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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/26/2009 7:07:35 AM | | THIS IS DEFINITELY A VERY LOGICAL ANSWER: I got into a major row with an ex once. She came home from work (worked nights) I was turned on and wanted to fool around she didn't. So I took care of myself. She heard me and got pissed. I said to her: if I'm hungry and want a sandwich and you don't, does that mean I have to go hungry just because you're not? NO. | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/26/2009 5:08:55 PM | | x00x: You pretty much sum it all up! Very comprehensive description of the reasons why as well as putting it all in perspective and reality. NICE JOB! | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/26/2009 6:09:12 PM | I think it has something to do with it being in our faces 24/7. Women don't have to try hard to turn us on, and they've stopped worrying about trying to charm us with any decent virtues in lieu of using sex appeal. That's why most women on here post in their profiles their love of clubs and have the "drinks with the girls" pics. Where else to spend their weekends but at loud bars where no one can have a conversation but they can dress all slutty and shake their butts for the guys.
I never thought I'd sound all old fashioned, but here we are... | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/26/2009 6:46:33 PM | I don't always find it interesting. there are many times when I don't see anything good about it! doesn't turn me on at all.
there's a lot of crap out there that isn't erotic by any means! | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/26/2009 6:55:08 PM | Guys are more visual, generally speaking...No reason they should have to not look , really.
It's more fun if you can share it though..give it a try. It can be pretty hot =) | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/27/2009 8:44:10 PM | | For most men, at some point in their lives, pornography has held a strong appeal and they are driven to use porn through loneliness: being away from home, fear of STDs, Being too busy to romance a woman… At its most basic level, pornography answers natural human curiosity. Adolescent boys want to know what sex is about, and porn certainly demonstrates the mechanics. And what’s more, in pornography, unlike in real life, there is no criticism of male performance. Women are always hot and ready, eager to please. In real life, by contrast, men find women have higher espectations. They demand to be sexually satisfied, nothing wrong with that but it’s hard work. Unlike real life, the pornographic world is a place in which men find their authority unchallenged and in which women are their willing, even grateful servants. Moreover, Online porn is free. Porn chicks do some really ****ed up shit and they act like they enjoy it. You can find porn for any fetish. It’s much more difficult to find an actual real life girl who’s into whatever sick shit you’re into. Women are beautiful. Naked women are even better. Naked women enjoying sex are even more attractive. | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/28/2009 1:25:58 AM | perigee123
The internet is for porn? Really I just did that song at karaoke tonight!!! I was kate monster. | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/28/2009 4:59:01 AM | Like xOOx, epnynydate sums it up very well. Porn goes that "one step beyond" where E Channel, MTV, Spice and others of that type of entertainment go. It also goes beyond the constant tittilation and provocation that is happening in public for all to see on almost every street in every city in America. Like the old Monte Hall show, "Lets Make a Deal", Porn allows us to see just what is behind door #1, #2 or #3. It allows a man, and YES Gladys Women too!, to enjoy adult entertainment in the privacy of their own home. It allows for living out a fantasy one might have, or being with someone you would never have the opportunity to be with. It also allows the viewer to perhaps be someone he/she is not. Best of all, in most cases its entirely free on the internet. The investment is tiny, as long as one is able to take care of his/her responsibilites to themselves and/or their partner if they have one. | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/28/2009 8:49:33 AM | | Personally my gf would always win if i had to pick between real or some vid. Porn is just kind of a filler. If hes horny or something and shes not around. | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/29/2009 12:11:53 AM | If I'm with a woman who objects to my looking at porn, I'm with the wrong woman. Unless you're talking about addiction (where thousands or even hundreds are going to porn sites) it shouldn't be that big of a deal between adults.
The attention or whatever guys give to porn is nothing, and it takes nothing away from the energy and interest they feel for the girl they're with (unless they're with a girl they're really not attracted to --that's a separate problem, though!).
