| Why do guys love porn so much???
Posted: 10/22/2009 2:38:19 AM | | Trying to stop a man from watching porn is like trying to stop a woman from reading romance novels. And the other point is any man who does not enjoy seeing a woman derive great pleasure from sex is probably a selfish lover. It’s every unselfish man’s fantasy. Tell me who doesn’t need a little fantasy now and then. Women themselves have their little fantasies. My niece once revealed to me how badly she wanted to have sex with a well known movie actor. In many instances women sleep with one man while thinking about somebody else. That said, it is just enjoyable to watch a woman who does not complain about all the difficult sexual positions and just enjoys the experience as a willing partner. Seeing a woman experience orgasm is pleasing to the sight and a beautiful woman body is just captivating; especially when she willingly undresses in front of the camera in an inviting way. | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much???
Posted: 10/22/2009 4:49:54 AM | | haha good lord i hope the day that i have to talk with my niece about who she'd like to have sex with is the day that never comes. | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much???
Posted: 10/22/2009 8:23:12 AM | | It’s your choice not to talk about sex with your nieces, but there is nothing wrong with that. People make so much mystery around sex for no good reason. In this 21st century with all the dangerous STDs out there, you have to be able to talk about sex with your nieces, your sisters, your family in general. Who says that you can't even talk about it with your parents? Free yourself from the prison of inhibition. It’s better to talk about it with them so that they can benefit from your knowledge and experience. In Africa they say: “An old person that dies is a library that burns to the ground”. You are perhaps older, you are their library. Allow them to borrow some of the books of your knowledge. | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much???
Posted: 10/24/2009 12:14:32 AM |
Why do guys love porn so much??? I keep hearing/reading "men are visual." I think, in a nutshell, that answers the question.  | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much???
Posted: 10/24/2009 12:31:48 AM | | For the same reason that woman like porn so much. I have met just as many woman who watch porn as I have men. | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much???
Posted: 10/24/2009 3:44:47 AM | well done" rain", youve got it right, think about it,ok, the first contact a male has with a girl is the visual, if we dont like the look of her we move on, like the butterfly.
men are visual so god , or mother nature has made it so we are attracted , like the butterfly, to something which looks good. all perfectly normal. | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much???
Posted: 10/24/2009 5:42:34 PM | Speaking for myself...reason why I jerk to porn is because some women just won't give it up anytime of the day. And if I really need to relieve myself right then and there, I'll be damn if Im gonna wait all day for her.. | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much???
Posted: 10/25/2009 7:42:30 PM | | because women are so out of shape these days that many men have to resort to fantasy to satisfy their urge for a tight ass. | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much???
Posted: 10/27/2009 3:52:00 AM | | i think it has more to do with the fact that women in porn are good lovers, not lazy like most women | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much???
Posted: 10/27/2009 4:47:35 AM | @epnydate - post 179 - 
People make so much mystery around sex for no good reason. In this 21st century with all the dangerous STDs out there, you have to be able to talk about sex with your nieces, your sisters, your family in general. Who says that you can't even talk about it with your parents? Free yourself from the prison of inhibition. It’s better to talk about it with them so that they can benefit from your knowledge and experience.
YES! When we remove the "forbidden" factor and the "mystery" factor from sex, then we open the door to learning... about ourselves and others. In the course of raising three daughters I did the research on how best to prevent "raising my own grandchildren." I did not want my daughters getting pregnant, and I knew, statistically, with my being a single parent, they were at high risk, and I was going to reduce that risk as much as possible. I found study after study that indicated - the more you talk to your kids about sex, the less likely they are to be sexually active too young.
There was one study that was done in Canada, and the results were televised on a nationwide documentary program similar to 20/20. In this study, the 10,000 respondents answered a long questionairre and also were interviewed. The ages were from 12-22, and were from every race, religion, geographic region, etc.... all possible demographics were represented. The resounding conclusion they reached was that the more sex was talked about in the home, the less likely the young adult was going to be sexually active before they were ready. If you removed the "mystery and forbidden factor" it no longer became so attractive to a teen or young adult.
