| ED in some form or another
Posted: 8/6/2009 8:32:34 AM | I'm from Boston too, damassteel, and I have seen at least a thousand more men your age that look as good if not better than you. I also think you need that 50+ eye exam because ALL woman past 50 do not look matronly !!!!
You may have a good body; I don't know, it's not worth my effort to check out your pic but you need to watch carefully for weight gain, because your inflated ego is going to add those lbs right on to that "tremendous body" ??? YOU say you have... | |
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| ED in some form or another
Posted: 8/6/2009 9:10:34 AM |
I'm from Boston too, damassteel, and I have seen at least a thousand more men your age that look as good if not better than you. I also think you need that 50+ eye exam because ALL woman past 50 do not look matronly !!!!
Hi carrie,
Your right in his neck of the woods as well.. So have to wonder how many profiles near his age that he really looked at.
By the way I see you have quoted "Oriah" on your profile. I also so love her books and have all of them. Not sure if you are aware of this or not but she is a motivational speaker from Toronto, Ont.
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Posted: 8/6/2009 9:52:46 AM | 123carrie,
Yes I do have a nice body, all profile pix are current. My lifelong commitment fitness is a point of pride for me, hence I've no reason to lie about it, it is what it is.
I'm not even on this site for dating and it says so in my profile. FYI, I never in my first post on this topic mentioned the word"All" not once. I used the words most or many, which at least to me is quite a bit different than "All".
Let's not forget we're speaking about opinions and taste. These things are not arguable, as they do not refer to facts : I like red cars...no argument possible. I think red cars are better than blue cars...now we can argue.
As well ,your attempt to "bring me down a peg" sounds singularly childish. It's unjustifiably personal and impolite.
I just as well could say the same about you,but what would be the point, other than to demonstrate rude behavior? | |
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| ED in some form or another
Posted: 8/6/2009 10:43:30 AM |
123carrie,
Yes I do have a nice body, all profile pix are current. My lifelong commitment fitness is a point of pride for me, hence I've no reason to lie about it, it is what it is.
I'm not even on this site for dating and it says so in my profile
Off topic but where oh where does your profile state you are not interested in dating?? You even describe what you consider a good date, the type of women you like to date etc and why.. To bring this back on topic keeping yourself in good shape will most certainly help to keep you functioning, so hopefully you will not suffer the same plight as your father did.
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Posted: 8/6/2009 10:49:51 AM | | Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, in some cases it is only skin deep, in others it comes from within. Sometimes beauty can be seen, other times it can be felt. Sometimes its superficial, other times it emanates or radiates from people. | |
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Posted: 8/6/2009 11:04:18 AM | ^^^ there's a section of the profile that asks what your interest is; friends, activity partner, etc.
I have checked; Friends
I am in a relationship at this time, my SO knows I post to these forums, we read and discuss some topics together from time to time.
My description of an ideal date (or whatever) seemed to me a requirement of the forum,( Am I in error?)
and doe not nececsarilly indicate a desire to use this site for the purposes of dating.
And thecatsmeoww,
Chances are good that at some point in time if I live long enough, it will happen to me. As it must; nothing of this part of life lasts forever. When it does happen and if I'm still otherwise healthy and interested, I will allow modern science to do it's best and help me to get by with a little help from my friends. | |
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Posted: 8/6/2009 11:26:04 AM | ED in some form or ANOTHER
I know, I know, I am bad.
Sometimes I just can't help myself | |
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Posted: 8/6/2009 11:27:08 AM | | Don't they make pills for that these days? It usually has something to do with the types of medication the guy is using. Its not strictly a 50 plus thing. It has more to do with a healthy lifestyle. Stay away from men who drink or smoke excessively. Stay away from men who are sedentary. Cardiovascular fitness is the number one determinate for erectile function. | |
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Posted: 8/6/2009 12:45:15 PM |
I am in a relationship at this time, my SO knows I post to these forums, we read and discuss some topics together from time to time.
My description of an ideal date (or whatever) seemed to me a requirement of the forum,( Am I in error?)