I don't share the value expressed on this website that porn is in and of itself an inherently bad thing, so I don't really understand the problem. If you're talking about sane, mature individuals then porn watching is a non-issue. | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/30/2009 10:26:50 PM | I always thought the reason why guys like porn is the same reason why women use didlos and such. Porn is a guy`s sex toy. That`s it.we are just more visual about sex which is way we need porn.
Why do women still use sex toys when they have a boyfriend | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/31/2009 7:57:30 AM | I don't understand why guys have to always jerk off to porn even when a guy is sexually active with his girlfriend or whatever for some reason they still have to do it. If you have the real thing in real life then why go to porn?? Can't guys go without looking at other girls?? If I could find a girlfriend willing to blow me 8 times a day, I could give up porn. I dont understand the one's who won't who don't understand their man still needs it when they can't be bothered or are unavailable.
Besides, given that I have made the decision that I need emptying, an effective bit of porn can get me off in 5 minutes rather than the 5 hours it may take with no visual stimuli. I'm just saving a third of my day to do something else.
THIS IS DEFINITELY A VERY LOGICAL ANSWER: I got into a major row with an ex once. She came home from work (worked nights) I was turned on and wanted to fool around she didn't. So I took care of myself. She heard me and got pissed. I said to her: if I'm hungry and want a sandwich and you don't, does that mean I have to go hungry just because you're not? NO. I would take this to mean "I don't want you any more, but I can't be bothered to dump you, so I'm making you dump me instead by being insanely unreasonable." I mean seriously, how can it mean anything else? No other rational explanation. | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/31/2009 8:15:48 AM | Men are visually stimulated... why do you think the porn industry is so successful? furthermore, why do you think egyptians engaged in voyeurism and the like? its nothing new.
believe it or not, there are many women that also are highly aroused and interested in porn.
everything in healthy doses... obsessions are never good.
dont be intimated or insecure about it... it can be healthy (as long as its not illegal-immoral)... might spice up your sex life. | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/31/2009 9:01:33 AM | There can be any number of reason us guys enjoy porn. Most or some.
Could be your not putting out enough or the type he wants, when he wants, where he wants. This could be a long, long boring list.
Or like so many things in life most want what they can't ever possibly have. That special vehicle, house, vacation, and yes Sex With That Girl In The Video... | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/31/2009 10:48:52 AM |
Isn't the porn industry trying to get a bailout??
LMAO!!! I'd donate one testicle, one, just to hear that congressional debate. | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 8/31/2009 1:41:44 PM | I like some of it, sometimes. Frankly a lot of it sucks (no pun intended) : the girls are too fake-looking, the guys are cookie-cutter clones, and don't even get me started about the "story lines" and "acting" attempts.... But, that's just IMO... If or when I view any, I personally prefer the stuff that the internet has largely bred in more recent times; 'homemade' , more 'amateur'-type of stuff, where the chase is cut to ..so to speak...and the BS and big business corporate aspect of it (and it IS a sleazy industry IMO, I don't care what anybody says about it) is left pretty much out of it.
I've heard in fact that internet porn (much of it free in some cases) is beginning to drive some large urban adult bookstore chains into harder times, or even out of business....IMO that's not entirely a bad thing. We had one very near where I used to live in Chicago, and they had the "peep show booths" with the glory holes and everything, so they really attract a sh!tty element to the neighborhood frankly, especially if there's a lot of kids around (which there were in the houses just behind the place actually). Always nice to have the mafia open a joint like that in your town, and then have your kids playing in the backyard finding condom wrappers and broken-open empty plastic containers for dildos and such..... <img src=http://www.plentyoffish.com/smiles/icon_201.gif border=0> | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much??? Posted: 9/1/2009 7:16:25 AM | If you had to satisfy your man every time he was horny you'd very rarely get anything done.
Thank God for porn :)
p.s- girls love it to, we just don't talk about it as much! | |
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