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| When is it appropriate to take the step of inviting new friend home for dinner/movie?
Posted: 8/18/2009 4:39:21 PM | I've been dating as a 50 something divorced man for more than four years. It's been pretty much like getting back on the saddle.
And, now we women over 45 know what you meant by this opening statement. And, it only took three pages for you to tell us you are an indiscreet man. Engaging in sex with two women within a 24 hr. period is not the indiscretion. Bragging about putting a couple more notches in your bedpost publically....... IS. It's sooooooo Grade Nine.
BTW, what's the going price for a piece of azz, nowadays, OP? A couple of steaks?
So the question is, when is this appropriate in our generation to propose the "lets meet at my place" date?
When I feel confident, that he's looking for more than "riding the saddle." When I'm sure ( as much as I can be) that he's looking for more than a good time in the bedroom. And, that he's actually interested in "investing" time to get to know me, as a person with a mind, heart and soul. | |
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| When is it appropriate to take the step of inviting new friend home for dinner/movie?
Posted: 8/19/2009 9:31:50 AM | You two need to get a room!!.......  And if you do, can I watch?????......
OT.......I understand the newness of a potential relationship can make all parts of you excited and wanting to enjoy that person, because you can, and they want to you as well, because they can, but, using your brain first should dominate the situation.
If someone wants to have me over for dinner, and have me, I am fine with that, IF we have discussed it, been tested, and share those results with each other. I might want to enjoy them without all those things but I know myself as well, and what needs to happen before we head down that road.
Most of us have been in that situation where we have been invited over for dinner, and the last part of the meal is served in bed..... I find this exciting, enjoyable, and worth it, if we both understand what we are getting into, why, and talked about it enough to make sure that the both of us are safe, secure, and happy with the results.
Just my opinion........   | |
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| When is it appropriate to take the step of inviting new friend home for dinner/movie?
Posted: 8/19/2009 9:42:26 AM | I dont think the point some are getting, the man ended up with no morals, he put out on the first visit to a ladies house...the double standard no longer exist cause nowadays just as many women use men for sex as men use women.
It is about self respect...if the op had truly wanted us to believe that he was inviting women over for dinner for the proper reasons then he would understand how his actions at someone elses home would appear. Does he really think he was the first man the blonde had for breakfast? The next week it would be a different man..that is the point...some trade sexual favors like they are nothing..and to them they are but some of us only wish to share our bodies with someone who it will be a meaningful experience...not talking about a life long committment but who atleast allows their privates to dry between partners. The total disregard he showed in his post, he refers to her as a blonde...like the color of her hair was the reason it was ok. | |
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