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 belgarion

Joined: 2/4/2008
Msg: 26
what are guys attracted too??
Posted: 7/24/2009 2:09:21 AM
I start with a pulse and go from there!
 bencasey

Joined: 1/25/2008
Msg: 27
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Posted: 7/24/2009 8:35:54 AM
Well, me personally, I can tell you I'm not attracted to someone who can't spell, capitalize or use punctuation.
 jackdozer

Joined: 7/12/2009
Msg: 28
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Posted: 7/24/2009 9:02:13 AM
How about honesty. No three year old grainy can't really see the person pictures. If a guy sends you a message answer it even if it is to tell him you are not interested. No list of things you like to do that is 15 to 20 things long. If you don't like sports say so. Don't tell me you like to hold hands and pull yours away from mine. If you want to screw on the first or second date just say so. I'll go somewhere else. If you can not remember the complexities of getting a divorce don't judge those that are seperated. Believe what the other person says until you catch them in a lie. If you are baseing attraction on purely physical attributes keep looking. We don't like to be looked at as fresh meat anymore than you do. Dress like a lady and if you don't know what a lady is you won't know how to dress.
 Birdman660

Joined: 3/13/2008
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Posted: 7/24/2009 9:18:56 AM
There are as many answers to this as there are guys in the world...

The physical attraction is basically just what gets you to walk up and say hello. She doesn't have to be an absolute goddess... but let's face it, if there's no attraction at all... it's not gonna happen.

Chemistry is big for me. Feeling that connection to someone when we are talking. That two way intelligent interaction is big... and there's just no way to quantify that one.

Sense of humor is big for everyone I think. Someone who you can relax around, laugh and have fun with. Someone who does not fly around the room on a broomstick the first time something doesn't go perfectly, or she didn't get her way on something.

And the ability to play. Playful is a big thing with me. It's HUGE in fact...
 Debs3822

Joined: 7/21/2009
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Posted: 7/24/2009 9:46:32 AM
What I think that men get hot in their pant and forget about everything else. So it is what are inside their pants are attracted to, lol.
 AvailableGent

Joined: 7/11/2009
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Posted: 7/24/2009 10:17:12 AM
First of all. Your picture with the "gangsta" finger signs and scowl on your face is so immature and makes you look , well.. stupid and cold, selfish and useless. I hate when women do that. What ever happened to looking classy and graceful, intelligent and warm? So, I would say that is something you should change immediately.
Obviously if you are attracted to guys who think they are "gangsta", are unemployed, sell drugs and break into houses, you may get their attention. Just do not complain here on the forums about ALL men when you catch them stealing from your purse, slapping you around, never helping to pay bills and living off you for free like a leech not too mention cheating on you behind your back.

I hope this site is not a true representation of the majority of woman out there today. Yes, yes, I know. You are all tough as men, will knife me in a second and you think you are so cool and hip for wanting the "gangsta" lifestyle. Now, step aside while I go talk to the nicely dressed woman with an education and bit of class and warmth.
 ~GoneSailing~

Joined: 6/5/2009
Msg: 32
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Posted: 7/24/2009 10:21:48 AM

6 inch F me heels, car batteries, jumper cables, magnets, porn, sammiches....apparently ham according to another forum thread, mute women, and BJ's


24-7
and a woman who knows how to use all of them, and put them back where they go
can do it looking like a Maxum photo shoot,
fek like a high priced whore - but still has every penny she ever spent
and has only one pair of shoes and they are the 6" fek me heels.

But owns 4 pairs of steel toed work boots for the weekends when 4 wheeling and muddin, fishing and pushing shit out of the mud is foreplay to Bud beer and brats - charred black on a fire, built with kerosene, diesel or old fence.
 granz

Joined: 6/22/2009
Msg: 33
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Posted: 7/24/2009 4:42:28 PM
Lean muscle, slender frame, moderate body-hair, deep voice, washboard abs, 6 ft. tall, five-o-clock shadow...

Truly, a man's man.
 readyornot57

Joined: 1/19/2008
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Posted: 7/24/2009 5:25:10 PM
I can't speak for guys your age.
But I have always been attracted to a woman who was not afraid to show she was interested in me. The coy, game players always turned me off.
 eastendwoman

Joined: 7/15/2006
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Posted: 7/24/2009 5:25:34 PM
Guys are attracted to stick insects with big boobs. Oh and, she needs to be a complete bubble head too!
 roninvince

Joined: 11/14/2005
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Posted: 7/24/2009 8:22:45 PM
It's different for every guy but what I find attractive(in decreasing order of importance):

Physically - a pretty face, beautiful eyes, a cute smile, a healthy athletic body, voluptuous breasts, smooth/untarnished skin(not a fan of tattoos, tanning or piercings) and long hair(color doesn't matter).