I have friends checked as well. It could simply mean you believe in being friends first. There is an option from the drop down menu for life partner/committed. Also most people that are in a serious relationship will either not fill out the ideal date part, or choose to list something else entirely that is strictly friendly in nature..
The incidence of ED does however increase with age.. Having said that there are many men that are fully functioning and siring children well into their 80's.. So it is not a give you will end up experiencing this problem.
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Posted: 8/6/2009 1:22:31 PM | | OP: I have read many but not all of the replies so if this one replacates please forgive me. There are 2 types of ED and they are as different as night and day. Most men, even before they are 50 have had this experience. Women, for the most part, do not have this problem unless a medication, physical or emotional problem exists that limits their libido. If that does not exist then no problem. Fact is these same issues affect a man and his ability to achieve an sustain an erection. We are also very different by gentics. What turns a man on can greatly differ from what turns a woman on. This trun on is the key to sexual satisfaction for both men and women. I have the pleasure or misery of experiencing both during my life. Certain women have the ability to get the best out of a man while certain men have the ability to get the best out of a women. This is all quite natural. In the long run after your past 50 it's really a matter of communication that will make a relationship last and I'm not just taking about sex here. It really has more to do with the mind and intelligence of how to use your abilities to satisfy your partner in a way that they feel wanted and loved. It all starts long before the bedroom. When choosing a partner at this age it goes well beyond the quicky. This may be your last shot at happiness! Life, as we all know is full of compromises. It's this ability or desire to do that or settle for a life with oneself. The ED thing can be solved but only under those conditions. Sexual gratification comes in many forms. Life satisfation is much more complex! | |
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Posted: 8/6/2009 1:27:08 PM | I say my thoughts honestly and I am an open book, for the most part. I did not like it when the man I used to date would take Viagra to please me. Ugh, three or four hours of it is not fun for me IF he is not getting the pleasure from it. Plus, he did not have a problem with erection, he just wanted to last longer and he lasted long enough for me. If it ain't broke, then there ain't no need to fix it, IMO.
PW, you did not read my words as they were written. I said, that it becomes work IF he is not getting the pleasure that he would without it. That is all I said. He never took it again and things were back to being great.
You have no clue what an azz is if you think a man who genuinely wants to be at his best for a woman whom he cares for. I am not going to post or respond to you anymore, it is no fun to explain the obvious. | |
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Posted: 8/6/2009 10:43:35 PM | | The best, most considerate, compassionate, and amazing lover I've ever known had ED. I married him. It doesn't matter to me what equipment a man has or how it functions as long as the brain driving it all works extremely well. | |
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Posted: 8/6/2009 10:49:06 PM | | ^^^^libby, i totally agree with you. and had a similar experience. you've said it better than i could. | |
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Posted: 8/6/2009 11:54:09 PM | Ok .......... now that we have ED all figure out ............
Lets talk about BD (bOOb drOOp)  | |
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Posted: 8/7/2009 2:03:41 AM |
Petrified....you're a braggard.........lol
No, it's quite normal...
Having said that- there ARE some issues that can cause Mr. Happy to go away:
(1) Her undisciplined children constantly whining to be let into the bedroom.
(2) Her undisciplined dog scratching at the door, whining to be let in.
(3) Too many breaks in the middle of the action "I'll be right back"
(4) TOOO much talking! Just shut up and enjoy it, woman!
This is of course is not ED, but psychological effects. | |
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Posted: 8/7/2009 5:39:02 AM | | Off topic, I know. Boob droop is medically known as Coopers Droop, caused by the weight of the breast tissue overstretching the Cooper ligaments. | |
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| ED in some form or another
Posted: 8/7/2009 11:38:23 AM | | I also hate it when men think that there is nothing the matter when they can't cum to the point. They don't realize they really aren't remaining rigid the entire time. Usually the profile indicates they smoke, drink and are a few extra to big & tall, well if they are honest, the pictures show the extra weight. Or they play with themselves too often. Any way you look at it, they think women dig it, they don't get that women want men to cum with them. | |
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Posted: 8/7/2009 12:19:17 PM |
No, it's quite normal...
