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 danzandsing

Joined: 5/12/2009
Msg: 26
The Four favourite questions guys love to ask....
Posted: 7/28/2009 8:44:31 AM
If I have to ask, my imagination will never have anything to do. I need some surprise, some "holy shiite" factor. I don't need to immediately ask anything. It's better that I get some intimate conversation, then move towards uncommonalities later.

Makes it more worthwhile to find out she'll sneak a blow when I'm sleeping; or she'll swallow and if it wasn't enough work me for seconds.

The things you find out when you don't ask--very sexy.

Danz
 Sabrosura

Joined: 1/7/2009
Msg: 27
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Posted: 7/28/2009 8:49:26 AM
OP: I've NEVER had any man ask these questions of me. If they did - I'd block his azz in a NY minute!!!
 eschec mat

Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 28
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Posted: 7/28/2009 8:59:06 AM
I have absolutely never had any of those questions addressed to me. It amazes me the lack of class some guys must have.
 readyinmtl

Joined: 5/1/2009
Msg: 29
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Posted: 7/28/2009 9:03:27 AM
I have never asked a women if she swallows...or if she does anal....where's the surprise in asking? Discovering it for yourself is so much more fun! If guys are asking you these questions, then its clear all they want is sex.

I'd guess that if you choose to answer then you are probably looking for the same. But that's only a guess...

Start dating men (as opposed to 'boys') and things might be a little different...
 deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 30
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Posted: 7/28/2009 9:23:32 AM

I have never asked a women if she swallows...or if she does anal....where's the surprise in asking? Discovering it for yourself is so much more fun!


WHAT!!!! those things are things that I think you damn well better ask before you try to find out for your self
actually there are threads about both and a overwhelming majority of women said ask first take my word for it ..surprise them with roses not ...with a mouth full of you or by slipping in the back door uninvited ... doing so could be hazardous to your health
 eschec mat

Joined: 3/3/2009
Msg: 31
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Posted: 7/28/2009 9:31:25 AM
OP didn't say when she was in a relationship, she said when she starts talking to a guy. That pretty much sounds like an almost complete stranger that she has discussions about sex. Once in a relationship, if you are into something kinky or whatever and want to do something, communication is important. But geez, sounds more like she talks about sex before she even goes out on a date with these guys. Perhaps I am misreading what she wrote, but that is the way the black and white sounded to me.

EDIT TO BELOW: Yeah, you are right. I wonder if those questions are followed by do you combine the acts for a discounted price:roll:
 readyinmtl

Joined: 5/1/2009
Msg: 32
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Posted: 7/28/2009 9:40:11 AM

Once in a relationship, if you are into something kinky or whatever and want to do something, communication is important

That's when the REAL fun begins
 readyinmtl

Joined: 5/1/2009
Msg: 33
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Posted: 7/28/2009 9:42:49 AM

actually there are threads about both and a overwhelming majority of women said ask first take my word for it


I'll have to update my profile with more specific things! That'll certainly cut down on the dating!

I'll take the mystery, BTW....keeps things exciting....
 lovemesomemen

Joined: 7/14/2009
Msg: 34
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Posted: 7/28/2009 9:42:56 AM
I've had guys ask that stuff. If they ask via email, delete. Via phone...hang up. Out on a date, I leave.
 deerdog1

Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 35
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Posted: 7/28/2009 9:43:06 AM

OP didn't say when she was in a relationship, she when she starts talking to a guy. That pretty much sounds like an almost complete stranger that she has discussions about sex. Once in a relationship, if you are into something kinky or whatever and want to do something, communication is important. But geez, sounds more like she talks about sex before she even goes out a date with these guys. Perhaps I am misreading what she wrote, but that is the way the black and white sounded to me.


yes i think you are right ...but like i said in my first post ...I never bring up sex first ..but have found that if you are a gentleman the women really want to know and will bring up sex most times even before you meet them

there is a right and a wrong way to ask these type questions ... and it doesnt really have to be after you are a couple ... i think it is really important to as these things especially with online dating ..but again I have never had a problem offending a woman by asking anything ..me thinks women are smart enough to know if a guy is trying to get to know her or if he is a classless jerk
i think the op is talking about the classless jerks ..but why not discuss every possibility ...im bored
 mydoggie

Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 36
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Posted: 7/28/2009 9:48:40 AM
You forgot to include the bonus fifth question..."So do you have a twin sister?"
 lovemesomemen

Joined: 7/14/2009
Msg: 37
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Posted: 7/28/2009 9:51:27 AM
"Do you like to titty fvck"
"Are you on the pill because I don't want to use condoms"
 bgrumling

