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The three things that a man wants in a mate...
Posted: 10/18/2009 3:08:14 PM


Number one..... Kindness this is essential when things really get rough in life and they do more times than not.

Number two..... A good sense of humor..... somebody who will keep him laughing in good times and bad

Number three... Honesty..... We men need our feet held to the fire whether we admit it or not.

So quit worrying about the looks ladies .... just had to set things straight



Thats a bunch of bullony.

I can rephrase that for you to read that - men are looking for the above qualities IN a beautiful woman :-). They can compromise and take one quality only if the woman is beautiful.


Huh? So how does that explain women of lesser beauty who are in a relationship? By default, does that not imply, by simple inference via the implementation of your statement, that those women are ALL filled with kindness, humour and honesty? Really? Cuz I've met at least one who aint.
 tinyone123

Joined: 5/4/2009
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Posted: 10/18/2009 3:14:52 PM
im sure they don;t JUST went them mary
 Margo64

Joined: 7/28/2009
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Posted: 10/18/2009 3:22:05 PM
Just because I'm me I'll say that Sonlyical, Rock Hunter, The Rock Man, Lambrose, MRCS84, and HairMetalFan all gave worthy responses...
Other than that it is the qualities I seek in a mate that really do matter. I know, I know it's always about the sex first for me but I'm really not always THAT bad...
 Remington55

Joined: 9/23/2007
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Posted: 10/18/2009 3:50:03 PM
"...kmm52072 (Msg 11) says, "Let's re-write this shall we to be more 'realistic'.......

Number one....Chemistry/attractiveness....first comes the looks, then comes the body (it's all about personal preference)

Number two....Sexual compatibility

Number three....Sense of humor...he wants someone who will laugh at is stupid jokes, you know the ones that no one else will laugh at but HIM and hopefully YOU

Number four...Patience and Understanding...these are essentially tied into one because even though you understand that he can't get up off his ass to get himself a beer....You must learn to patient with his constant whinning about it


Now may none of these four women ever meet, it's like I used to tease my ex-wife, "May my love, my sweetheart, my girlfriend, and my wife never meet..." She was good about the teasing because she said she was all four..." I laughed and agreed with her. Sometimes a person's mental illness gets in the way & they do things inappropriately, I did not slight her for her actions in the end. It was better to part on good terms for as they say, "Good endings make good beginnings..."

Cheers,
**~Remington55~**
 lvnlife09

Joined: 10/15/2009
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Posted: 10/18/2009 5:37:11 PM
I'm just wondering why you're only looking for three things in a mate. You're selling yourself short, don't you think, if you don't look at EVERYTHING a person has to offer? You might want to broaden your horizons and keep an open mind, otherwise Ms. Right just might pass you by.
 Inpune

Joined: 9/12/2009
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Posted: 10/18/2009 5:41:04 PM
Three ok Stop your God done Nagging!
Stop Assuming and leave me out of women's Issues!
Give Me all the sex I want!
 Dee4166

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Posted: 10/18/2009 5:48:34 PM
Well there you go!!!!
























NOW...all I can THINK about are sandwiches!!!!!
 Gem With Flaws

Joined: 9/28/2009
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Posted: 10/18/2009 6:18:08 PM
I want some of the popcorn that was going earlier.

Honestly, I look after myself, but, I know that any half wit so focused on what they see will not be able to deal with my wit and intelligence.

So it's all good.

Take me as I am or not at all.
 haildestroyer

Joined: 8/5/2009
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Posted: 10/18/2009 6:25:03 PM
Sandwiches thread?

For me it's an ability to think critically, have humility and strive for improve ones self in all aspects.

The rest comes later.
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