| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/5/2009 10:15:26 AM | | ^^^Oh my gosh...too funny, perigee..and pretty indicative of the disconnect between some women and men on this huh?...lol... | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/5/2009 10:16:52 AM | | There is a lot of misunderstanding out there about why men masturbate as frequently as they do. If you look into the physiology of male sexuality you'll discover that unlike females, when males do not have sex frequently it decreases their capacity for physical response. Frequent masturbation is necessary to maintain performance. It's a selfless chore that men do so that when they again find a partner, her pleasure will be provided for. The stimulation of porn just makes that routine bearable. We do it for you! | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/5/2009 10:22:21 AM | | It seems to be natural biology for males of your species to desire breeding with many females. As this is often unacheiveble they turn to such images. Is this not logical for the human female to understand? | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/5/2009 11:12:29 AM | It's not enough for some guys. I knew a player who got lots of girls and still wasn't enough.
Also most women aren't as hot as pornstars and aren't willing to do the things they do so their urges and fantasies aren't being met. Even if you happen to be dating a pornstar, it's still probably not enough sometimes.
Don't women look and flirt as well? They never seem to get enough attention. | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/5/2009 2:43:15 PM | Why do you have to make such a general statement about men?
I think some women -like this thread starter- are far too general in their accusations towards men. I believe it would be more appropriate for the question to be rephrased "Why do some men have to jerk off to porn even when a guy is sexually active with his girlfriend?" | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/5/2009 2:55:36 PM | | Why do womean love porn so much? I love it too. It has nothing to do with my partner. It is just a major turn on to me. It isn't about me checking out the other men it is just the act of what is goin on. It excites u. | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/5/2009 3:33:57 PM | | OP, we jerk off to porn because we have**** and healthy libidos. We look at other girls because they're there and (apparently) attractive. What's the problem? | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/5/2009 6:41:07 PM | [I don't understand why guys have to always jerk off to porn even when a guy is sexually active with his girlfriend or whatever for some reason they still have to do it. If you have the real thing in real life then why go to porn?? Can't guys go without looking at other girls??]
1. Guys can be in the mood at the drop of a hat where women have to be in a mood to have sex.
2. When we have the real thing in real life its not always available, Hence we watch Porn.
3. We sometimes watch Porn because we are always looking to improve our game. Laugh if you want but watching porn gives good tips on pleasing a women. And to be frank, At some point a man currently or in the past has a women with a "move or a series of actions" that have not been repeated since and have left an impression for years. These actions or steps were most likely gotten from a porno.
4. NC-17 Stuff is good too. A great example of an NC -17 movie was unfaithful with Diane Lane and Olivier Martinez. There are some nice moves there, eye poping stuff if you have no idea what I am taking about rent the video or look under any video link like Yahoo or Google or a million other places and you will see what I am talking about.
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/5/2009 10:17:21 PM |
But history teaches us not only that it is not likely to vanish, but also that we can learn more about ourselves from giving porn and it's uses a closer look.
Pornography is an excellent cultural study point, and has been around ever since people have been walking upright (possibly before). I won't post the links, but a quick search of 'Pompeii erotic art' will show what the ancient Romans were up to, and that is only the tip of the iceberg :)
It is tempting to compare modern pornography on film with wall paintings, but in truth, the Romans and Greeks also hired actors to perform for special occasions - pass the krater, please! | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/23/2009 1:54:04 PM | Sometimes I just want to Jerk off... Feels good, relieves stress, makes me happy.
I think Ill probably always watch and jerk off to porn regardless of how amazing and often me and my lover make sexy time.
