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bsmyth311

Joined: 7/13/2009
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just dont get it Posted: 7/31/2009 8:13:32 AM
...the definition of 'being in the friend zone' tried to be friends with a ex before and it doesn't work. It's like torturing yourself.

msskarly

Joined: 2/1/2009
Msg: 26

just dont get it Posted: 8/1/2009 1:01:28 PM
...the definition of 'being in the friend zone' tried to be friends with a ex before and it doesn't work. It's like torturing yourself. My ex just left me for his ex too! It seems to happen to a lot of people! We were together for a year and 3 months before he left me though. And I completely understand how hard it is! You did nothing wrong & I wish you the best!

inbruges

Joined: 5/1/2009
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just dont get it Posted: 8/1/2009 2:41:03 PM
OP do you tend to attach to someone just to have someone? Maybe you should take a little time for yourself and just be you -- without a man. Amazing what a little perspective alone will do for when you are with someone. If you can be by yourselfand like it, then you can leave men that aren't good for you. And it will stop the endless line of men you love that don't love back. It helps and works for your own sanity and love life--

DifferentOpinion

Joined: 7/28/2009
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just dont get it Posted: 8/1/2009 9:48:21 PM
What in the world is the friend zone? You people need to get out and stop watching movies... Anyways to help with this situation there are two options you can do here, You can continue to hate and beat yourself up for something you had no control over to begin with."Which personally I think is very disappointing because you should have more balls then that!" Second which I highly advise is to show her why leaving you was a mistake, Stand up above others strive for the good and be the best person you can be. Its almost like everyone has close to the same problem, The problem is your scared to live for yourself, You need to get out and prove to people that you want to be respected and not taken lightly when it comes to relationships and life. Nobody needs anyone else to live, they need to do that on thier own. Instead of trying so hard take some time off and build your own personality. Meet new people and try and help anyone you can, make friends and experience life, trust me sitting thinking about what you did wrong when everything you did was right...makes you go alittle crazy..