| The Four favourite questions guys love to ask....
Posted: 7/29/2009 10:49:43 AM | {Hey ladies you forgot "what is your bra size"!!!!! }
Yep, been asked this too. What's your clothes size? Are you open minded? Do you enjoy sex or just do it to please? Will you try new things? Can I come in your mouth, which ties in with do you swallow? Are you submissive? Are you into watersports? | |
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| The Four favourite questions guys love to ask....
Posted: 7/29/2009 2:42:38 PM |
For some of us, its all about testing the waters, I suppose. If a woman is shocked or offended just by the questions, its a good sign she's likely not too open minded when it comes to any kind of sexual variety at all. I tend to be more subtle than that, but I can see why some guys would ask questions like that.
I quite agree.
I think I pointed this out in another thread, but there are five possible answers to such questions:
1) Yes
2) No
3) Maybe
4) What's in it for me?
5) OMG you pig! You **stard! You... you... MAN!
I like to avoid women who respond with number 5. | |
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| The Four favourite questions guys love to ask....
Posted: 7/29/2009 4:22:20 PM | | as far as i know i have never asked these questions till we were actually in bed. most of the women i have dated have voulenteered this information before i have went to bed with them. but it has been weeks after we dated and the first time we went to bed. but also you women in some areas are jest as bad. | |
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| The Four favourite questions guys love to ask....
Posted: 8/12/2009 12:47:40 PM |
Why is it when starting to talk to a guy an sex subject comes up men always have four questions they ask 1. Do you give head 2. Do you swallow 3. Do you squirt 4. Do you do ana.l now i dont mind answering questions as i ask some as well but from alot chattin to men theses are the favourite ones they ask an if you answer them No its like the end the world has arrived....
OP -- These are not the 4 questions I'd ask, so I may be the odd man out here. I can say though, that when sex topics come up...what did you think was gonna be discussed?
Knitting?
Two adults who want to have some kind of sexual chemistry will need to know what the other partner likes and doesn't like in order to assess whether or not they're gonna be compatible. Odd that those 4 questions seem to be at the forefront for you...but if it wasn't those 4, there'd be 4 others to replace them. Believe it or not, not everyone likes the "mystique" of finding out whether you're sexually compatible AFTER the clothes have already come off...
The questions I ask a potential are very pointed and direct. I want them to be honest with me when they respond. I wouldn't ask if I didn't wanna know. If I get the answers I'm looking for, then I'll proceed to the actual deed and see if the money was where their mouth was. If I hear the wrong answers, then I won't bother. It's not the end of the world if she says no to the questions asked, but it can be a dealbreaker if it's the wrong NO for the right question.
Typically, in case anyone's interested..here's what I usually ask (in no order and not always all questions):
- thoughts on oral...namely do you like giving AND receiving?
- thoughts on anal? Do you participate in that (or any other) ass-play nonsense?
- sensual and slow, or throw you into a wall at mach 1?
- hair pulling/biting/nibbling/slaps on the ass...thoughts?
- how often is "often enough"?
- do you shave/wax?
- favorite position?
- finger play, yes or no?
- are you into fetishes like BDSM and the like?
- lights on or off?
- rubber or bareback?
- shower or bath or neither?
Depending on how they respond will determine if I'll proceed. | |
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| The Four favourite questions guys love to ask....
Posted: 8/12/2009 12:59:08 PM | OP: Why is it when starting to talk to a guy an sex subject comes up men always have four questions they ask 1. Do you give head 2. Do you swallow 3. Do you squirt 4. Do you do ana.l now i dont mind answering questions as i ask some as well but from alot chattin to men theses are the favourite ones they ask an if you answer them No its like the end the world has arrived.... Oh an one more hitting the list asap is you into beastility! Whats wiv that boys? Girls have you had this happen to you too?
LMAO! Is this during your 1st date or before you even meet?
Never had this experience!  | |
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| The Four favourite questions guys love to ask....
Posted: 8/12/2009 1:20:41 PM | Why is it when starting to talk to a guy, an sex subject comes up men always have four questions they ask
1. Do you give head
2. Do you swallow
3. Do you squirt
4. Do you do anal
Nope, i don't think i've ever asked a woman any of those questions.
(maybe wondered quietly how kinky she will go) and of course (shaved, trimmed or smooth -hee hee)
How far she will go, or what she likes depends upon how she feels around you. if she feels comfortable and spontaneous, she may do things to you that may make you blush, shower aggressively or consult a priest...
Unless shes a complete slut, nympho out of control or a hooker -she's not gonna answer them (or answer them correctly anyway...
Women already know men are horny **stards, so they have the upper hand. (not saying women aren't horny little alley cats too) however the trick is to let them be the first to ask the sex questions (trust me she'll do the asking or let you know when she's ready to get busy)
The fastest way for a guy to ruin his chances is to open his mouth too soon and start asking sex questions | |
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| The Four favourite questions guys love to ask....
Posted: 8/12/2009 1:59:06 PM | Never had a guy ask me any of those in that context...sounds like you're dealing with some really classy asshats...I wouldn't.
edit...oh I did have a guy ask my bra size...lol--I was so surprised that I actually told him. I don't know I'm all about being up front and all...but I've honestly never had to interview, and never had anyone interview me...I guess I've been lucky in that I can tell when a guy is open & sexual and when he's not..and I have no complaints =) | |
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| The Four favourite questions guys love to ask....
Posted: 8/12/2009 3:27:38 PM |
My most commonly asked questions...
1) You gonna eat that?
2) I'm going to the store, do you want anything while I'm out?
3) Can you get that?
4) What?
Ding. Ding. Ding. Ring the bell and win a prize off of the top shelf.
