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| MEN HELP ME PLEASE!! I'm 23 with 3 small children....
Posted: 8/17/2009 3:25:22 PM | | i am a single dad of a 11yrs old daughter and if i can't find a lady to accept me as well as my daughter she is the wrong one for me do u know god if not that your first mistake and you need to pray with faith and god well send the right one to you at the right time i am being patient and when god sends her to me than we will put our lives together . | |
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| MEN HELP ME PLEASE!! I'm 23 with 3 small children....
Posted: 8/17/2009 3:58:50 PM | The above post ^^^^^^^^^^^^
let me ask you knidly because you believe that God i going to send the right lady to you you think that his none fuzzy picture and very poorly written profile will attract ladies to you? What about improving your profile and not relying on God that much. Just do it and more women will be interested.
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| MEN HELP ME PLEASE!! I'm 23 with 3 small children....
Posted: 8/17/2009 6:36:42 PM | | yes i do believe god will and as far as my profile i don't care weather it attracts woman or not most people get on here lie any way if i find someone than that cool if not it their lost i don't have to have any woman. i hate talking about myself so u have a bless day . and why r u looking at men profile lol | |
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| MEN HELP ME PLEASE!! I'm 23 with 3 small children....
Posted: 8/18/2009 5:15:13 AM | | I have young children who live with me half the time and have found that dating single moms is easier. They tend to understand the commitment you have to your kids. That is not to say that I there arent single childless women who arent good with kids either....keep looking Mama, you will find the right one...Good luck to you and continue to be the best parent for your young babies... | |
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| MEN HELP ME PLEASE!! I'm 23 with 3 small children....
Posted: 8/18/2009 5:55:16 AM | | I tell you one thing, you seem like a great women, and if were in canada, id date you, kids are awesome! Good luck, all men are not selfish, some of us the package isnt as important as the person behind them! | |
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| MEN HELP ME PLEASE!! I'm 23 with 3 small children....
Posted: 8/19/2009 9:26:40 AM | I am 25 year old female who is raising 20month old twins and going to pre-law school i.e. getting a degree, which from your post you don't think you can do if you have kids.... I think a man your age needs to understand a woman who is already supporting her kids doesn't need you to come in to the picture, so she can take a break from financialing supporting her children... Unconditional love and guidance is what Im looking for from a relationship for my kids...If I can support them financially before you I can do it during the relationship and after. Please dont be so ignorant in thinking that all woman are out there trying to find a dude to support them.
I am out there trying to find someone to spend the rest of our lives with... Where we can take "family vacations" i.e. traveling and seeing
Because you have children or take on the responsibility of emotionally supporting a child does not hinder you from doing what you want with your life. It just enables you to be creative in how you plan on doing it.
Im sure that it is your preference not to date single moms from your closed minded judgements. But there are plenty of men out there in dating woman with children as they know that children are truly a blessing of God and that its innocent life to treat with love... After all life is about love! | |
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Posted: 8/19/2009 9:40:03 AM | ^^^^ Not sure if the above was directed at me or not, but let me clarify.
The OP has three kids by age 23 and not married. If she does want to date, she better know "exactly" what she wants out of it and spell it out to any potential dating partner. Anything less is complete irresponsibility.
If she doesn't have concrete parameters of dating behavior (like at least using protection to not get pregnant again) or who she attracts, and has a "Whatever happens, happens" attitude, she will very likely end up with kid number FOUR and another absent father. You want that for her???
Loving your kids has nothing to do with taking personal responsibility for your own circumstances and avoid making your financial and emotional situation even "more" difficult and complicated. | |
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| MEN HELP ME PLEASE!! I'm 23 with 3 small children....
Posted: 8/19/2009 10:53:40 AM | I honestly don't know how many threads get posted in the single parent forums about this same topic - It's a redundant topic.
I am a single parent to my wonderful 4 year old son - I have been dating a child-less guy for close to a year now, and not only is he childless, he's not in a huge rush to start a family either.
Almost a year later, I can't tell you how many times we've had a last minute change in our plans because my son needed to go to the hospital or just got sick, or that his Father was 4 hours late on picking the little man up, and he doesn't complain (except when it's my son's Father who's late for no good reason, in which case he just makes the comment of "I'm glad his time is more valuable than yours") instead he knows that I'm a little sad by the unexpected interruption and he will try to support me however he can.
Can a single parent get a date? Yes. With an attitude like most of the people who start these threads? No. | |
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| MEN HELP ME PLEASE!! I'm 23 with 3 small children....
Posted: 8/19/2009 11:19:06 AM | Like pt barnum said theres one born every minute.
Maybe every newly single mom thinks they are rare, but yeah there is a new thread about this started pretty much every other day.
Answers generally turn out the same but waht kills me the most is there is always someone that says they will meet someone and a few guys volunteer but I think there must be a shortage.
If I could only figure out how to clone George Clooney and sell them.
Note to self get a subscription to Scientific American and auditing classes at the local universtiy. Some nerd somewhere must already know how to do this.
I know silly huh? but any more silly than the fact that this thread is so redundant? | |
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Posted: 8/19/2009 8:12:05 PM | Thats Great your a single father of 11 yr old ...& I am sure you are doing a great Job at that ...But One Thing I have to add thats This is a date site Forum the comments we make sure freedom of speech to an extent but Relgion is something as an individual should keep to themselves not preach it the negativity you just posted.... The person who started this POST "Men Help Me Please!! Im 23 with 3 Small Children" was asking for Help (Advice) ...Im sure there is a forum for believes (religion) somewhere.....
Good Luck on Your Search "Jarhead" hope u find the right one maybe your looking in the wrong place maybe a church would be best ? | |
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Posted: 8/20/2009 9:44:04 AM | | to the op don't take it personal some people on here would be rude no matter what you say and twist your words so good luck getting good advice instead of critisizm......... oh yeah and who cares why she had 3 kids she did thats that and nothing can be done about it so leave her alone on that and just answer her question or leave her alone | |
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| MEN HELP ME PLEASE!! I'm 23 with 3 small children....
Posted: 8/20/2009 4:44:36 PM | | hi jennifer0214 dont worry about al those buggers that wont go out with u because u got children they aint worth it. u seem like a decent person, nice and good looking so i dont see what the prob wil b. i been with someone with children once and they only thing i dint like about it is coz she cheated on me. i think its lovly to have children even lo u are dating. | |
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| MEN HELP ME PLEASE!! I'm 23 with 3 small children....
Posted: 8/20/2009 7:53:13 PM | | if i was younger or you older i would date you.all men should love kids even if their not their own.if they dont theyre not worth the effort.youll find a good one eventually.good luck | |
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| MEN HELP ME PLEASE!! I'm 23 with 3 small children....
Posted: 8/22/2009 12:18:14 PM | | children are wonderful, they aint anything wrong with having children when u are looking for someone. having said that only the decent of the decent will take on a mother in a relationship. id definatly date you myself. children aint bagage. | |
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