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| I had girl ask me to suck anoher guys juices out of her is that gay act
Posted: 7/30/2009 9:25:42 AM | OP I can't understand why you need a bunch of SUBJECTIVE opinions from people with all kinds of their own baggage. If you enjoyed making her happy, then that's all there is to it.
The grumpy opinions of a bunch of vanilla people is just that - THE OPINION OF A BUNCH OF GRUMPY VANILLA PEOPLE.
Like religion, there is always someone trying to tell someone else what is right and what is wrong. All you did was fulfill someones fantasy (for what ever reason it turned her on) - Nevermind what others would have done or not done - YOU DIDN'T DO ANYTHING WRONG!! Stop trying to over- analyze it. | |
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| I had girl ask me to suck anoher guys juices out of her is that gay act
Posted: 7/30/2009 9:41:09 AM |
Hey now...don't make me renig my statement about your sexual evolvement~ lol
I have crossed the "line" and I can tell you one thing........best line I ever tasted!
Just another experience I in my book.I still love men.But had I not crossed that line I would never know what I was missing.
closer
again thats not what Im saying ...and I think you know me well enough to know it
if you or me or anyone crosses a line because of our wants,fantasies, or hell even if we are just drunk enough not to be inhibited ...or even if our desire is to fulfill our lovers fantasy ...thats our choice ...and its all good
heck closer I am a guy i would get turned on seeing you or my wife or any woman with another woman ...I admit it ..bet i didnt have to tell you though ...if I went home and my wife told me she wanted to have sex with another woman ... I would give her permission ..not another guy though
that being said I would never ask her to do it for me ... yes if it come up I would state that I would have no problem with it
you know I have seen so much of that guys wanting their wives to be Bi ...and some women wanting their men to do acts that are in his eyes gay ..i just believe that crossing those lines should be ones own decision
just loving someone can be undue pressure for someone to do something they are not comphy with ... so even asking can be traumatic ... the best approach in my eyes is for lovers to discuss fantasies openly ..with the understanding that both have to be completely comphy for them to try and fulfill any fantacy for the other
when a young man
for several years I had a woman who wanted me to pull out and cum on her belly ...lick it up and bring it up and share it with her .... she shared this fantasy but didnt push for it ..and though I had never minded going down on her after cumming in her ..or kissing her after oral sex with some of me still in her mouth .. for a while I just could not do what she asked ...if she had pushed for it and I had done it just to please her ..I probably would have been traumatized ...but she didnt push and i consoled it in my mind and when I got ok with it I did it she was happily surprised .. now its not a big deal ..its part of my arsenal
I hope that when you crossed your lines no one was pushing you across ...crossing sexual lines is something we need to decide on our own time frame ...this is all I have been trying to say | |
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| I had girl ask me to suck anoher guys juices out of her is that gay act
Posted: 7/30/2009 9:56:21 AM | I wonder why I felt so repulsed when I read your question OP?
Gay or not, if it's something you're willing to do, or even consider, I really do suspect you are beyond the point of caring what a bunch of forum people think. Aren't you?
Sounds nasty to me. But I'm a square by PoF standards. | |
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| I had girl ask me to suck anoher guys juices out of her is that gay act
Posted: 7/30/2009 10:00:38 AM | I dunno if it's gay - but I sure recognize a submissive when I see one.
Your girlfriend. His sperm. He copulated with Your Girlfriend, came inside her, and you not only accepted it, but bent down and licked it up for her. Your kink is your kink, but that sort of thing is from a fairly hardcore D/s playbook. | |
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| I had girl ask me to suck anoher guys juices out of her is that gay act
Posted: 7/30/2009 3:17:14 PM |
OP I can't understand why you need a bunch of SUBJECTIVE opinions from people with all kinds of their own baggage. If you enjoyed making her happy, then that's all there is to it.
The grumpy opinions of a bunch of vanilla people is just that - THE OPINION OF A BUNCH OF GRUMPY VANILLA PEOPLE.
Like religion, there is always someone trying to tell someone else what is right and what is wrong. All you did was fulfill someones fantasy (for what ever reason it turned her on) - Nevermind what others would have done or not done - YOU DIDN'T DO ANYTHING WRONG!! Stop trying to over- analyze it.
OK...Joel...
Sorry...I could of swore this was a "may I solicite your personal opinion" thread.
Had I known it was a "let's criticize others for THEIR personal opinion and call them names" threads we may have worded our posts differently.
I am however having trouble being offended by your VANILLA PEOPLE thing.
Note: I can type in caps....and bold. | |
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| I had girl ask me to suck anoher guys juices out of her is that gay act
Posted: 7/30/2009 4:35:10 PM |
I recently did a threesome with a girl I have been dating and she had a fantasy of one guy getting off in her while other guy sucked juices out of her and spit it on her chest and stomach is that gay act. I think I just did it out of hotness to impress her ?
I'm not sure if its gay or not, but it is disgusting. Ack.  | |
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| I had girl ask me to suck anoher guys juices out of her is that gay act
Posted: 7/30/2009 4:43:05 PM | well... if you are so unsure of what gender you are attracted to then yes everytime you touch anything man... man hands, men washroom door knob, the handle on the flush, the knobs on the sink.... everything a man has touched... yes that makes you gay! ooooohh and if you use a public telephone or are forced to share a computer with a man..... SEMEN IS EVERYWHERE! and as such everyman that touches it is gay...
come on dude if you think about it .... you had a guy cum in your girl.... im sure you would put your penis in there again someday..... ooooooooohhh wow you touched your****in some other guys cum!!!!! you must be gay...
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| I had girl ask me to suck anoher guys juices out of her is that gay act
Posted: 7/30/2009 5:09:48 PM | Maybe this gal is on to somthing.
"Hey honey...you know what would be really hot? I could have some other gal come over and and she and I could have sloppy sex in our bed...and....and...after....you could come in and roll around in our gew....and it will be awsome".
I wonder...giving you your cameo appearance...did she have the leading man all lined up ahead of time.
Where do I sign up for these parts? | |
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| I had girl ask me to suck anoher guys juices out of her is that gay act
Posted: 7/30/2009 6:07:58 PM |
well... if you are so unsure of what gender you are attracted to then yes everytime you touch anything man... man hands, men washroom door knob, the handle on the flush, the knobs on the sink.... everything a man has touched... yes that makes you gay! ooooohh and if you use a public telephone or are forced to share a computer with a man..... SEMEN IS EVERYWHERE! and as such everyman that touches it is gay...
Oh common now. Sucking another man's sperm out of a woman's vagina then spitting it on her does not equate to touching sperm you cannot see on pubic door handles, etc.
Get real. | |
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| I had girl ask me to suck anoher guys juices out of her is that gay act
Posted: 7/30/2009 6:17:56 PM |
Since you sucked, or licked his load, I would definitely say a gay act.
THIS^^
OP: It was a gay act. What you need to ask yourself is why you're questioning it now. You wanted to please the girl by doing the gay act that she wanted. If you were OK with it on its own merits (and you were sober enough to make the best choice for yourself) then you shouldn't have these doubts. If you, instead, did it just to please the girl and had some unwillingness to do it, then you need to ask yourself why you caved in and forced yourself to do something you didn't want to do.
Were you too drunk/high to think straight? Were you afraid to decline the request? The act isn't the issue. It's your ambivalence/self-doubt that is at issue. NEVER do something that is unacceptable to you just to please someone else---it's spineless, and the woman will see right through it anyway. | |
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