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 Confident-Realist
Joined: 2/8/2004
Msg: 51
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Bachelor parties...Do you have a problem with them.Page 3 of 3    (1, 2, 3)
In my opinion, it's either jealousy, or fear that he'll actually cross the line with a stripper. If it's the latter, why in the hell are you getting married? I think it's usually the first... and jealousy for a single-time event isn't a bad thing. Maybe the movie The Hangover got to her. :)
 Kguardz88
Joined: 7/22/2009
Msg: 52
Bachelor parties...Do you have a problem with them.
Posted: 8/24/2009 3:20:34 PM
i wish more men felt the way you do! i honestly wouldn't be thrilled if my soon to be husband wanted a bachelor party but you can also judge how wild it can get depending on what his friends are like, i was just in vegas for a girlfriends bachelorette party and yes we went to a male strip show/club and she looked but behaved i think as long as my soon to be kept his hands and lips to himself i could deal with him being around a stripper or too
just that once though
 broncsbuff
Joined: 4/18/2008
Msg: 53
Bachelor parties...Do you have a problem with them.
Posted: 8/24/2009 3:35:06 PM
I was a bouncer at a night club, a “meat market” as they are affectionately called. My opinion is a little skewed considering what I have experienced with bachelorette parties. I just give you what I have seen.

I saw one bachelorette on the dance floor with a guy had his shirt off and grinding the crap out of her. Is it cheating? I don’t know, matter of opinion I guess. I pretty sure I wouldn’t want my g/f doing what she was doing though. I had one female ask me on her way out to make out with her, since it was her last kiss by someone else by her husband. We kissed tongue and everything. Now, it probably meant nothing to her, as I’m sure it meant nothing to me. I’m pretty sure her future husband wouldn’t like it though.
I have seen many other bachelorette parties where I’m pretty sure the fiancés wouldn’t much care for her actions. Not to bash the women, I have seen just as bad on the other side with bachelor parties. It goes both ways. I agree it’s all a matter of trust, and the stories I gave you were pretty harmless. In the same breathe I sure wouldn’t want my fiancé to do what they were doing that night either…
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