OT - I think most PEOPLE who are comfortable with their own sexuality find porn stimulating.... and I don't think it is gender specific. | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much???
Posted: 10/27/2009 5:14:08 AM | This is so easy...
Because it's like cheating without actually cheating. Why? Because we are not wired to be stuck banging the same women over and over and over and over and over again. It's boring after a while no matter what level of "spice" you bring. So what to do? A guy can cheat on you or look at porn to TRY and satisfy the need to see other women naked. Which would you prefer? | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much???
Posted: 11/15/2009 7:01:06 PM | | good point. we are just not wired. sex was designed for procreating and reproducing. so its natural we have the desire to bread with as many mates as possible. but now days sex is looked on as recreational and porn and if you watch porn it just seems so casual. everyone in porn has such awesome bodies and are in great shape. then you look at sex in real life and it appears in no such the same way. people are out of shape and don't take care of their selves. | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much???
Posted: 11/15/2009 8:58:24 PM | | It's not just guys. I love watching porn. I've actually dated guys who claimed to hate porn. Not me. I'll watch it all the time. | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much???
Posted: 11/16/2009 3:29:16 AM | | Generally we don't look at porn when our women interest us and keep our sex life fun. It probably also depends on the guy but for me when my gf was getting it on with me a couple of times a day then i never felt the need to look at porn or other woman at all. | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much???
Posted: 11/17/2009 1:24:44 AM | Why do guys love porn so much???
because they are men, that's why !!!! 
I sincerely believe anything in moderation is fine, but when it gets to be an addiction, forget it, no matter what you do or say, they're hooked and you're out, They end up thinking/wanting you to dress and act the way the porn stars dress and act.
I am NO way a prude, I like porn too, well soft porn that is, but enough is enough already, and I have had first hand experience with someone from this site, a real sex/kinky porn addictive who's in total denial, unfortunately this is all they think and talk about ..24/7
It can get pretty sickening to continuously listen to it, as well as never being good enough to match the porn stars.
It 's definitely an addiction just like alcohol, drugs, food, and gambling etc, but at least with these they don't cheat on you.
Porn Anonymous offers a 12 step programs for sexual/porn addicts
""We are powerless over porn and my life has become unmanageable"" as it is when your days and nights are consumed in such a sickening matter.
"as they say under every skirt there's a slip" heheh
anyway that's my lecture for the night, 
Nighty night  | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much???
Posted: 11/17/2009 3:00:03 AM | A lot of men like to watch Porn Stuff I get bored of it in less than 5 minutes. Porn is just WWF fake sex. But OP I have something for you too lots of Women like to watch Porn too.
I think the Internet helped to spread that and the science helped too with the invention of VCR and DVD people can watch porn any time any place. As I said it is WWF fake stuff. | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much???
Posted: 11/17/2009 5:08:37 AM | For myself personally. I love porn because i dont believe in having sex unless in a commited relationship and its always on hand to meet my needs.
Maybe stupid to some extent but id rather not have the one night stand and just get off to watching porn. | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much???
Posted: 11/17/2009 9:35:37 PM | What do politicians and porn stars have in common?
They are experts in switching positions in front of a camera, | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much???
Posted: 11/17/2009 9:42:10 PM | Personally I would rather star in my own porn, than watch somebody else... if a guy has a woman, but still uses porn, it can only be because he is'nt getting all the wild sex from his woman that he is dreaming about when he jacks off...if he knew how, or tied to communicate better with his woman, then he shouldn't need any porn.
Shome | |
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| Why do guys love porn so much???
Posted: 11/17/2009 9:59:31 PM | Now when us men start a thread placing all women together in one category we get chewed apart..lol come on now
Actually in the past I was addicted to porn, Now I am porn free, you want the truth..
I found God, and let me tell you something that was probabaly the only solution to my addiction, Well I wouldnt say addict.....lol
So yeah Not all men love porn....
and ps, maybe women would like it more if there were more in it for them, the guys are usually unattractive in porn.. | |
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