| A thank you, afterwards, how do I handle that?
Posted: 7/23/2009 1:23:21 PM | Well Whytwater, there have been other sessions since and "thank you," repeated. I did discuss it with her at dinner after that first time to see if I handled it well. She was very happy with the fumbled but lucky reply. I say "lucky," as I tend to joke and kid a lot and I could easily have said something pretty stupid. I am capable of that. 
I started the thread to see what others might have done and it looks like I did it pretty close to the right response here too. Not wishing to sound like I am bragging but she has now elevated it to a hand branding iron motion on my butt and saying, "Ssssssttt, Premium Grade." 
If this woman is after a LTR and maybe marriage she sure is making some mileage with me.
 and it is not just the bedroom stuff either, my dog likes her too. | |
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| A thank you, afterwards, how do I handle that?
Posted: 7/23/2009 2:16:22 PM | | I actually was kinda at a loss the first woman that said thank you to me for sex ..but reverted to my standard answer ..when a woman thanks me for a dance ...she says thank you after the dance and I always say No, thank you ..it never failed to get a smile of affirmation on the dance floor so when I was thanked after sex ..that answer came to me rather quickly ..and again I got that smile of affirmation...so I deducted that I had the right answer ... and since I have used it several times always with positive results ..whtwater your answer although a bit more polite and gentlemanly ...means the same ..but after sex or on the dance floor I am usually on a more casual mood ..I save my more gentlemanly /chivalrous gestures for the dinner table or when escorting her to a more formal event ..but as you have pointed out ..im a country boy | |
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| A thank you, afterwards, how do I handle that?
Posted: 7/23/2009 2:24:40 PM | | I pretty much always say thank you. Just another way of letting them know you appreciate them and their efforts to please me. It's fun to watch him blush and respond... at least now he's stopped asking "for what?" Hehehe.. | |
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| A thank you, afterwards, how do I handle that?
Posted: 7/23/2009 2:33:38 PM | It,s a lot more common than you think.I pretty much always say...."thanks I needed that" and most of the women I have been with do the same thing.I'm not sure why I say it....it does kind of sound out of context but hey....at least she didn't do a "costanza" on ya and tell you to get your glasses and get out!!!!  | |
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| A thank you, afterwards, how do I handle that?
Posted: 7/23/2009 2:47:48 PM |
I think the ideal comment would be:
"If you want to thank me, you'll let me do it again ;)" Now THAT'S a nice way to handle it.
\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/ Add those two posts below to the POF Book: "How To Look AT Everything In A Negative Light" due out this fall in paperback !
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| A thank you, afterwards, how do I handle that?
Posted: 7/23/2009 2:58:05 PM | I think I would be worried that she was thanking me for stopping....
If any of you EVER sleep with me, please don't thank me.
Actually... you could tip me? Afterall, I just "tipped" you... | |
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| A thank you, afterwards, how do I handle that?
Posted: 7/23/2009 3:04:15 PM |
Been seeing this cutie and after the first night together, a few minutes after I flopped back on the bed gasping for breath, she cuddled into me and said, "thank you." WTF?
Ya I'd be pissed too ......kinda sounds like she just received a pity fuk.......
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| A thank you, afterwards, how do I handle that?
Posted: 7/23/2009 3:19:00 PM | I've said it before. Kinda like "Wow! That was an amazing meal you cooked for me. Thanks!"
I laughed after I said it but it's a natural response when someone has done something that makes you happy.
Hey! It's better than a "thank you" after an "I love you"! ;) | |
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| A thank you, afterwards, how do I handle that?
Posted: 7/23/2009 4:09:20 PM | "Please" and "thank you" are powerful words... especially in the bedroom. If you're hearing them for the first time in your late 50's... well, sorry to have to be the one to break it to you, dude... but that means you haven't been doing it right.
"If you want to thank me, you'll let me do it again ;)"
And how you handle it is just like that. Especially if you want to hear "Oh, yes... PLEASE!" in response. | |
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| A thank you, afterwards, how do I handle that?
Posted: 7/23/2009 4:18:14 PM | OP, just because you've never heard it, doesn't mean she wasn't thinking it. The fact that she cuddled you, should've told you that you pleased her. And for the perverbial cherry on top she said "thank you"....Brother, she's thinking about making your bed, feeding you breakfast, and helping you with just about anything you need.
FYI, being magnanimous after sex is the predecessor to more sex; and for that matter, greater sex. It's appreciated when (generally speaking) an intimate moment is fulfilling, and sexually satisfying (know that the difference results in all the things I listed above). Man, when want to be risen to calling out our names, and experience good hair-pulling, spanking, multi-positional orgasmic situations that may just take a few moments or last a full night. When you rock that pu$$y to sleep, she'll be thankful, and most of all...Yours by morning!
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| A thank you, afterwards, how do I handle that?
Posted: 7/24/2009 2:11:38 PM | .
"Please" and "thank you" are powerful words... especially in the bedroom. If you're hearing them for the first time in your late 50's... well, sorry to have to be the one to break it to you, dude... but that means you haven't been doing it right. Wow, true thing...how sad. Sux to be him.   "If you want to thank me, you'll let me do it again ;)" And how you handle it is just like that. Especially if you want to hear "Oh, yes... PLEASE!" in response. Oh, yes, I've always happy to be able to say, "Please Sir, can I have some more?" Me and Oliver; polite to the end! Bwahh........ Ginny   | |
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| A thank you, afterwards, how do I handle that?
Posted: 7/24/2009 2:29:20 PM | "My pleasure." Say it as CHEESILY as possible, too, with a big goofy yet slightly evil grin.
Taking into account different cultures this did happen to me and my response was identical except for slightly different words. I'd have wanted to have been looking at the woman when she said "Thank You", Australians are really big on dry humour and sarcasm.
But "Wow" or "Don't you ever do that again. You darn near killed me" or some other compliment, yes the second one is a compliment just a humorous one, really should be terribly common. A slow drawled out "Why, you're welcome Ma'am" said with the same goofy or evil grin to fit your culture better, or something clever if you have the wit to pull it off or even turning it back such as "Hey, don't thank me, I'm still trying to work out if I am ever going to walk again" said with a very big smile. Saying nothing or at least not showing you appreciated the compliment is a terrible response however.
It really is a dumb question to ask though because if you don't get "thank you" or some comment after breathing is again possible you're just not doing it very well at all. LOL. Since this is the first time, I'm going to say you need to think about just how good you are, and you deserved this comment for posting what you did.
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