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 Author Thread: Ugly Vaginas? what would stop you from being intimate when you see it
 nate_in_fl

Joined: 3/8/2009
Msg: 26
Ugly Vaginas? what would stop you from being intimate when you see it
Posted: 8/9/2009 8:47:15 AM
Doesn't matter too much what it what it looks like to me, if it feels good, and tastes good, everything's good.

Just as long as there's no Oscar Meyer weiner down there.
 Khyrene

Joined: 7/3/2009
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Ugly Vaginas? what would stop you from being intimate when you see it
Posted: 8/9/2009 9:12:15 AM

Ahh... FINALLY.. A thread I can "get in to"...

At that is not "lip" service....

Twat were we talking about?


You know what a Freudian Slip is, yes? (It's when you say one thing, but mean your mother.)
 miss_contemplative

Joined: 3/12/2008
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Ugly Vaginas? what would stop you from being intimate when you see it
Posted: 8/9/2009 11:13:41 AM
It is true that there are some genitalia that are not what one would find attractive or something you would want to get near. But whoever said that penises are just penises was way off base and obviously hasn't seen some of the least attractive ones. I've seen some damn ugly penises. That was a hell of an ignorant statement right there LOL! Anyone who has genitalia that looks like a mangled piece of junk obviously has had some serious things happen to them or have seriously mistreated their bits. Not pretty.

As long as it's healthy and normal for THEIR body, then I see no reason not to adjust to whatever it looks like but I too draw the line somewhere.
 whytwater

Joined: 8/7/2008
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Ugly Vaginas? what would stop you from being intimate when you see it
Posted: 8/9/2009 11:33:46 AM
I have seen ones that look nothing like mine. I've seen ones that got a lot going on and sometimes I feel like I'm missing stuff. I don't have things hanging all over the place. I also don't get caught in pant zippers.


ROFLMAO!!!!!
OP, I agree with Too Shadows. I've never encountered one I thought was unsightly.


IMO, if a guy is shallow enough to dump someone over what her bits look like, he doesn't deserve her. Period. I've yet to see two penises that look exactly alike.... but I was much more interested in the man behind the penis than I was the penis itself.


LOL!! Soo, if you think a pvssy is ugly, "No soup for you today!!".
Except for the hairy/bald variations, I haven't noticed a great deal of difference in the appearance of any.
Unlike Sidewinder's noble claim, at that moment when a woman's pvssy was initially presented to me, I was kinda mesmerized, and too busy taking mental notes to have her entirety uppermost in my mind. Yeah, no Sigourney Weaver to be found, only Zuul. Lol
 Truth1ness

Joined: 8/2/2009
Msg: 30
Ugly Vaginas? what would stop you from being intimate when you see it
Posted: 8/9/2009 11:47:39 AM
"IMO, if a guy is shallow enough to dump someone over what her bits look like, he doesn't deserve her."

Have you looked at the circumcision board at all, girls outright calling guys GROSS...and that they'd never be with a guy who isn't cut because he's unclean...and these are "rational" woman, not young girls who don't know any better..

I'm not saying that it's any more expectable...but I guess like a pretty smile, everyone has their preferences.


Truthy...desires of the flesh run deeper than most realise.
 srb272007

Joined: 3/12/2007
Msg: 31
Ugly Vaginas? what would stop you from being intimate when you see it
Posted: 8/9/2009 12:05:53 PM
truthy - avoidance is the best measure of flattery lol

soooo why you take your pics down truthiness lol
 Truth1ness

Joined: 8/2/2009
Msg: 32
Ugly Vaginas? what would stop you from being intimate when you see it
Posted: 8/9/2009 12:13:58 PM
Why not just PM me...so as to not ruin other people`s threads.

Or would that be inconsiderate?


Truthy...It's like talking to a Wal-mart greeter...once eye contact is made, you're a goner.
 srb272007

Joined: 3/12/2007
Msg: 33
Ugly Vaginas? what would stop you from being intimate when you see it
Posted: 8/9/2009 12:19:26 PM
truthy - exactly, now get your groceries and go home lol
 no_1_bby

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Ugly Vaginas? what would stop you from being intimate when you see it
Posted: 8/9/2009 12:21:51 PM

Have you looked at the circumcision board at all, girls outright calling guys GROSS...and that they'd never be with a guy who isn't cut because he's unclean...and these are "rational" woman, not young girls who don't know any better..

