| women hitting men Posted: 8/9/2009 9:43:01 AM | Never had a lass belt me proper although last year i had a female Sgt throw her entire webbing at me in a fit of temper from the top of a shipping container...later found out she had been sent an e~bluey saying her marriage was over and her hubby was filing for divorce back home.. Bear in mind her webbing contained six magazines of live ammunition, personal beltkit and bayonet...yes it hurt and i ended up with a black eye and facial cuts.
I dont stand for antics like that and ordinarily he/she would have been charged and most likely booted out but due to what i later found out i accepted her apology and didnt take it further... I wasnt about to ruin a fine career cos of a moment of madness. | |
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| women hitting men Posted: 9/4/2009 1:33:07 PM | You're real funny tonight on here aren't you MissyH. Domestic violence isn't a laughing matter whether it's between males, females, kids or anyone. It creates fear, becomes abuse, where there should be love, and if you think thats funny, then you are obviously more twisted or drunk than a site like this needs. | |
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| women hitting men Posted: 9/4/2009 1:36:11 PM | | OP... Haven't been in that many relationships, but two of them were abusive, physically, emotionally the whole business. I've done alot of work to get through it and came out the other side :)... What alot of people don't realise is that roughly 45% of domestic violence is committed against men and that's reported. I'll stop there before I get too carried away... Hitting is a big No no.. Full stop | |
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| women hitting men Posted: 9/4/2009 1:37:59 PM | I think she is either a new troll or an idiot. Of course violence is never funny or acceptable and no intelligent person would say otherwise. She has achieved her aim though, attention seeking successful.
You can go now. Close the door on your way out.
To report you would grant you more importance than you deserve. Yes I take the p1ss but not on serious threads. And dont refer to me as gobshite, that is a personal insult and against the rules. Surely you know that much at least? | |
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| women hitting men Posted: 9/4/2009 1:42:20 PM | Well actually I do find myself amusing. If you take everything I post on here as gospel, then you need to step away from the pc, not forgetting to report me first for hurting your feelings.
You never laughed or took the piss out of something you shouldn't? You perfect like the rest of the PC brigade on here? I doubt it.
I've been hit by a cvnt boyfriend in the past. But what I'm good at is taking the piss out of myself before I do others.
There is no door, it's a tin'ternet site gobsh!te. | |
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| women hitting men Posted: 9/4/2009 2:03:33 PM | Missy here since the dawn of time and after twenty or thirty years on POF outed as a troll. If only we had seen it sooner.
Nice to see you back me dear, how things have changed.
As for hitting men, I don't condone it. I did it once and it caused me great mental trauma when I broke a nail. Now I just stab the mister with a fork. It does no damage to me and as yet it hasn't made him leak so he can't really complain. | |
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| women hitting men Posted: 9/4/2009 2:06:15 PM | | I think domestic violence of any description is not acceptable. My boys were taught by their late father that no real man would hit a female. I totally agreed with him at the time. However having now observed some females drunken behaviour I wonder if I should have taught them to hit back if they are punched first. Drunken women seem to be very sneaky and play dirty. As regards Missy H, there are all types of people on here, there are niches for us all. I get the feeling the forums are a little to "intellectual and stuffy" for you. Why not let us "gob shytes" get on with our boring stuff. | |
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| women hitting men Posted: 9/4/2009 2:10:10 PM | My son is now 10 and has had to deal with violence from girls in his school. He was hit because social expectations out there dictate that boys do not hit girls under any circumstances. This is not only understood by the boys, and I must point out by my son as well, but also by the girls who take full advantage of it.
I don't agree with violence full stop. However even as a woman I do believe that you don't 'give' what your not prepared to 'receive'.
(My advice to my son was to make it clear that he would retaliate, but as with all violent situations to avoid it at all cost. Funnily enough he hasn't had any trouble since, neither has he hit anyone!) | |
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| women hitting men Posted: 9/4/2009 2:19:19 PM | To report you would grant you more importance than you deserve. Yes I take the p1ss but not on serious threads. And dont refer to me as gobshite, that is a personal insult and against the rules. Surely you know that much at least?
Oh dear did I break the rules, bad bad Missy. I shall spank my ass verrrry hard indeedy. Rules are there to be broken : P
Well some people believe everything they read. And of course they are sooooo perfect that they have to attempt to belittle poor me lol. It's ok though, man or woman I will shove a rusty coathanger up their ass and make them scream my name biatches.
As for hitting men or women, gosh i just can't be serious. I like hitting men, and they like me doing it. People would pay good money for this.
How the hell is this too short, oh what can I say to the pof lifers to piss them off a lil more, hmmmmmm.
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| women hitting men Posted: 9/4/2009 2:23:31 PM | Missy you bad girl - youre ruffling a few feathers here!
I have never been hit by a man and I hope I never will be. Neither have I hit a man although I have felt like it at times! Im not a violent person but woe betide anyone who hurts a member of my family. I'd do time for them. | |
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| women hitting men Posted: 9/4/2009 2:58:32 PM | | anyway regarding women hitting men , it is a no go , just as men hitting women is a no go, if the men turns one day he could do real damage and get done | |
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| women hitting men Posted: 9/4/2009 3:00:27 PM | I will if you will. I mean you must be bad to not even attempt a real piccy?