Joined: 2/28/2008
Msg: 38
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Posted: 7/28/2009 9:53:06 AM
as a guy
1) There is nothing that feels better then oral sex for ,for me. i love giving and recieveing more than anything.
2)the orgsam that way is more intense and feels so much better when you cum in a womans mouth.
3) the whole aunt ruby and cousin flo thing bothers me. so when they come to town i wanna make love to my woman, so i wanna put it in another hole.
4) i dont care if a woman squirts or not. thats a novelity thats why a guy asks that and because we are so insecure bout givin women orgasams its a way to show it.
5) if a woman has been with an animal like the furry 4 legged kind i wont touch her, way too many diseases period.
6) hair downstairs thats a personal preference. me i like hair down there because of the mental stand point. i have a daughter thats nine. a woman without hair downstairs, that would be like a lil girl. i have to have carpet to munch on.
 abelian

Joined: 1/12/2008
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Posted: 7/28/2009 10:07:54 AM
Do guys really ask those things? I've always found that women just tell me without having to ask (except the squirt question. I've never asked and no woman has ever mentioned it).
 canucks 29

Joined: 2/1/2009
Msg: 40
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Posted: 7/28/2009 10:11:24 AM
You girls are hilarious, I'm sorry that you've been put through all this senseless crap, but, it's a riot to hear you talk about it!
Jim
 murof

Joined: 3/26/2009
Msg: 41
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Posted: 7/28/2009 10:15:51 AM
No way would I ever ask that of any woman!

Being a gentlemen has got me a lot more sexual action than being a pig. Not sure why any man would do otherwise!
 RacerMatt

Joined: 8/29/2008
Msg: 42
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Posted: 7/28/2009 10:22:24 AM
Hmmmmmmmm,

Maybe it's just me, but the first four questions I asked most recently when I met someone here:

Are you married?

Are you separated?

Are you 100% single?

What are you looking for?

I don't care about the answers to the "other questions" unless she's being honest about my first four questions.
 beershark

Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 43
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Posted: 7/28/2009 10:26:49 AM
This is assuming that the topic of the discussion is sex and that these questions are not just comming out of the blue, because that would not be proper at all.
1. just want to know what's on the menu before ordering.
2. just trying to be polite, if you don't swallow, we'll pull out and bathe those titties!
3. just want to know before hand so we're not left wondering if we just got peed on.
4. same answer as number one.
Animals??? Do you really get that one all that often? That may be TMI.
 lucky_09_79

Joined: 7/9/2009
Msg: 44
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Posted: 7/28/2009 10:36:57 AM
i don't really car about swallowing and i personally don't care much for anal either, to be honest as a 29 year old hetro guy i aren't even that fussed about if the woman gives head (its a bonus) i care more simply about her body shape, face symettry etc and weather she will do anything sexua at all with me - even mutual masturbation, different positions like doggy, woman on top etc is enough for me..aahhh, fantasies!!
 Spider43

Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 45
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Posted: 7/28/2009 2:04:37 PM
I always ask, " do you like giving head?"


If they say no I say, " Then you must not like jewelry!!"

 ndulj

Joined: 5/27/2007
Msg: 46
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Posted: 7/28/2009 2:35:37 PM

I always ask, " do you like giving head?"
If they say no I say, " Then you must not like jewelry!!"


Are you suggesting a pearl necklace?
 GGSN

Joined: 6/13/2009
Msg: 47
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Posted: 7/28/2009 2:38:33 PM
Guess you are talking to the wrong people. Those are boring questions.

I'd prefer:

1) Like to be tied up?
2) Like to be spanked?
3) Like toys?
4) What are you doing this weekend?

:P
 L1b

Joined: 2/6/2008
Msg: 48
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Posted: 7/28/2009 2:48:39 PM
Yes it happened to me today, I don't think they can help themselves!!
 sockknitter

Joined: 2/26/2008
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Posted: 7/28/2009 2:59:34 PM
I am glad I have seemed to corresponded with a higher quality of men here than other women have seemed to. Not once have I ever been asked any of those questions. So thank you to those gentlemen I have talked to here in the last couple of years!!!

~Sox
 MsMicki

Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 7/28/2009 3:05:33 PM

There's always viagra, cialis, enzyte, levitra, etc.



yes, I know dear, but it's just so romantic, sitting around for 30 minutes waiting for it to take effect, so..................much fun.


Huh? Why are just sitting around waiting for it to take effect?
There are lots of things ya'll can be doing while waiting!

As for the questions.......Not really first contact conversation for me.....
but those things will be discussed within a few conversations , as I want to know if there is any hangups before I start dating someone.
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