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dman82
| Joined: 3/30/2009 Msg: 26 | |
| What does a woman REALLY want? Posted: 7/27/2009 3:02:28 PM | I laughed when I first read this and a part of my ego wanted to say ME!!!!
But I'll be serious.
This is so subjective man where as not all women want the same thing so its tough to answer, I can say I know exactly where your coming from, sometimes women and men do weird things and change their mind out of the blue which leaves you wondering what went wrong, Ive found that the key to life and relationships is never allowing any women to take your joy away from you, to become independant and almost view possible relationships as a fast train either they are on or there off, because often when you try and piece things together and spend to much time analyzing and worrying women sense that as weak even though they will tell you different bro, the key is to not let anything get to you hence taking your joy away from you.
Confidence is huge realizing who you are and what you want is so vital when meeting women just be who you are know that you're a good catch and if she doesnt see it let her walk away in shame dont give immature or ignorant women the benefit of the doubt because many good man have been in your position when they've done nothing wrong and in many cases its just dealing with women who are inscure and dont truely know what they want that love to play games.....
Im by no means sterotyping all women because I know men do the same types of things.....anyways hope this helps | |
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| What does a woman REALLY want? Posted: 7/30/2009 8:23:51 AM | That is the most intelligent response I've had to far, a few others were great too. Thanks all for your opinions, although a couple were way off base.
I'm not the most articulate person for typing, writing or emailing. It's just not my thing. To pick apart and analyze every line I origianlly typed is way off the point I was trying to make, like I said...most of you people got it.
I see nothing wrong with talking on the phone. You get a better feel for the person. It's almost the same idea by saying; I got a D in writing and an A in speech, something like that.
The fact is that after the first initial contact, and it may be only a one liner from them. I respond in a appropriate manner and then....nothing. Ask her out? I don't think so. I don't even know enough about her to decide if I really do want to go out with her, nor her with me. I've been doing some thinking and analyzing myself about these issues, believe me I'm not losing sleep over it. I'll just accept it as it is and like a few of you said. Just wait for the right one to contact me, it'll be all good. Thanks guys for the great responses!
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| What does a woman REALLY want? Posted: 7/30/2009 8:54:05 AM | Just be yourself and know what YOU want. I'm sure all women would all agree that they like a man with confidence, who knows what HE wants (and what he wants is her).
Then...let the chips fall where they may. If she blows you off or whatever, guess she lost interest or found a better deal. Part of being a man is sucking it up and shrugging it off, despite the fact that it stings a little.
Even if a woman knew what she wanted, you think she would tell YOU? Hell, no. That's part of the mystery, part of the excitement.
They like to be pursued, and, when we've got them, they like to sit there and look pretty. That seems to be their job. They DO NOT seem to like to be the pursuERS. That's our job. At least that's been my experience with the ladies I've pursued. Enjoy the chase, whether or not it leads anywhere in your favor. | |
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| What does a woman REALLY want? Posted: 7/30/2009 9:00:43 PM | | I think most woman just want instant compatability in communication and mutual interests and goals; and to immediately see signs of an exciting future with who ever the guy happens to be. | |
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