Having said that- there ARE some issues that can cause Mr. Happy to go away:
(1) Her undisciplined children constantly whining to be let into the bedroom.
(2) Her undisciplined dog scratching at the door, whining to be let in.
(3) Too many breaks in the middle of the action "I'll be right back"
(4) TOOO much talking! Just shut up and enjoy it, woman!
This is of course is not ED, but psychological effects.
(1.) What an unfortunate can of worms this issue is.. I have to wonder why oh why would he/she pick a time when the children are out and about and not sleeping.
(2) As for the dog he can easily be crated or put in another room with the door closed. He need not hear you partying while he is standing on the opposite end of a closed door?
(3) Breaks in the action are you sure there was any action?
(4) You are not allowing words of love to be spoken either?
How does one being told to shut up and be expected to enjoy that?
One has to be careful not to blame their partner when they are suffering from ED. Unfortunately this does occur and makes the matter even worse.
Perhaps you might check out eating foods rich in zinc and drink some pomegrante juice it may work wonders for you.
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Posted: 8/7/2009 1:17:39 PM | cat said:
One has to be careful not to blame their partner when they are suffering from ED. Unfortunately this does occur and makes the matter even worse.
Perhaps you might check out eating foods rich in zinc and drink some pomegrante juice it may work wonders for you.
Not quite.
When presented with an unattractive woman, all the zinc and pomegrante juice won't help much.
On the other hand, a brigade of well kept, sensual, stunning women would drive Pfizer Viagra division out of business in no time. | |
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Posted: 8/7/2009 1:54:25 PM | Acutally that's not true! It depending on which definition you reference:
adjective
1. of, pertaining to, characteristic of, or befitting a man; masculine; manly: virile strength.
2. having or exhibiting masculine energy, forcefulness, or strength in a marked degree.
3. characterized by a vigorous, masculine spirit: a virile literary style.
4. of, pertaining to, or" capable of procreation." which means you have to be able to produce sperm
From my perspective when a man uses the word virile, he is referring to the fact that can get and maintain an erection and has a active libido.
As far ED goes, I took a human sexuality case last fall and was surprised to learn that starting at age 50 as a man's hormone levels change, much like a woman's, and not only does their ability to get and maintain and erection start to decline but more importantly they experience a decline in their sex drive and more often their ability to ejaculate becomes is impaired because they produce less ejaculate fluids, not be confused with producing viable sperm.
However, if he was the right guy for me and otherwise in good health, WE would find a way to work around it. | |
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Posted: 8/8/2009 8:42:39 AM |
Not quite.
When presented with an unattractive woman, all the zinc and pomegrante juice won't help much.
On the other hand, a brigade of well kept, sensual, stunning women would drive Pfizer Viagra division out of business in no time.
Unfortunately that would make women internalize that they were not attractive to a man that has a problem. If he was not interested she would never know he had a problem?
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Posted: 8/8/2009 9:41:20 AM |
the biggest impediment is that it is harder and harder to find an attractive partner (most probably true for both genders).. The arousal level of many men (similarly to women) depends strongly on how attractive the partner is. Unfortunately, many women over 50 don’t look as exciting as they used to in their twenties or thirties. The effects of suntan, make-ups, and alcohol take a toll. Tattoos don't make them any more attrative. But the worst are the extra pounds.
Oh please! Looks, cleanliness, and overall heath all play a part but you don't get to our age without some battle scars! Character and humor is much sexier to a mature person. At YOUR age (with no pic posted) are you implying that you have no sun damage, wrinkles or extra pounds? Prove it and post a pic. On the other hand - your profile sounds like a job application 
I am attracted to a confident, yet feminine lady, slender, between 5’6” and 5’9”, with a nicely toned physique. Since we might be traveling quite often, preference will be given to applicants without pets. | |
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Posted: 8/8/2009 10:13:04 AM | [The best, most considerate, compassionate, and amazing lover I've ever known had ED. I married him. It doesn't matter to me what equipment a man has or how it functions as long as the brain driving it all works extremely well.]---
---yes! perfectly said Libby! | |
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