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| How long before you PUT OUT when your dating?
Posted: 8/26/2005 10:47:05 PM | | hmmmm....Stepinover... if that is truly a pic of u... ur hot. I might put out a bit quicker with u lmfao... sorry... I am getting ahead of myself lol... have fun all. | |
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| How long before you PUT OUT when your dating?
Posted: 8/31/2005 8:04:53 PM | | My words of advice, ahem, IF IT MAKES YA FEEL GOOD DO IT!! :P why go through a life that ends up with oneself becomming worm food, don't deny yourself the simple pleasures, we all break down into animals. Our natural desires are to eat, sleep and get it on. Everything else is secondary :P | |
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| How long before you PUT OUT when your dating?
Posted: 10/27/2005 5:50:03 PM | I read through the threads / the jokes aside .... people tend to make too much out of the act.
It is simply sharing something nice and very personal with someone. Nothing more. To make it a deal breaker or a bargaining force is kind of cheapening it and prostituting it (if he/she does what I want and need I'll pay/reward his/her good work/deed with booty but not till then.. [that is what I mean] that takes it to a sub level ... and the act becomes a release not an intimacy.....see why people get bored and go looking?) . I'm not saying to just go ahead and jump into the sack with the first nice looking person who comes along, but if you feel secure with someone (safe) and feel that the mood would go that way, why not?
I suppose that we have all gone to bed with someone that we did not have a deep romantic relationship with.......you know, a friend, someone that you knew it would never be more that a friend situation with, and I know that I did not think any less of the person for it,on the contrary, I had shared an intimate time with them and would forever keep it as a cherished memory. Not something I would share with anyone else. That makes it special.
I also don't go out and spread the news around about who I did it with.....the only way that has ever happened, is when the woman has told about it. I have always kept it confidential, and always will. | |
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| How long before you PUT OUT when your dating?
Posted: 10/31/2005 7:06:01 AM | I think that sex is a HUGE part of a relationship... and if two people aren't compatible sexually... then it can and probably cause problems along the way. I think that people should find out early on if they are sexually compatible... How early depends on the 2 people.
With that being said.... I believe that sex is a HUGE part of life in general. I would love to be in a great and loving relationship, with someone who I am sexually compatible with, But since I am not at the moment... I am not going to just quit having sex. I am picky as to whom I choose to have sex with... but I am glad that there are enough ADULT people out there to know the difference between JUST SEX and being in love with so called making love. Sex is a mighty enjoyable thing... so start enjoying it. | |
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| How long before you PUT OUT when your dating?
Posted: 12/5/2005 10:32:22 AM | yea, I'm going to have to agree and disagree with everyone. Sex is just sex, it's a biological function, as relevant as eating or sleeping, AND the most fun you can have for free! well hopefully it's free for you, lol. Fact of the matter is, sex is moldable, it fits in many different formats. You can have sex with the next person of the opposite sex that you find, have no attraction to them, don't know them from a whole in the ground, don't even talk, just DO it, and there's a pretty good chance it'll suck, but there's an equally good chance it'll be awesome, as it's just the stimulation of nerves on the body. HOWEVER sex with someone you care about usually has better odds, because while your doing it with them, your perception changes it into a union between the two of you.
Something I want to say to guys though who complain about girls with holding sex, there's a reason why girls do this, and it's not the classic holding the milk till you buy the cow thing. Guys do it too, it's because we want to see if there's other things there too which might make that sex we want to have more fun.
I've had my share of one night stands, oh lord have I ever, because I love sex, and if I'm attracted to someone, I want a piece, you can bank on it. But I can say with out a doubt, the best sex I've had is the incidental kind, where we click mentally and we've just talked and talked about everything under the sun and just happen to have sex too, no big deal, just like we continued a good conversation while making dinner together, that's the good stuff, the big moment comes and passes without "the big wait" or "the easy conquest", hell it's just booty knocking, it's not your birthday! what do you want? a party? a badge? maybe something you can stamp every time you get some? I don't even understand why this is a debate, just another example of society coming in and telling us how to think, but with that remember, that the more you think, and the more you share, the more you become the "society" that other people feel judged by. | |
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ShaeNB
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Joined: 11/12/2005
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| How long before you PUT OUT when your dating?
Posted: 12/17/2005 6:14:35 AM | Ok here's my 2 cents worth. If you're looking to have a good time and you're both consenting adults... go for it! If you're looking for a long term relationship hold off a bit, get to know each other, weed out the players. Lets face it most men will say anything to hit some sex if they think they're gonna get some. If he's sincere and interested in a relationship he'll be ok with waiting for a bit. Sometimes the wait makes it all the better when it does happen.
Funny thing though...if a guy has sex right away he thinks he's a stud. If a woman has sex right away he says she' easy?? Double standard! | |
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Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 45 | |
| How long before you PUT OUT when your dating?
Posted: 12/20/2005 4:14:49 PM | Yeah kvgirl,lol im with you what is sex??? I forgot,God help me,i think of the first time it may happen.makes me abit nervous,and you want to make sure you can live with your choices and your partner does not think differently of you just because you have not been active,and i feel someone your judged if you do or dont????what gives.  me omg. | |
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cjwc
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Joined: 12/26/2003
Msg: 46 | |
| How long before you PUT OUT when your dating?
Posted: 12/21/2005 9:07:04 PM | I may be no mother theresa no sex before marriage but I also don't hop in the sack on the first date lol
Once I get to know the person, im all for it.. because lets face it.. if things dont work in the sheets, things will be dull years later as well. I wont puruse it.. but if it happens, it happens | |
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| How long before you PUT OUT when your dating?
Posted: 1/6/2006 5:58:27 PM | That is a real good question...My advice...if you are hoping for long term... and if the person is an internet date...do not have sex for as long as possible... let them show you their true colours first... | |
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greyy
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Joined: 11/24/2005
Msg: 48 | |
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