It's ok though, with your fake profile I don't mind you having a dig. I kinda like the mystery.
*edit. awe you bottled out of your last post and posted something different. Never mind, I don't mind if I look like I'm responding to thin air. | |
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| women hitting men Posted: 9/4/2009 3:01:53 PM |
It's ok though, with your fake profile I don't mind you having a dig. I kinda like the mystery
it's not fake genuine like myself , only I'm a nutter and nobody likes me | |
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| women hitting men Posted: 9/4/2009 3:11:05 PM |
If youre prepared to throw a punch, be prepared to take one back. Regardless of gender. And be prepared to spend the night at your local police station. Coppers favour women everytime in a domestic violence situation. Our government would have you believe violence against men doesn't exist. | |
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| women hitting men Posted: 9/4/2009 4:45:44 PM | | I once had 2 couples living next to me, in the ground floor flat he beat her up every Friday night, on the 1st floor she beat him up every Saturday night after the pub. The female victim would scream out the code word for us to call the police and always got rescued. The male victim never said a word but I'd hear it and try to intervene being one of the few people who could calm her down but he would never let me call the police. I think that was a very common scenario, the reason the stats say only 20% is because so many men don't report it. So very sad as it's no less violent or abusive as when men do it. | |
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| women hitting men Posted: 9/4/2009 5:19:22 PM | Umm this one is hard, now is it due to these people or if we go deeper... Society as a whole turning everyone into violent *******. Or are these people not breast fed as children??? Or did they not get a hug when they where a year old, honest you hear this in courts!!!
I did like Mrs Hamiltons post regarding the nail, I laughed out loud thank you for that!
I have been in this situation I was 17, it was not nice, being kicked I just laughed until I could not take any more so cried, I hated myself for letting him win, then the hugs after, I still shudder, I still have chipped teeth from the occasions, there were a lot more than one, but I was not tied to him I should of got away earlier, but I did not... But when I did I felt lost... But I learnt a lesson.
Also the times I was asked what is that bruise, where did it come from, I just used to shrug, I could not even be arsed to say anything, once I did fight back, I went crazy, he was shocked and boy did he lay into me for that, but I was so proud of myself, I had stood up to him.
I honestly think it is a sex thing for some of them, always after there was sex, that was what is was sex... Anyway enough now.
Some people are not so lucky. But from that I did get a nasty temper that took me ages to get rid of, I hated men for a long time after that. I was not a nice person for a few years.
My children’s dad helped me out a lot, one of my children where having a discussion with their friends freinds, like you do... This boy told my child that his dad would beat my child’s dad up, my child turned round and said “Well my dad does not fight” this was to someone who was about 11, my child is 4, my child shouted it and was so proud!! Mind you, the ex did say, he was shocked our child did not say, “Well my mum will kick his a***”
There my work is done!! I so love being me xxx See you can get over it and raise your children to become better people. Mine rock!!!
I don’t want any sympathy that is not my reason for saying so, but I wanted you to know we all get over it and move on, if you can’t laugh then what can you do... Thank you again Mrs Hamilton I will remember not to annoy you xx
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| women hitting men Posted: 9/5/2009 2:52:26 AM | I took the mother in law out last night....
...pow right in the kisser, beautiful shot it was.
Seriously though in my view, as expressed plenty of times already probably, that a man that hits a women has no right to call himself a man in any way shape or form. | |
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| women hitting men Posted: 9/5/2009 5:24:13 AM | | But it's ok for women to hit men is it? A woman that hits a man is equally a pathetic coward because they know they can get away with it. | |
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| women hitting men Posted: 9/5/2009 5:31:54 AM |
But it's ok for women to hit men is it? A woman that hits a man is equally a pathetic coward because they know they can get away with it.
Sometime it is OK, Because the man or women, Ask For It !!!  | |
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| women hitting men Posted: 9/5/2009 7:35:42 AM | | domestic voilence is just that no matter if its male on female or female on male,,, and any1 who stays around after its been done once get what they deserve im afraid.. like cheating they do it once they will do it again of course this is my personal opinion | |
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| women hitting men Posted: 9/5/2009 7:39:07 AM |
and any1 who stays around after its been done once get what they deserve im afraid
Wrong, no one deserves to be beaten, whatever the circumstances. | |
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| women hitting men Posted: 9/5/2009 7:48:10 AM | I've never hit a pertner and i wouldnt dream of doing so...
When one of you is violent then its time to walk away...
I'm sure a fair few people are going to disagree with me now or jump down my throat but in my opinion if a woman is big enough to hit her partner then she is big enuff to take a hit back..... You cannot expect someone not to hit you back once youve hot them. | |
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| women hitting men Posted: 9/5/2009 7:48:49 AM | | well then they should leave and get out of it non of this rubbish i love him / i love her,, or i got nowhere 2 go theres always somewhere 2 go | |
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| women hitting men Posted: 9/5/2009 8:28:37 AM | I hate violence of any kind and have neither been hit by a man or raised my hands to a man either.
I have always thought if someone is violent towards you then they do not love or respect you | |
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| women hitting men Posted: 9/5/2009 11:01:44 AM | If either sex can't work out their differences without resorting to violence they are just not meant to be.
What annoys me are women who say they love their boyfriends even though they hit or beat them. I can understand they might fear leaving them, but stating that they love them? No. | |
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