Psychologically - A good heart/compassion, an open mind/tolerance, independence, loyalty, composure, debauchery, humility, assertiveness and sense of humor.

Hopefully not too much of a cliché.
 odin1642

Joined: 10/10/2007
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Posted: 7/24/2009 8:45:35 PM
On either a dating website or nightclub, purely big tits, nice ass, fit looking body (most of these women probably aren't physically fit at all, but they do manage to project a "fit" look) tan, good smile and pretty features. The same as the women in nightclubs and dating websites are purely attracted to big biceps, big chest, tan, good teeth and nice smile, and a fit looking body (again most of said guys probably aren't very physically fit by a functional standard, and probably none too internally healthy either due to steroid use in many cases, and ingesting more protein and supplements etc. than is good for them, but it's only the appearance of fitness that counts in the mating game).


Sad but true. On a dating website or a nightclub, you won't get beyond the looks. Only in a setting where you can get to know the person over time, such as say the work place or friendships etc. can personality count to the extent where we might then graft an attractiveness onto the person beyond their physical appearance.


This is the reason why both dating websites and nightclubs are often poor venues through which to find a good relationship, both are predicated purely on the appearance of potential mates.
 danzandsing

Joined: 5/12/2009
Msg: 38
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Posted: 8/2/2009 11:07:25 PM
Outside of the physical (nice rack, sexy buns, legs, etc.), I love a woman who is sensual without restraint and unconditional in love.

Danz
 make a wish!

Joined: 7/16/2009
Msg: 39
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Posted: 8/2/2009 11:16:37 PM
i liked the way she laughed, giggled, said some of the words, her touching my back in the morning. and her dressing sense.
 forumologist

Joined: 2/23/2008
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Posted: 8/2/2009 11:17:48 PM

likes to discuss topics that are on coast to coast AM radio

Finally!!!!
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 forumologist

Joined: 2/23/2008
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Posted: 8/2/2009 11:20:42 PM

We don't like to be looked at as fresh meat anymore than you do.


Ah an honest man. Gotta love it.
 reachingformore2009

Joined: 5/22/2009
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Posted: 8/3/2009 4:00:51 AM
Kindness, pure and simple.
 I_luv_2_play

Joined: 11/5/2008
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Posted: 8/3/2009 4:22:20 AM
Beth, that is the best answer I've heard in a long time! thanks for reminding us that kindness goes a long way.
 extrememale2004

Joined: 11/1/2005
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Posted: 8/3/2009 9:48:13 AM
I am attractive to a women who is cute and has a nice personality one who can realate to others. I also like women who are thick because I am a 240 pound man and also a women who has common sense.
 Coma White

Joined: 4/11/2004
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Posted: 8/3/2009 11:51:09 AM
Guys generally like women that aren't all head games, but women like that about men too. I'd say asking this is like asking what kind of food men like, it's different for everyone.
 barbee1970

Joined: 12/29/2008
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Posted: 8/3/2009 3:09:36 PM
Seems like airheads, big boobs, aggressive women. Nice women don't seem to get anywhere.
 Arabianangel

Joined: 6/9/2007
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Posted: 8/3/2009 3:17:57 PM
Let's spark this thread up a bit shall we...

Men DON'T like aggressive women

Men DON'T like stronger women

Men DON'T like girls that pursue them

And the one's that claim i'm wrong are the men that women refuse to date anyway!

Getting the pop corn out
 funredheadlady

Joined: 5/11/2009
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Posted: 8/3/2009 3:27:57 PM
guys are attracted to a woman that they think wi8ll give it up right away
 kpooks

Joined: 12/23/2008
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Posted: 8/3/2009 4:45:13 PM
Cute face, slender bod, spunky, spicy intellect, humor, warmth.
 bluesandrock

Joined: 6/24/2009
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Posted: 8/3/2009 4:56:50 PM

6 inch F me heels, car batteries, jumper cables, magnets, porn, sammiches....apparently ham according to another forum thread, mute women, and BJ's


I love a good sammich.
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