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 Remembertohavefun

Joined: 8/23/2007
Msg: 75
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do you want more kids or are you done
Posted: 10/9/2009 10:29:50 AM
Three is enough for me. After the third I got fixed and haven't looked back. I love my kids to death as they have given me the perfect reason to act like a kid again and do fun things like build snowmen, scarecrows, decorate the house.

But I just don't feel an urge for more and will pass on profiles that say they want kids. I don't mind if she has existing kids since I love kids but I am done in the creation department.
 Jayderaven

Joined: 7/16/2007
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do you want more kids or are you done
Posted: 10/9/2009 2:30:07 PM
I'm done. Been done since my now six and a half year old was born and I told the OB/GYN to tie my tubes while he was performing the ER C-section.
Only once did it even come up - when someone was trying to fix me up with a friend of hers - she asked if I was open to having more and I told her absolutely not and explained that I'd had a tubal and she said that was too bad because he would definitely want one. So I never met him. *shrug*

So, it's never been a problem for me. If someone wants a biological child of their own that badly, then I am obviously not the one for them to do that with. ;)
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