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Posted: 7/24/2009 1:43:14 PM | Stop preaching and ignoring. Again, I'm asking:
"Kindly explain to me why the proverbial NG expects women to change their preferences/expectations for them, but these NG's are unwilling to make similar compromises?" | |
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Posted: 7/24/2009 2:03:40 PM | E Gad Another nice guy rant in disguise. And a lecture to women about what women subconsciously want. An amateur Frued yet! I suggest you look inside yourself and decide the kind of partner you want to be to a woman and behave accordingly. As a mature woman I am clear about the kind of man I want to be with. Kind ,compassionate, fun, able to be emotionally intimate, well educated, self aware, self confident, compatible and financially stable. I want what I offer. I have no need for a white night and have kissed enough frogs to know there is no prince out there. Only my prince. I have also lived long enough to know there is no such thing as happily ever after. Also I am already happy. My Happiness does not depend on weather there is a man in my life. A Mr Wonderful is icing on the cake.
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Posted: 7/24/2009 2:18:46 PM | Msg# 34
I bring a great well paying career, lots of investments and a house that is paid for. As well as many other accomplishments. I do not need or want saving. I need and want a compatible partner to share my life with. Now what do you bring to the table? | |
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Posted: 7/24/2009 2:58:35 PM | INCOMING 
INCOMING
I bring to te table vanity ,egotism, complacency, vainglory, ostentation. emptiness, sham, unreality, folly, triviality, futility. Other than that I am a pretty neat Guy . XOXO
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Posted: 7/24/2009 3:10:02 PM | FINALLY!!!!! Something to laugh about since it is Friday! Now I can give my sister something to really laugh about on her 54th birthday today.
Dude, you will be lucky after today when if you get any dates with this lame thread. How did you manage at 26 years to psychoanalize every woman in the world with this verbal diarrhea? Happy ever after for me is chilling out with a wine cooler reading all the responses to this thread and having a good time laughing at you.
Doesn't matter if you post as many threads just to hurry up and push this trollie thread down in to no man's land, women will remember it and your face and then you will delete your profile like so many before you after they were bashed for putting this stuff up.
It is out and we are having a hoot at your expense.
Imagine that, a 26 year old telling me that I am single because of high expectations. I am rather proud that at 40, I don't have a knight in shining armor. That suit is a booger to shine
msg#73: So I guess you think you are the answer to all our problems?
msg#84: You too???? At 24, you can't be serious. Maybe you should find another place to find serious women and not rely on the club scene to 'get' with someone. | |
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Posted: 7/24/2009 3:33:06 PM | I believe you are right.
Ive met so many women who are just delusional and think too highly of themselves.
Alot of women try to save them self for the 'prince', hop from club to club every weekend in search of him. Little do they know that the 'prince' does not goto clubs to look for a woman he wants a serious relationship with.
I mean just look at this site. The search feature allows you search for exactly what kind of partner you are looking for down to the colour of their eyes. A guy might be a perfect match for the woman, but just because his zodiac sign is something other than what they are looking for, they will not take the time to msg him to see what he is truely about.
Im not hating on all women, because I have found few REAL women on this site who are now just friends. But 90% of women on this site are just searching for something they'll never find. And when they do find it, their stale personality, lack of morals will make him move on. | |
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Posted: 7/24/2009 10:08:20 PM | Goodness knows why this thread is full of such condescending "Ooooh I'm soooo much smarter" than you responses to a reasonably well articulated and thought out post.
When people feel the need to point score and say "I'm so much smarter/classier/perceptive/etc. etc. then it probably says a lot about their own lack of confidence and security etc.
So why are said same people lecturing the OP on why he should sort out his insecurities etc etc. ? | |
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Posted: 7/24/2009 10:57:37 PM | i think you need a new pitch sometimes you have to try the unexpected. when i first started i had a long winded replication of my profile after talking with some people i change up my tactics kept it short.
hell some of them were hey how was your week? and it worked now i am talking to some people lots of rejections but just how impersonal it was seem to loosen the tension.
it's pretty neat actually. | |
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Posted: 7/25/2009 8:01:32 PM | Oh thank you, thank you, thank you for finally being the expert man to swoop in and tell all us pathetic, poor, lonely single women what we're all doing wrong. But why waste your talents here when there's so many more of us women out there in need of your service. Go, go, for the good of the nation, go and tell the world what you've shared with us!
Good grief you are a loser! | |
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Posted: 7/27/2009 6:11:39 AM |
Tell me how your average 45 year old divorcee has more to put on the table than a 26 year old? .....This is a really funny statement to make says the 49 year old to the never married never had children 27 year old. Just tells me you have a LONG way to go.
Us oldies don't know everything nor have us oldies learnt everything, but alas experience? YES we DO have that. Sure we made mistakes along the way and life didn't turn out the way we thought it would which is why some oldies are here looking for another chance.
'Happily ever after' goes past a lot of men too you know. Some guy's wouldn't know a good thing if it hit them in the face.
I no longer date because I am sick and tired of men MY age not being able to get past their past. Unfortunately this is also a common occurance with younger men/women only the time spent with their 'special ex' is somehow shorter than the oldies had to deal with.
LTR to the youngens is anything over 3 months these days.  | |
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Posted: 7/27/2009 6:31:54 AM | Hmmmmm.....how do you take someone's advice serious when they have only had their profile open 4 days and then close it after a rant like the OPies? Thanks for the "words of wisdom" (using this phrase loosely) dude.
IMO I'm not looking for a "prince or knight". What I do want is someone who has the strength to build a life with me.....faults and all!
The message is to look inside yourself and reevaluate what you are looking for. while you are doing that, ask yourself, is what I am looking for realistic or not?
What makes you think that we haven't already done that? Oh, yeah, I forgot I'm talkin to a guy who didn't even have the strength to stick around and see the conversation that happened after his original post. And he wonders why "women feel like they will never find a man"?  | |
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Posted: 7/27/2009 8:47:53 AM | My my OP, and I thought I was bitter.
For the few shreads of an acutal point you may have in there, though, there is an essay by Chuck Klosterman, its the first one in the book Sex, Drugs and Cocoa Puffs.
Its about unrealistic expectations, media influence on relationships and so on and it is hilarious! Definately worth a read. | |
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