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 SelfLoader

Joined: 3/23/2009
Msg: 26
is single sex better than married sex?
Posted: 8/9/2009 11:07:23 AM

I must say sex is much better in a loving trusting relationship...


Must remember that when i met someone worth trusting

Oh my cynical side just takes control
 lynx-1950

Joined: 6/22/2009
Msg: 27
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Posted: 8/9/2009 11:43:47 AM
When you first meet someone sex can be amazing. I guess the only way to keep it really exciting is to keep changing partners but does anyone really want to do that? You definitely have to work at it a bit harder to keep it alive when youve been with someone a long time - well in my experience, not sure about anyone else.
 Bright Eyes 44

Joined: 8/5/2009
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is single sex better than married sex?
Posted: 8/9/2009 3:55:47 PM
Does anyone ever make love anymore
 ~Hams~

Joined: 9/18/2008
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Posted: 8/9/2009 4:03:59 PM
So is having sex better whilst your single or sex whilst your married?


I often find having sex with a married woman quite interesting if her husband is away on business.
PS...I don't think I've quite understood the question sorry!
 |TheOne|

Joined: 7/19/2009
Msg: 30
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Posted: 8/9/2009 4:20:47 PM
Going by the title of this thread I thought it was about self loving...

You know thats a vice dont you, single sex.
It will make you go blind!

As to single sex I wouldnt know, Ive never had casual sex, only had sex with those I care about, so wouldnt call it single sex.
 GillYD

Joined: 12/7/2008
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Posted: 8/9/2009 11:04:47 PM
Ive been thinking.... Dont us silly women put more thought into this sex thing for me i know it has to be heart, mind, body and soul. Its not a quick fix i want or need.That i can sort myself.Or am i just looking for the wrong things do i want to much ?
 oggers

Joined: 5/10/2007
Msg: 32
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Posted: 8/10/2009 12:26:58 AM
tut, silly me ...

I thought that the OP meant "single sex" to be , you know, sex wiv meself ............ doh !


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 graeme not graham

Joined: 2/23/2009
Msg: 33
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Posted: 8/10/2009 12:31:27 AM
What a strange question surely if you were happy with married sex you would still be married?
I think I just love sex, maybe a bit to much thats why I am no longer married lol.
 aunty~Bulgaria

Joined: 7/17/2009
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Posted: 8/10/2009 12:32:15 AM
Im thinking its better in a relationship because your not worrying about your wobbly bits, (not that I have many lol) you feel safe, loved, and can just be yourself but saying all that it definately does depend on the partner, Ive had one long term fella that was totally boring and unimaginative, but another one who after a few years was still jumping off wardrobes!!
 Free-as-a-bird

Joined: 6/30/2009
Msg: 35
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Posted: 8/10/2009 2:40:37 AM
What a strange question surely if you were happy with married sex you would still be married?


Possibly not such a strange question after all, I imagine there is more to marriage (the same as any other relationship) than sex, and sex is unlikely to be the only reason married couples split, but I could be wrong...
 SelfLoader

Joined: 3/23/2009
Msg: 36
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Posted: 8/10/2009 5:34:26 AM

Does anyone ever make love anymore


Spose the gals would say 'yes' they do'

Guys...well its a different ball game with us...
 Watchingyouwatchingme

Joined: 4/13/2009
Msg: 37
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Posted: 8/10/2009 5:50:01 AM
Single sex is great for those who love the one nighters, are happy with the one nighters, and can only get one nighters usually when pi55ed out of their brains ..
Married sex/in a partnership sex, is by far the better option and most satisfying ..
 fairy-ellen

Joined: 6/4/2009
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Posted: 8/10/2009 5:52:50 AM
Totally agree with u, just seems a lot of folks have trouble trusting themselves and others...........
 brown**eyes

Joined: 7/19/2009
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Posted: 8/10/2009 12:57:14 PM

i know it has to be heart, mind, body and soul. Its not a quick fix i want or need.That i can sort myself.Or am i just looking for the wrong things do i want to much .


I don't think you want too much or that you are necessarily looking for the wrong things. If you're prepared to give up your heart, mind and soul during sex then it makes sense that you hold out for someone you trust can reciprocate. Personally, I'd sooner keep something in reserve until I was sure or my heart and soul might take a long time to forgive me for giving them away so freely.
 GillYD

Joined: 12/7/2008
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Posted: 8/10/2009 1:08:09 PM
^^^^^ likes this lady xx ha ha my heart wrapped in steel so it will never be freely given
 SJS

Joined: 4/3/2006
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Posted: 8/10/2009 1:16:33 PM
I think that each has it's advantages:
When you first start sleeping with someone it's all excitement and exploration and anticipation and desperate lust.
When you are in a lasting relationship it's all about the mental connection, and bonding and loving, and shared air, and acres of touching skin, and falling into those eyes.

*sigh*
So far as I remember, that is.
 vwulme

Joined: 10/18/2008
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Posted: 9/4/2009 12:16:21 PM

Eh...you mean married people have sex? .......with each other?

shabba nooo for some of us with younger siblings that would have meant our parents might have done things we would rather not face. The poor victims could always go onto Trishia for DNA tests to get free counselling to cope with the social isolation of having married parents.
 ~*mitzi~*

Joined: 8/17/2009
Msg: 43
is single sex better than married sex?
Posted: 9/4/2009 2:28:35 PM
carn`t remember avin married sex.must off i had 2 kids........
all i can recall........was (cornation street...a quicky........then turn the telly over for eastenders...

never missed an episode...


as for single sex.................i`m still waiting....
 Pheonix**

Joined: 6/17/2009
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Posted: 9/7/2009 2:22:17 AM
I would say married sex is better than single sex . I wouldn't insist on marrage before sex.
 samstyles

Joined: 6/6/2009
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Posted: 9/7/2009 3:13:14 AM
I think sex with someone you're in a relationship with, but haven't got to the stage of sharing a home is best...

Its better than married sex because you don't always share a bed, and when you do you make the best of it because you've decided you want to, instead of falling in to boring habits, taking things for granted and making half hearted efforts.

It's better than single sex because you've established a rapport and level of intimacy emotionally.

I know a couple where he keeps on his flat though they've been together over a decade. He goes back there if he wants to watch the footie but she wants to watch a movie, just for a few days when he feels like it, or she wants to concentrate on her teenage kids. He only stays when they both want him to, and they still seem very aware of each other and dont take each other for granted.

Seems like quite a good idea to me!
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