| Is it possible for men to flirt
Posted: 8/2/2009 6:45:59 AM | Pa..LEEEZZeeee Ms. actualizing ,
Must you reveal all my little secrets..??
xoxoxoxo
---SoldierByte--- | |
|
| Is it possible for men to flirt
Posted: 8/2/2009 7:25:58 AM |
I can testify with absolute certainty that there do exist men who are both erudite and lascivious, who can flirt captivatingly, without crossing the line into offensive, lewd or boorish couthlessness.
Point them out to me Hon, and I'll take care of them for you.
I'm always polite - never erudite. I hate erudite behavior. When guys get erudite on dates, and I've seen this happen, I've stepped in to try to teach them some manners. It never works. Some people are slow lerners. | |
|
| Is it possible for men to flirt
Posted: 8/2/2009 8:49:52 AM | And I don't want him commin after me either..!!
he may try to hit me with that remote...!
---SoldierByte--- | |
|
| Is it possible for men to flirt
Posted: 8/2/2009 2:06:31 PM | SOME men ARE ... offensive, lewd and use that awful boorish couthlessnes ...
AND THEY STILL make me smile!
 | |
|
| Is it possible for men to flirt
Posted: 8/2/2009 2:15:05 PM |
I disagree that it's a silly question. I take it as a blatant insult disguised as a question. It's not a silly question so much as a silly complaint. That may be a small distinction but I'm trying to be as silly as the material put before me. Guess what I have on as I type this (if anything).
Farceur, I don't know if any woman has been brave enough to tell you this, but wearing a bumblebee costume isn't a turn-on. Not enough skin showing...I like the Roman Gladiator look, myself. Mmmmm....shins.... | |
|
| |
| |
| Is it possible for men to flirt
Posted: 8/2/2009 2:32:50 PM | Ohhhhhhhh Ms. FriendlyFreeSpirit...
I"ve prayed for the day you'd see the light
and want to really "get busy" with me...
You put on the cat suit with the kangaroo pocket
and chase me swinging that hairbrush around the house
while I'm wearing my diaper, bib, and blue booties...
When you catch me.. you take me upstairs and
the we play "bad girl teaches the innocent lil boy"..
I'm at the window waitin for you to arrive..
hurry.....!!!!!
xoxoxox
---SoldierByte--- | |
|
| Is it possible for men to flirt
Posted: 8/2/2009 2:34:52 PM |
AND for the second question that popped into my mind while typing - ladies/men would you take out a man/woman who is obviously just wants sex and nowt else,.
If I found her physically attractive, yes. | |
|
| Is it possible for men to flirt
Posted: 8/2/2009 2:35:42 PM |
Just wondered men, can us ladies see some flirt lines in Forums so we know what to look for in the messages
Well I hate to give up my best lines for nothing, so I'll give you these instead.
I don't dance. But I'd love to hold you while you do.
Hey, didn't we go to different high schools?
There's so much to say but your eyes keep interrupting me.
If I could rearrange the alphabet, I'd put U and I together.
Do your legs hurt from running in my dreams all night?
Is it hot in here or is it just you?
If I follow you home, will you keep me?
The best way to hold a man is in your arms.
I know I'm not Mr. Right, but would you settle for Mr. Right Now?
Please be patient--this is my first time.
A person can be poor at history, but great on dates.
The best things in life are ME!
I used to be a terrible flirt. I'm much better at it now.... | |
|
| Is it possible for men to flirt
Posted: 8/2/2009 2:37:40 PM | | ...there he goes again that Soldierbyte FFS, he's flirting across the ocean again....and wearing nappies to boot!! OYE!!! LOL... | |
|
| Is it possible for men to flirt
Posted: 8/2/2009 2:49:35 PM | OYE is just the beginning, actualizing..lol..
SB, that wasn't a pretty picture. But errr thanks for sharing... | |
|
| Is it possible for men to flirt
Posted: 8/2/2009 4:18:37 PM | I think women like to be complimented on their appearance.
I think they want to be desired by a man.
If you leave those two things out of a new relationship you will be talking to an empty chair.
I think the difficulty is in not understanding that todays culture is not everyone's idea of a good thing. The dancing the kids do is often pornographic. The things we see in movies is rude and vulgar. It is too easy to think that kind of behavior is cool, hip or whatever the terms are today for those trying to be part of the in crowd.
I would think that men who offend you in the first few texts are saving you the trouble of dating them. | |
|
| Is it possible for men to flirt
Posted: 8/3/2009 9:52:17 AM | I know a few men whose idea of flirtation is to drag you by the hair back to the cave.