This is one of the most honest and down to earth answers I have seen to date. | |
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| The Four favourite questions guys love to ask....
Posted: 8/12/2009 3:32:58 PM | 1. Are you shaved?
2. How tall are you?
3. What do you weigh?
4. Do you like sex?
5. What size are your tits?
5 very common questions guys ask which have gotten them blocked and the convo finished. | |
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| The Four favourite questions guys love to ask....
Posted: 8/12/2009 4:49:59 PM | This is why you should avoid the topic of sex for awhile, if you want to meet someone who's actually looking to date, instead of just looking to get laid.
If you don't mind talking about sex right away however, are you surprised these questions come up so soon? If you're going to talk about it, they are going to ask.
Also, you don't have to answer anything, you're not ready to answer. | |
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| The Four favourite questions guys love to ask....
Posted: 8/12/2009 7:12:31 PM | | I do not think that kind of conversation is acceptable, period. That doesnt make you close minded, it just means your not a skank. Anyone who thinks men asking you this when they barely know you is ok, probably is not the type of woman who has a lot to offer in any other way except for sex and maybe a few stds. I have had those kind ask me disgusting things on a first date, it was over the second the words came out of their mouths. | |
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| The Four favourite questions guys love to ask....
Posted: 8/12/2009 8:22:15 PM | why would you answer those questions? you are degrading yourself...hang up...they are sick...they need help...it is obvoious they only want one thing...because you are not a barbie ...it does not mean you deserve less...have expectations...would you talk to somebody like that? no so why would you tolerate disrespectfulness...then you moan and groan...i wonder why...please get a hold and have some respect and love yourself....  | |
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| The Four favourite questions guys love to ask....
Posted: 8/12/2009 9:26:31 PM | | Sorry for your Bad luck Honey...i think you are much better off just staying with the forums! Even me being a male, i know where you and the rest of the women on this site go thru on a daily basis! which is sad...and for any male to post on mine, saying im just saying that...dont bother, i am not! i can just relate with most of these womens comments, this also pays consequences to me, who i am looking for much more then a fling, or "getting Laid" I have been told by what others say in msgs...and cmon do you ppl actually deep down inside think thats going to work :| think again.... | |
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| The Four favourite questions guys love to ask....
Posted: 8/13/2009 12:51:41 AM | I always wanna know how big a guys man present is, I like knowin what Im gonna get, and if I get a pic of it, Im even happier!! Some guys are stingy tho and wont do it.... Pffftt!.....
^T^ | |
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| The Four favourite questions guys love to ask....
Posted: 8/13/2009 4:36:04 AM | I think alot of you women have only met ***holes and that's probably where they like it too!
I myself would rather just find out and if I have any questions, I'll ask them while we're playing.
1. Oral sex. While I'm doing you, I'll pause and ask if you can do better on me--I doubt it.
2. Do you swallow? This will be asked a few seconds before Willie is about to explode.
If you don't, uou better pull him out and move your head.
3. Ass play. Any true man would be able to tell, if you don't know how, you're not a true man!
4. Do you have a GF for a 3some. Why ask, I'd rather be surprised when it's offered.
If any "men" get offended by these questions, you're a****and you'll never have a woman around to play with yours!
Johnny | |
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| The Four favourite questions guys love to ask....
Posted: 8/13/2009 5:11:05 AM | Guys ask these to women that they do not care if you get offended or drop off. They have such "balls" because if you stay and talk sex, they know they have a great chance of getting in your pants... if you get offended and leave, so what??
In other words, you see this happen to "fluffy" chicks especially. They're interested in banging you, but not dating you. So, they bank on the fact that chubbier chicks have no dating prospects, are lonely, desperate or easy (sometimes all of the above).
The questions are sexual "feelers" put out by predators to see what the chances are of banging you and if you are worth the effort. All women may get them from time to time, but chances are greater for heavier women. | |
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| The Four favourite questions guys love to ask....
Posted: 8/13/2009 5:15:25 AM |
In other words, you see this happen to "fluffy" chicks especially. They're interested in banging you, but not dating you. So, they bank on the fact that chubbier chicks have no dating prospects, are lonely, desperate or easy (sometimes all of the above).
It's nice to see you hold a large segment of women in such a positive light. You must be a real catch yourself! | |
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| The Four favourite questions guys love to ask....
Posted: 8/13/2009 5:31:48 AM | i dont see what the big deal is. what's so wrong about wanting to know about a persons sexual likes/dislikes. everyone has needs and wants. so whats wrong about finding out if that the person you're interested in can fullfil those needs/wants. seems likea good time saver to me. yes theres more to relationships than sex. but sex is a very real part of a relationship.
ill say this though, theres no need to asks sexual questions the first time you talk to someone, but feeling out the person and ask when you feel its appropiate. the funniest thing is when you ask a woman if she shaves/waxes, and you get the"omg i cant believe you asked me that" dont interrupt, wait for her to answer and then say" i was talking about your legs, i really enjoy smooth legs" its priceless. | |
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| The Four favourite questions guys love to ask....
Posted: 8/13/2009 10:53:02 AM | Hey hrlyguy:
Where did you read that this is what I do or have done? Try READING again there Kenny Rogers. I state facts as I see them... they may not be true 100%, they may not be pleasant or endearing... they are the truth. This has nothing to do with my M.O., just most guys. I call it like I see it.
If you think that guys don't chase chubby women for a$$ all the time (especially when younger) for various reasons not the least of which is her eagerness to please and get attention or desperation... you are lying to yourself. It's so sad but true. I'm just telling it like it is most of the time.
Ask the OP, she'll tell you. | |
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