Sometimes us guys do it just for something to do. Its a good time that never fails. Trust us :) | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/23/2009 4:11:35 PM | | just cos he's jerking off don't mean he's not into you. get over your insecurities. women also pleasure themselves with they're with a guy. | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/23/2009 8:36:58 PM | | I think the answer is purely biological. Otherwise there would not be such a big difference between men and women regarding porn across all cultures. I know many women enjoy porn too, but there is still a big statistical difference. | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/23/2009 8:46:27 PM | Replying to the Topic Name: Single Guys love porn so much as its Naked Girls (Or men for gay men) , getting down and doing the dirty , straight to the point no BS
Replying to your post: I don't understand why guys with partners (girls/other guys) still need porn , it seems like a waste of time . Porn in my view is a thing to relive toeyness when your single . Plus a lot of us will never say No to naked Breasts and a pretty face. | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/24/2009 6:24:00 AM | | Men are visual. Women are cerebral. Most men suffer from a visual void because their lady doesn’t fulfill it because she is shy, uncomfortable, old fashioned, self conscious, etc. So, even if he has a lady in his life, if she doesn’t take care of his eyes than he will seek that part elsewhere. Also, men are often after something quick and in the moment. Done! Most women don’t work that way. The ones that do offer themselves in those ways will find the porn to not be a prevalent part of their mans lives. | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/24/2009 8:16:28 AM | The short answer: Most men are pigs. Every guy masturbates, but men who need to look at sl*ts riding trains are the same guys that most women would be smart to avoid.
And if I were truly happy with the physical appearance of the woman I was dating and we had a healthy sex life, masturbation would be something I did once a month just to clean the pipes so to speak. | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/24/2009 8:56:16 AM | Liking porn doesn't make anyone a pig, whether you're a man or a woman, there is nothing wrong with watching porn by yourself or with a significant other. Sex is not evil or disgusting(ok, some porn I do find outright nasty but it's not my place to judge others who like that stuff either)
Anyway, porn is just something people use to get in the mood. Some people like to use their imagination, some like the variety and visuals that porn provide. Let's not make such a big deal out of it. | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/24/2009 4:38:45 PM | . . . . or Wednesday night . . . or I have a free hour . . . . or just have an itch and no one available to scratch it for me | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/24/2009 4:48:49 PM |
Close your eyes or grab a mirror.
Orgasm because of boredom doesn't need porn. Besides, what if the porn turns out to be disappointing? Kills it.
Imagination or watch it. Way better than any porn. So because you don't like it, that means nobody else is permitted to? | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/24/2009 4:57:21 PM |
Why do guys love porn so much??? A better question is why do girls like being in porn so much? Are women just born exhibitionists and whores? Can you blame it on poor parental guidance as they grew up? Are they just dik obsessed to the point of not caring if they're photographed and filmed as long as they get the dik?
The adult men's magazines don't exactly have to bend over backwards to find young and willing "models". The adult film industry doesn't exactly have their work cut out for them with trying to find young and willing "actresses". And hell itself will freeze before the gargantuan machine known as online porn, ever has a problem finding beautiful little sluts to entice men with.
So why do women like being in porn so much?
Addressing the thread subject though, it isn't hard to see why men like porn. We're men. We like beautiful women. We like seeing beautiful women naked and having sex and enjoying themselves. And in real life, an average guy can usually count on one hand and have fingers left over, the number of times he's been with a truly attractive woman. Porn can actually be very satisfying to some lonely ol' chump out in the world like me and many other guys. It's easily accessible, there are no strings attached, and going further - plain ol' masturbation is not tremendously less pleasant than actual sex.
If I had my ruthers about it, I'd be in a healthy and successful relationship with a woman that satisfied me completely... Porn wouldn't be a part of my life, it wouldn't even have a toehold, there just wouldn't be a need for it anymore. But really, what do women expect of single men? Am I just supposed to be a non-sexual hermit because I'm single and cease being a sexual being until such time as Miss Perfect-for-me comes along? Not gonna happen.
As for porn being an ongoing interest for a man, even when in a committed relationship... that's an indication of a relationship that just isn't what he needs it to be. If the man is happy and fulfilled, if he is in love and you're taking care of his heart, porn is definitely not going to be part of the equation. If he has to turn to that junk to find some sort of fulfillment or cope, then you aren't doing it for him on some level - be it physically or emotionally or both. So it's definitely a sign of a poisoned and/or dysfunctional relationship.
As for the question and why not just go out and get some strange then instead of look at junk... I don't want a woman I can't respect. Granted I certainly don't respect any of these hobags in porn, but there is a boundary there, it isn't real, I don't have to respect the little pixies to enjoy them. In real life though, I'm not going out bar and club hopping just to find some action. It's not my style. If I'm going to be with a real woman, I have to accumilate some respect for her.
And say both parties actually have a mutual interest in porn, that could be awkward actually... but stranger things have happened. | |
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