On the other hand, I also know some men who are so masterful at getting the right response out of a woman that they have many who want to go out with them. When I think about it, what makes it work so well is that they incorporate humour into it, rather than pure raw sexuality. These guys know that they don't have to refer to sexual acts, but they will let it simmer and simmer over time, constantly stirring the pot.
This is what makes me think that flirting can't really be learned, it has to be inherent.
Tootles.......... | |
|
| Is it possible for men to flirt
Posted: 8/3/2009 10:23:52 AM | Oh my lil honey-bunny Ms Cheshirecatalyst ,
You need not play "coy" and "Miss Prim & Proper" here...
I know you just itchin to have me "stir your pot" and
get things "simmering"...
If one of the other gals lets me use their credit card..
I'll send you a ticket and let you visit for a few weeks..
but none that "prissy" stuff we me....
Nope.. you and I gonna get busy....
And if you act right...
I may take a trip across that pond back to visit YOU..!!
---SoldierByte--- | |
|
| Is it possible for men to flirt
Posted: 8/3/2009 10:37:02 AM | Heavens to Betsy OP, this thread ought to be close to proving it's possible. And then into the gutter it went...
OP I think maybe, just maybe, you've got one too many over the line messages - or suggestions 10 minutes into a first meet. I understand! I've have such suggestions, via email, telephone and on a first meet, you wouldn't believe...not to mention the naked pics. Ye gods...why do men do that???
The point is though...they make me laugh! If you've got a sense of humor about it, it's a lot easier to take that you've just wasted your time on some bozo who has NO class and no idea what is appropriate and what is not.
THAT being said - I can appreciate a suggestive comment said with a boyish grin - NOT a psychopathic glare!!! | |
|
| Is it possible for men to flirt
Posted: 8/3/2009 10:45:14 AM |
Men who say I agree with you Not a Nurse, when you say men have behavioral problems..... when they are responding to a forum post of yours. It's not so much the agreeing with you, but the use of your name, as we sometimes do like to say your names over and over and again........are subliminally flirting with you.
Well dang it, I thought they liked what I said, I totally missed that they were flirting...my bad! | |
|
| Is it possible for men to flirt
Posted: 8/3/2009 10:52:06 AM | ***************************************************************
I've have such suggestions, via email, telephone and on a first meet, you wouldn't believe...not to mention the naked pics.
Ms cookie22222 ...........~!~~~!!
You promised you'd not tell on me..!!!
So much for a gal keepin a secret..:
---SoldierByte--- | |
|
| Is it possible for men to flirt
Posted: 8/3/2009 10:55:02 AM | | Oh Mr. SB honey I'm sorry...I've got them up for auction at Sotheby's next month, I thought they were works of art..... | |
|
| |
| Is it possible for men to flirt
Posted: 8/3/2009 11:17:04 AM | If a guy does, is it possible for a woman to respond, lol. And if not should we continue to flirt. Come on pat us on our head, rub our back, scratch us behind the ear, and we will shake our leg. Quit makin us do all the work geesh. Yep another slow day at work, lol. I get a little goofy from time to time. But I is fun to hang out with. | |
|
| |
| Is it possible for men to flirt
Posted: 8/3/2009 11:51:57 AM |
If I could rearrange the alphabet, I'd put U and I together.
...Hey, could I borrow this one....ya never know
I used to be a terrible flirt. I'm much better at it now....
..Or as I once said to a friend, " I'm a terrible flirt"...he came back with " No, actually you're quite good at it"
...maeflowers | |
|
| Is it possible for men to flirt
Posted: 8/3/2009 12:44:06 PM |
: The burning question on my mind is:
Is it possible for men to flirt without:-
A) Taking off their clothes for their profile picture?
B) Telling women they look hot?
Okay I hate it whenever people don't look at things fairly. It always has to be made sexist and then it puts the other group on the defensive.
But I will answer your question that you so kindly asked.
There are silly women that post half nude photo's to meet men........there are men that send shots of their body parts ....... These are the silly people. The ones that give you that big smile and you know why they are on the internet.
Then there are the people that take the time to send a wonderful sweet email. The ones that open the door and look into your eyes and smile with their heart. The others Thank God for them. It makes it easier to weed out what I don't want and gives me a laugh at their expense for being goofy. But the ones that tilt their head and listen to me or hold the door open, or make great eye contact and ask if they can call me again those I like. There are lots of regular everyday people just like myself that no longer know what to do whenenver they are dating. We are all fumbling through this maze trying to find someone that make the sparks fly. But I have fumbled and I have flirted badly using lines.......every-once in awhile bad manners because I was so uncomfrontable.......
Good luck OP....... | |
|
| |
Home
login 