I have participated on many of those discussions regarding circumcisions... and my views are the same. I don't care one way or the other if a man is cut or not cut. As long as his hygiene is good, I don't care. I don't care.

In 20+ years of sexual activity there has only been one man who mad apologies about his penis. He kept it hidden until the very last moment and then couldn't stop talking about how, even tho it wasn't big (he was according to him 3" erect) it could get the job done. I don't for one doubt it. I never gave him the chance because his pure arrogance in other areas was very offputting. A man who is going to tell me what I like and don't like instead of exploring it on his own... not going to last long in my life. A man who was 100% confident that he had me nearly orgasming when I wasn't even aroused in the slightest... hasn't got a clue what I need or want.
 Truth1ness

Joined: 8/2/2009
Msg: 35
Ugly Vaginas? what would stop you from being intimate when you see it
Posted: 8/9/2009 12:46:30 PM
"I have participated on many of those discussions regarding circumcisions... and my views are the same. I don't care one way or the other if a man is cut or not cut. As long as his hygiene is good, I don't care. I don't care."

I know you don't, which is a breath of fresh air!

We just don't always see the same amount damage it causes a guy to have to worry about whether a girl might outright reject them because of a piece of skin, I mean most men are taught early on to respect woman and to not make light of a woman’s body because of the damage that it can cause, it just seems as though the same sensitivity isn’t as pronounced in SOME woman...I don't want to call it a double standard, but it does feel like it at times...then again the whole thing might just fall under the male ego!

I guess, whether you prefer an uncut guy, or a woman who looks like she’s just stepped out of a playboy magazine...with everyone being saturated with airbrush perfection, somewhere along the line it’s become ok to ask for unachievable beauty, which seems to be causing a gap between men and woman that will take a long time to close.


Truthy...now, just a lil off the top.
 junkyard dawg

Joined: 6/20/2008
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Ugly Vaginas? what would stop you from being intimate when you see it
Posted: 8/9/2009 1:01:24 PM
This has got to be the most amusing forum on here.Genitals are not pretty things, its not called bumping uglies for nothing.


OP -- If it's all gaping and lips so deep I could wear them over my head with little effort...that is a huge FAIL for me and I'd be outta there so fast she'd have to send my shadow back by FedEx.

Like thats gonna happen, gross exaggeration is poetic license at its worst.


No offence but a penis is a penis, just in different sizes...a p*ssy though can be quite horrific on occasion. No matter how worked up I was, an ugly p*ssy would kill it for me immediately.

Penises can look like disgruntled walruses at times , elephants trunks and are funny little things in need of a good ironing at best, but pretty they are not. Neither are they horrific, they are just penises.
Vaginas do not look horrific either, they are just vaginas.I cant believe women are getting surgery on their labia, why FFS.I, ll be damned if some mans opinions, persuades me to have myself butchered.If he does not like it, he can bugger off and find a woman who does not look like a woman, just some alien of perfection.
They say a guy does not look at the mantle while poking the fire, I reckon he is not looking too much at the fire either.When a guy is in full flow, the last thing concerning him is the size of your labia.Do you guys go down there with a measuring tape.Ok 3 inches to big, I have to dump ya.
This is as shallow as commenting about mens willy size except I dont read women saying mens genitals are ugly.Not good.














 cheerilystrawberry

Joined: 4/15/2009
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Ugly Vaginas? what would stop you from being intimate when you see it
Posted: 8/9/2009 1:06:45 PM

Have you looked at the circumcision board at all, girls outright calling guys GROSS...and that they'd never be with a guy who isn't cut because he's unclean...and these are "rational" woman, not young girls who don't know any better..


Au contraire, dear sir. I think those silly women need to be thwacked over the head with something hard and spiky.
 srb272007

Joined: 3/12/2007
Msg: 38
Ugly Vaginas? what would stop you from being intimate when you see it
Posted: 8/9/2009 1:06:57 PM
"Why not just PM me...so as to not ruin other people`s threads.
Or would that be inconsiderate?"

why not make a real profile so as not to clutter the ladies' searches? or would that be inconsiderate?
 Metallguru

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Posted: 8/9/2009 1:24:27 PM
Perfection for me is a furry front bottom that is quite trim and tidy "at rest," but once excited there are definitely some lovely lips coming out to play. So good to use my own lips on ,and a nice pair can really enhance the feel and sensation on your shaft. Also I like a woman to look like a woman when she is aroused, not a teenager. Picky- meeeee...? lol
 dawn1114

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Posted: 8/9/2009 2:11:57 PM

Also I like a woman to look like a woman when she is aroused, not a teenager.

