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| The Deep Spot
Posted: 10/15/2009 5:38:47 AM | | jeez wtf, I never knew such a spot existed. Well I'm a tall guy 6'5 to be exact so my fingers are quite long actually, would I be able to reach with the fingers? Another question being that most girls I date dont like anal sex, and I dont know if I'd want to try it, so I'm wondering what are the best positions that might get her a deep orgasm, if possible. My penis is of average size, around 6 inches ( might be too much info but who cares) so will I be able to hit it? I had complaints from one girl that I went too deep all the time, no such thing as deep orgasms I believe occurred, maybe I was wrong...she seemed more hurt than relieved. Would be nice to get some advice from the pros, after all I'm only 21 and still fairly "sexually stupid" but I want to please my woman, I'm a giver but I want to prove that I am by making my woman moan all night long. | |
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| The Deep Spot
Posted: 10/15/2009 7:01:34 AM | That's funny. I was poking fun at one of the youngin in here for sounding like he knew "everything" already and a few accused me of being Prejudice Man for stereotyping the young. Then you describe yourself as young and "sexually stupid." No, man. You're just inexperienced ... not aware of a bunch of stuff. Ignorance is easily changed and in this case a lot of fun in the learning process.
Damn, kid! You got half the battle won just by that statement. Now you LEARN a bit and experience a lot because they are ALL different to some degree and the result is one happy woman in your life!!
after all I'm only 21 and still fairly "sexually stupid" but I want to please my woman
What many do not realize is that the spots in a vag are set up to trigger during childbirth. That means they need specific pressure and some times a fair amount exerted at the right angle. The avg kock does NOT provide that pressure at the right angle for those spots to trigger - usually. I say usually because any time you address a wide audience there's always gonna be somebody jumping up and down saying "It works for MEEEEE!!!" That's good dear. Sit down. It does NOT work for the majority of women. Not, at least until those spots are trained to react and she knows how to angle her pelvis so his erection IS hitting with enough pressure to trigger orgasms. Lotsandlotsa orgasms!!! 
I suggest reading my TRY THIS thread on LIT and some of the posts in here. Trust me the PRO's for the most part are still arguing over the GSPOT even exists. You'll get more "hands on" info in these threads thah from the so-called "pros" The other thing you'll get is feedback from actual living (one recent study on GSPOTS was done on a bunch of cadavers) women who KNOW this works and have experienced these techniques and orgasms EVERY night. The researchers have trouble getting their "subjects" to respond so they assume we're all FOS! So your best source of how to is threads like this and my TRY THIS one.
http://forum.literotica.com:81/showthread.php?t=70892 | |
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| The Deep Spot
Posted: 10/15/2009 7:15:43 AM | Well I'm not completely inexperienced, just haven't been with a girl that knows how to position herself a certain way. I guess it's all about positioning when the A-spot is involved.Mostly the girls I've been with just sit there and expect me to "know" what their turn ons are. Ugh, the carnage  Everything else is cake pretty much, but like you said I still have lots to learn. Well I'll try this weekend, see what works and what doesn't. I'll post up the results when I'm done with the "love making" haha. thanks a lot man I appreciate it.
As for training the spot, I gotta use my finger to stimulate the A-spot and use words to kinda brainwash her into getting the O through the A when we have intercourse? | |
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| The Deep Spot
Posted: 10/15/2009 5:45:17 PM |
As for training the spot, I gotta use my finger to stimulate the A-spot and use words to kinda brainwash her into getting the O through the A when we have intercourse?
One thing to remember... not every woman will enjoy or respond to Aspot stimulation. Even if she does, it may not be strong enough to reach orgasm. Just do what feels right... listen to and watch her body... and hopefully you will find a woman who won't just lay there and expect you to know and do everything. She should step up and be involved in pleasuring both of you.
Ugh, the carnage
 That was friggin' funny!
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| The Deep Spot
Posted: 10/15/2009 6:24:12 PM | RE: hitting the cervix: This is different for different women. And in fact, interestingly, it also moves during her cycle if she is not on birth control.
Some women's cervixes are anterior, some posterior. Some positions you can go deeply and not hit it, other positions you will.
And here's something really interesting (and perhaps some TMI), I was being a bit experimental witha partner..he happened to be quite large - mostly in length. We decided to try sex w/my small butt plug in (This was my first try with it).
So, doggy style w/his large penis HURT. But with teh plug in my ass, doggy style w/his penis didn't hurt at all. I figured out finally that the plug "adjusted" my anatomy enough so that he was no longer hitting my cervix. Does that make sense? I can be more graphic if needed.
Anyway, so if you are with a girl and a lot of positions hit her cervix, a small plug in her ass during your penis in vaginal sex might just help you avoid the cervix.
I haven't tried it with any other partners, but I did talk to a guy (my current bf) who told me that his ex said the same thing - she used a plug and it made it so that he didn't hit her cervix. (my current bf is average, not overly large, it's just where her cervix happened to be)
oh and yes, when a woman ovulates, her cervix moves, as well as opens up...years ago when I was tryign to get pregnant, this was one of the ways I could tell I was ovulating. The book told me to check each morning and sure enough, at ov time, I would hit it with my finger at a different spot. | |
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