perform...maybe you have an ugly personality you turn them off..investigate...i bet they fake it with you...and they probalby are good in sex...but you are obnoxious, immature if i met you...i would show you the door | |
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| why the prettier the woman, the worse she is in bed or giving head? Posted: 9/9/2009 2:07:55 PM | | I would think it is because the less attractive girls have to compensate. but don't think that is universal just your personal experience. there are a few attractive women out there who truly enjoy giving. Some of us have to compensate for our shitty personalities! ha! | |
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