What does this mean, please? The discussion is about how gentials look. That doesn't change from teenager (after puberty, anyway) to adulthood.
 Metallguru

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Posted: 8/9/2009 2:32:57 PM
maybe yours dont?- but many women's labia can grow quite impressively and turn a similar colour to the head of an erect penis when they are aroused.
 dawn1114

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Posted: 8/9/2009 2:35:51 PM
maybe yours dont?- but many women's labia can grow quite impressively and turn a similar colour to the head of an erect penis when they are aroused.

Hmm. Yes, I know this about the colour change. But that happens as a teenager, too. Like I said, after puberty. When you say the labia grows, do you me engorgement during arousal, or actually getting bigger as they get older? The engorgement also happens as a teenager. I don't know about size change with age, though. That doesn't make a lot of sense.
 Metallguru

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Posted: 8/9/2009 2:41:47 PM
Well-- to be honest Dawn- you have brought up a good point.

As I haven't slept with one partner for the last 30 years, I couldn't possibly tell you what newer partners labia were like when they were younger.
Without trying to be seedy or trite- I "assumed" that middle aged women's labia grew /developed that way as a result of Childbirth and /or "wear and tear.."
 azskayl

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Posted: 8/9/2009 3:43:25 PM
Have you looked at the circumcision board at all, girls outright calling guys GROSS...and that they'd never be with a guy who isn't cut because he's unclean...and these are "rational" woman, not young girls who don't know any better..


you know I've had an x who wasnt circumcised and he didnt take care of it everytime he pulled down the skin there would be white stuff and the smell omg . And because of that man it has ruined if for all others who are not circumcised because I will never give that a chance again.
 Truth1ness

Joined: 8/2/2009
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Ugly Vaginas? what would stop you from being intimate when you see it
Posted: 8/9/2009 3:47:39 PM
Isn't that like saying because ONE guy cheated on you, you'll never give another one a chance?


Truthy...Oh, the choices we make.
 azskayl

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Posted: 8/9/2009 3:56:23 PM
yea but it was soooo bad you dont even know. If you went down on a girl with stuff all in the creases and the odor was horrific wouldn't you be a little afraid to try it again?
 FallenAngel513

Joined: 7/1/2009
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Ugly Vaginas? what would stop you from being intimate when you see it
Posted: 8/9/2009 4:04:35 PM
Really an ugly vagina??

I have never seen one....

I mean, why the fu**k do we obsess over things like this.

I think a vagina is just like a penis, its all good as long as you know how to use it.....
 Truth1ness

Joined: 8/2/2009
Msg: 48
Ugly Vaginas? what would stop you from being intimate when you see it
Posted: 8/9/2009 6:00:28 PM
azskayl

I have had a couple far from...umm...awesome vag'experiences...but by no means did it turn me off ALL woman...it was just the guy you were with, and since both men and woman produce smegma (the stuff that was around his penis) it's not like I may never encounter it again in my life time.



Truthy...A little Ivory never killed anyone.
 fatgirlsareloyal

Joined: 7/29/2009
Msg: 49
Ugly Vaginas? what would stop you from being intimate when you see it
Posted: 8/9/2009 6:04:21 PM
Short answer....yes

Not afraid to admit that either.
 no_1_bby

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Posted: 8/9/2009 6:44:13 PM

I "assumed" that middle aged women's labia grew /developed that way as a result of Childbirth and /or "wear and tear.."

That was your mistake. You assumed something that isn't true. Mine haven't changed since I was a young teenager... and I've had 20+ yrs of sexual activity and 2 children.. mind you they were both c-sections (the first ended up that way but started out a vaginal delivery).


because of that man it has ruined if for all others who are not circumcised because I will never give that a chance again.


Isn't that like saying because ONE guy cheated on you, you'll never give another one a chance?


yea but it was soooo bad you dont even know. If you went down on a girl with stuff all in the creases and the odor was horrific wouldn't you be a little afraid to try it again?

I'm a little gun-shy around Geminis, Pisces and Cancer men... but I haven't eliminated them entirely. Had a guy not trust me based on the behaviour of his ex gf's... they cheated, therefore I would too. Not. Be open to another one.. and if you are worried.. make a shower part of your foreplay and then make sure he's clean to your standards.. just don't be OBVIOUS about it.
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